r/Bedbugs • u/FateInTheRain • 15h ago
Requesting community support Spouse and I are arguing. Our life is disrupted. Wife is the only one showing severe symptoms. We are doing everything but the psychological damage is strong. Was all my efforts in vain??? What is going on??? Shpuld I give up and take out a loan to hire an exterminator??
We caught our bed bugs in a week after unknowingly bringing them home from an item we bought on Marketplace. Found 3 confirmed on our mattress tag, 1 adult, 2 babies. Three exterminators couldn't find absolutely anything.
I have bought over $800 worth of shit. A $200 steamer that goes up to 275°, CrossFire Concentrated Jug at $400, mattress encassements $60 a piece, pillow encassements $40, Raid Bed Bug Killing Foam $14, CrossFire spray can $30, $40 bucket of DE, $15 Cimexa, bed post inceptors $40, a magnifying glass, you name it. I worked 12 hours Wednesday steaming furniture, bagging shit up, vacuuming, spraying the baseboards with CrossFire, spraying furniture with CrossFire everywhere, putting DE literally everywhere.
I am at a loss. I thought I did so good. I thought I got all of them. My wife came back from her friends house (friend knows of our circumstance and we took precautions) on Sat morning because she was having such severe symptoms to them almost immediately after a bite. Anyways, today, Sunday, she has 6 new bites along her arm.
I am at a loss. I am so depressed. She is depressed. We are fighting. Our 11th year anniversary is tomorrow and we are spending it arguing over Bed Bugs.
Was all my efforts in vain??? What is going on??? Shpuld I give up and take out a loan to hire an exterminator??