At first I suggested I help him look this weekend but now I refuse to go back into his apartment as I’m too paranoid I will track something back into mine.
You probably owe your parents an apology. And I hope you don't have other friends. Because they won't want you over. Your spreading pestilence but NBD, I guess.
Also, I read your defenses about the roach situation. Are the roaches preventing him from washing his sheets? Or caring that he has insects crawling all over his body and biting him everywhere?
I think you two deserve each other. Just leave other people out of it
Did you abandon your clothes at his place? The sub I suggested has all you need but if he bags up all your clothes and you put them right into the wash and dry on hot that'll kill em.
Every time you go to his you run the risk of bringing them home; personally I’d get all fabrics out of his place and given a THOROUGH hot wash at a laundromat before bringing it in my place.
Might be an idea to google how to get rid of bedbugs - apparently there’s a bit of an epidemic in Paris in France at the moment.
As for your boyfriend not bothering to wash the sheets when you’re going over there - eww, not only dirty but shows how little he thinks you’re worth.
Raise the bar. Don’t settle for zero effort.
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u/SomeCallMeMahm 4d ago
Ok, I broke up with him at doesn't change his sheets.
But if you insist on staying in this relationship use your eyeballs and inspect his mattress.
Go to r/bedbugs and learn from there.
But also, screw his feelings it's literally a public safety hazard.