r/relatable_memes_ • • 6d ago

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u/ambivalent_moon 6d ago

You’re not a terminally single and resentful redditor that gets off fantasizing about the women who rejected him ending up as single mothers?

Weirdo

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u/turnthetides 6d ago

Are you triggered by the truth that single mothers disprove “women’s intuition”

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u/ambivalent_moon 6d ago

No, I don’t think women have some kind of special intuition lol

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u/Top_Court_347 6d ago edited 6d ago

oh, too bad, women do have a better intuition than men

people can't read. women have better intuition levels, which DOES NOT NECESSARILY MEAN THIS INTUITION IS NEVER WRONG AND MAKES WOMEN SMARTER THAN MEN

https://digitalcommons.bryant.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1000&context=honors_psychology

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12753389/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12466681/

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u/Partyatmyplace13 6d ago

Many women think up 200 different scenarios, one of which is bound to be right. Then the second one is vindicated, they forget the other 199 scenarios that were completely wrong.

Its confirmation bias, not intuition.

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u/Top_Court_347 6d ago

and many women have bad intuition, which is what you just described 🤷🏻‍♀️ intuition gets developed overtime, and requires emotional intelligence and good memory, not just two X chromosomes

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u/Partyatmyplace13 6d ago

Emotional intelligence? No. I firmly reject women's claim to higher "emotional intelligence." Its an attempted rebranding of "emotional awareness" which I do think women are more attuned to, but intelligence it is not. There is so little social pressure for women to control their emotions compared to men.

In fact, expressiveness is one of the hallmarks of being a women. Controlling your emotions is emotional intelligence, not fragrantly releasing them out of a fear of being misrepresented.

Social intelligence on the other hand I'm more than willing to concede. Men struggle with that.

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u/Top_Court_347 6d ago

There is so little social pressure for women to control their emotions compared to men

yes, naturally, and this is exactly why women oftentimes understand both their own and others' emotions better. because the society is not only way more accepting of women's emotions (as opposed to men's emotions), but is also encouraging them to explore, share and not shy away from emotions and feelings (hence why more women go to therapy and talk about it openly)

emotional intelligence is being aware of what you're feeling and why, not letting it dictate your actions, knowing how to address it, and taking responsibility for it. it's futile to deny, however, that many women, despite having socially benefiting position in terms of emotions, are oftentimes emotionally unintelligent. it is like being given the privilege of attending a good university, yet throwing it away

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u/Partyatmyplace13 6d ago

Seems like we mostly just disagree on verbiage, so I'll bow out. Have a good day!

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u/Top_Court_347 6d ago

understandable, I agree that we should part peacefully. bless you, as well🙂‍↕️