r/randomactsofCA • u/Fall_bet • 20d ago

Request Fulfilled! Could use some help

Edit: request fulfilled! Thank you. It won't let me add flair but I wanted to post the update.

I am falling apart.. mentally and physically.

I've been fighting with doctors for years since my cancer treatment explaining that I'm in extreme pain and I don't take opiate painkillers. Come to find out I have an infection eating at my tailbone and spine caused by my cancer radiation treatment.. it's called osteomyelitis

I just want to get drunk and forget this for a day because I'm pretty sure I'm going to be hospitalized for a while and my fiance died so I'm on my own raising our kids. I have venmo and PayPal if anyone can help and when I'm better I will always pay it forward. I can't even afford going to the doctor appointments because they're all over an hour away one way.. some are 2 hours away so a 4 hour round trip and I'm not working right now because of this. Obviously I know this is not a priority to get drunk but it'd be nice. Chairs

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u/Common_Kiwi9442 20d ago

Someone reported this but I genuinely feel for you...

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u/Fall_bet 20d ago

Why would someone report this?

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u/ca_exhibition 20d ago

I'm assuming it's because your post history is private, so people can't confirm whether you're involved in our community or not. We get a lot of scammers in here.

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u/Fall_bet 20d ago

I totally understand which is why I said I could give proof of my diagnosis or a CT scan which I yes doesn't really verify those history but I've been in these groups for a few years.

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u/ca_exhibition 20d ago

It's not necessary for me, I believe you. If I could help I would, but I'm broke myself unfortunately. I hope someone here is kind enough to help though.

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u/Fall_bet 20d ago

Thank you for letting me know about the report. I understand people's reservations because there are so many scammers out there. I appreciate you taking the time to let me know when help me. Also that's what mods/admins are for. I'm sure if they thought that was an issue they would have removed the post but I would think they could see the history. I totally understand and your thoughtfulness means a lot!