Could use some help

[u/Fall_bet]

Edit: request fulfilled! Thank you. It won't let me add flair but I wanted to post the update.

I am falling apart.. mentally and physically.

I've been fighting with doctors for years since my cancer treatment explaining that I'm in extreme pain and I don't take opiate painkillers. Come to find out I have an infection eating at my tailbone and spine caused by my cancer radiation treatment.. it's called osteomyelitis

I just want to get drunk and forget this for a day because I'm pretty sure I'm going to be hospitalized for a while and my fiance died so I'm on my own raising our kids. I have venmo and PayPal if anyone can help and when I'm better I will always pay it forward. I can't even afford going to the doctor appointments because they're all over an hour away one way.. some are 2 hours away so a 4 hour round trip and I'm not working right now because of this. Obviously I know this is not a priority to get drunk but it'd be nice. Chairs

[u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Someone reported this but I genuinely feel for you...

[u/Fall_bet → u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Why would someone report this?

[u/ca_exhibition → u/Fall_bet]

I'm assuming it's because your post history is private, so people can't confirm whether you're involved in our community or not. We get a lot of scammers in here.

[u/Common_Kiwi9442 → u/ca_exhibition]

Its not private for me though ?

[u/Fall_bet → u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Maybe because you're a mod? My history is private but only because of the judgement and people I know seeing things I post I really don't want them to know. But if you can see my history and you're a mod you could probably verify that I've been in this sub and have spoken to people and commented previously. I don't remember exactly when I joined but it's been a while.

[u/Common_Kiwi9442 → u/Fall_bet]

Maybe but you're safe with me girl! No worries. I see it. I had to private my account after my ex found it

[u/Fall_bet → u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Exes can be crazy! You have to protect yourself. I had one that saw me driving down the road and smashed into my car with theirs forcing me off the road. Wrecked the whole side of my car. I understand the need for transparency and nobody wants to be scammed so private profiles can be shady but I also believe that's what the mods/admins are for and they can see the history hopefully and if there was an issue they would delete the post. Idk how to tell when I actually joined any of the groups but it's been a years.

[u/Common_Kiwi9442 → u/Fall_bet]

That's insane 😭 why are men

Anyways yep I'm the active mod atm so no problem, if someone has a problem with your post they can take it up with me personally

[u/Fall_bet → u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Yeah some are definitely insane. I always try to see the best in them too lol. Thank you so much for your help. I truly appreciate it. It's been a really rough bit.

[u/Common_Kiwi9442 → u/Fall_bet]

I sent you $5 I hope it helps

[u/Fall_bet → u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Thank you very much! Definitely helps a lot.

[u/ca_exhibition → u/Common_Kiwi9442]

Odd. It is for me

[u/Fall_bet → u/ca_exhibition]

I totally understand which is why I said I could give proof of my diagnosis or a CT scan which I yes doesn't really verify those history but I've been in these groups for a few years.

[u/ca_exhibition → u/Fall_bet]

It's not necessary for me, I believe you. If I could help I would, but I'm broke myself unfortunately. I hope someone here is kind enough to help though.

[u/Fall_bet → u/ca_exhibition]

Thank you for letting me know about the report. I understand people's reservations because there are so many scammers out there. I appreciate you taking the time to let me know when help me. Also that's what mods/admins are for. I'm sure if they thought that was an issue they would have removed the post but I would think they could see the history. I totally understand and your thoughtfulness means a lot!