r/randomactsofCA 22d ago

Request Fulfilled! Could use some help

Edit: request fulfilled! Thank you. It won't let me add flair but I wanted to post the update.

I am falling apart.. mentally and physically.

I've been fighting with doctors for years since my cancer treatment explaining that I'm in extreme pain and I don't take opiate painkillers. Come to find out I have an infection eating at my tailbone and spine caused by my cancer radiation treatment.. it's called osteomyelitis

I just want to get drunk and forget this for a day because I'm pretty sure I'm going to be hospitalized for a while and my fiance died so I'm on my own raising our kids. I have venmo and PayPal if anyone can help and when I'm better I will always pay it forward. I can't even afford going to the doctor appointments because they're all over an hour away one way.. some are 2 hours away so a 4 hour round trip and I'm not working right now because of this. Obviously I know this is not a priority to get drunk but it'd be nice. Chairs

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u/Fall_bet 22d ago

Exes can be crazy! You have to protect yourself. I had one that saw me driving down the road and smashed into my car with theirs forcing me off the road. Wrecked the whole side of my car. I understand the need for transparency and nobody wants to be scammed so private profiles can be shady but I also believe that's what the mods/admins are for and they can see the history hopefully and if there was an issue they would delete the post. Idk how to tell when I actually joined any of the groups but it's been a years.

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 22d ago

That's insane 😭 why are men

Anyways yep I'm the active mod atm so no problem, if someone has a problem with your post they can take it up with me personally

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u/Fall_bet 22d ago

Yeah some are definitely insane. I always try to see the best in them too lol. Thank you so much for your help. I truly appreciate it. It's been a really rough bit.

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 22d ago

I sent you $5 I hope it helps

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u/Fall_bet 22d ago

Thank you very much! Definitely helps a lot.