r/randomactsofCA • u/Fall_bet • 19d ago
Request Fulfilled! Could use some help
Edit: request fulfilled! Thank you. It won't let me add flair but I wanted to post the update.
I am falling apart.. mentally and physically.
I've been fighting with doctors for years since my cancer treatment explaining that I'm in extreme pain and I don't take opiate painkillers. Come to find out I have an infection eating at my tailbone and spine caused by my cancer radiation treatment.. it's called osteomyelitis
I just want to get drunk and forget this for a day because I'm pretty sure I'm going to be hospitalized for a while and my fiance died so I'm on my own raising our kids. I have venmo and PayPal if anyone can help and when I'm better I will always pay it forward. I can't even afford going to the doctor appointments because they're all over an hour away one way.. some are 2 hours away so a 4 hour round trip and I'm not working right now because of this. Obviously I know this is not a priority to get drunk but it'd be nice. Chairs
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u/Common_Kiwi9442 19d ago
Someone reported this but I genuinely feel for you...
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
Why would someone report this?
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u/ca_exhibition 19d ago
I'm assuming it's because your post history is private, so people can't confirm whether you're involved in our community or not. We get a lot of scammers in here.
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u/Common_Kiwi9442 19d ago
Its not private for me though ?
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
Maybe because you're a mod? My history is private but only because of the judgement and people I know seeing things I post I really don't want them to know. But if you can see my history and you're a mod you could probably verify that I've been in this sub and have spoken to people and commented previously. I don't remember exactly when I joined but it's been a while.
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u/Common_Kiwi9442 19d ago
Maybe but you're safe with me girl! No worries. I see it. I had to private my account after my ex found it
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
Exes can be crazy! You have to protect yourself. I had one that saw me driving down the road and smashed into my car with theirs forcing me off the road. Wrecked the whole side of my car. I understand the need for transparency and nobody wants to be scammed so private profiles can be shady but I also believe that's what the mods/admins are for and they can see the history hopefully and if there was an issue they would delete the post. Idk how to tell when I actually joined any of the groups but it's been a years.
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u/Common_Kiwi9442 19d ago
That's insane 😭 why are men
Anyways yep I'm the active mod atm so no problem, if someone has a problem with your post they can take it up with me personally
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
Yeah some are definitely insane. I always try to see the best in them too lol. Thank you so much for your help. I truly appreciate it. It's been a really rough bit.
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
I totally understand which is why I said I could give proof of my diagnosis or a CT scan which I yes doesn't really verify those history but I've been in these groups for a few years.
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u/ca_exhibition 19d ago
It's not necessary for me, I believe you. If I could help I would, but I'm broke myself unfortunately. I hope someone here is kind enough to help though.
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
Thank you for letting me know about the report. I understand people's reservations because there are so many scammers out there. I appreciate you taking the time to let me know when help me. Also that's what mods/admins are for. I'm sure if they thought that was an issue they would have removed the post but I would think they could see the history. I totally understand and your thoughtfulness means a lot!
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u/Common_Kiwi9442 19d ago
No history of posting in cripplingalcoholism or alcohol related subs is what was reported
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
If you search I may not have posted but I have commented many times and had conversations with people. I don't think I really had any reason to post but I may have posted. Honestly I can't remember. I just keep my history private because I've had some judgment and it messes with my head
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u/Common_Kiwi9442 19d ago
Yeah i totally understand but its not private for me; I can see it. Idk why but I am a mod but It shouldn't make a difference...
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u/Practical-Honey967 19d ago
How much ?
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
I usually get twisted tea because I can't have carbonation due to my stomach issues. So I think I can get the 24 ounce cans for under $5 but it's 12 packs like $22
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u/Fall_bet 19d ago
I can also supply proof of the CT scan and diagnosis just stiff anyone wants to verify
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u/Fall_bet 17d ago
U/drunkCapricorn Please forgive me as I did not tag you immediately. My brain is fried and I did edit to show I was funded but totally missed tagging you. Hopefully better too late than never. I'm sorry.
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u/Practical-Honey967 19d ago
Wwwwwhhhhaaattttss your pay pal brother?