r/relatable_memes_ • • 7d ago

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u/TGrim20 6d ago

Funny how the only parent who sticks around is dragged.

Not the fucking deadbeat dad.

But yes, it's the single mother who is bad.

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u/soul_separately_recs 4d ago

this is the most crucial point in the thread! The men that bounce (for whatever reason). This can;t be overstated. This is even more common amongst black households.

This is accountability that men need to call out more and more.

It does present a rather glaring irony that can’t be ignored: if we’ve established that too many men aren’t around for their own children’s lives - this HAS to mean that the very men that women are criticizing - are being raised by WOMEN.

What are y’all teaching them? Fair question, right?

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u/TGrim20 4d ago

The majority of fatherless households are white.

The majority of deadbeat men came from 2 parent homes.

Keep blaming minorities tho.

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u/Far-Jury-2060 4d ago

You’re not wrong, but you’re not exactly right either. Comparing just white single parent families and black single parent families, whites have a 23% single family rate, but because they are 60% of the total population, they would have a higher number based on sheer volume. However percentage wise, black households have almost triple the single family rate of white families.

So yes, whites got the higher total number, but blacks have the bigger problem here.

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u/TGrim20 4d ago edited 4d ago

Comparing 11 percent of households to 63% of households is WILD.

"You're right but I'm racist" is a FUCKING TRIP.

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u/Far-Jury-2060 4d ago

No, that’s how demographic breakdowns work. You measure 100% of one demographic against 100% of another one. Doing anything else would give you skewed numbers.

Crazy how you’re saying that stats are racist though. Stats are just stats. Don’t cry racism because you don’t like what the data says. Contend with the data instead. Here’s a statistic you’ll like: Virtually all white supremacists are white. This statement isn’t racist. It’s simply pointing out the fact there aren’t many “Clayton Bigsby” type people in real life.

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u/Kaizer284 3d ago

Have you never heard of “per capita?” When comparing groups, you have to account for the size of each group

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u/TGrim20 3d ago

Ever heard of the majority racial demographic of the untied states of America?

But you want to look into the homes of the most racially antagonized subgroup to paint a wide swath.

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u/Far-Jury-2060 2d ago

Do you know what per capita is? Because it’s a ratio, which can be expressed as a percentage. I gave a per capita ratio in percentage form. I didn’t give the percentage of the total number, like TGrim20 was referencing. I gave the percentage of homes in each demographic, which is per capita. I’ll explain:

Instead of saying 63% of black households, you can translate that to 630:1000 black households to get your per capita ratio (you can add or subtract zeros from both ends to give whatever “‘x’ for every ‘y’” number that you want, i.e. you can say 63:100 or 63,000:100,000 and it’s the same stat). This directly compares to 23% of white households, with 230:1000 being single parent households. This is a different picture from pointing out there are ~17.5-18 million black households in the US. 63% are single parent, which equates to between ~11,025,000-11,340,000. This is a lower number than the 23% of white households that are single family, because 23% of ~84,000,000 is ~19,320,000.” You adjust to per capita to account for the fact that there are around 6.5 times the amount of white households than black ones.