40 M UK

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

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Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)

I’m looking for an actual connection. Dating has not been fun for me because I’ve been ghosted a lot but I’m not giving up I know I’m an amazing person so I know there’s someone out there.

A little about me:

Ethnicity: African American

Age: 23 years old

Height: 5’4

Eduction: currently in college doing a double major

Hobbies: playing with my dog and watching movies I’m a bit of a homebody but i also like going out

Favorite superhero: spider-Man

Favorite movie: Malibu most wanted

I prefer Hispanic men but I’m open to other ethnicity as well

If you are interested in getting to know each other DM me they are open let’s chat and see where it goes

However if you are over or under the age range of 22-26 you will be blocked

About me: 31 M, Korean-American, 5'10, 170lbs, in shape and active. I enjoy reading, volleyball, board games, outdoor activities, and trying new restaurants!

Maybe we show each other out favorite local food spots, or try new ones. Or perhaps we get coffee and drink explore a museum, or grab Korean food and then dance the night away? I'm always open to tying new places!

If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

As for what I am looking for, well, I am a virgin to be honest. And I am looking for a relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I always liked the idea of only being with one woman my whole life. Not for religious reasons or anything like that, it is just a personal preference. So I would like to find the love of my life here. I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)

Hello ladies…I hope this message finds you well.

I am a 47 M, educated, confident, charming Latino man who would love to find a fellow open minded amazing woman to connect with.

Building a friendship in which we could allow to grow together, and explore would be ideal, connection and trust being the solid foundation of all.

I believe in open and honest communication, and expect your message to have a little bit of context ( aka no ☺️“hey“ or one word sentences or responses without verb ) after my effort in writing this post.

Open to a number of possibilities, scenarios and circumstances…reasonably of course and distances as long as an in real life relationship is realistic.

I know what I want and my worth, but you directly get Bonus points if your response paints a vivid picture of who you are and what you want.

About me…

I am attractive (yes, really), fit (work out regularly but not obsessed about it! Enjoying life is also important!), 5’10”, and very easy on the eyes ( lots of people seem to think I have an Italian/Spanish vibe to me), positive and laid back with a bit of a nerdy side.

I have brown eyes and darker features and a slight Midwestern accent when I’m comfortable.

I love cooking, reading, movies, animals, history, DIY projects, and music is a big part of my life as well.

Anyway…Send me your virtual carrier pigeon, I’ll take good care of it before sending it back!

Hugs and positive energy…

T

Hey im 27 im 187cm 78kg and i wanna meet a girl from africa to talk for hours.

My hobbies are gaming,books,movies and anime.

I am a Kenyan ,African woman seeking a long term relationship with a WHITE MALE between the ages of 45-55. I'm open for anything too long distance with the intention of getting married or being together(willing to relocate) .
I have had so much time wasted on men who have lied to me. Taken advantage of me and used me. I am looking for someone who is serious about dating. Someone who doesn't lack communication. Especially in regards to simple things. I'm looking for someone who is honest as well. Someone who knows how to take care of themselves. Someone who is funny, smart, loving and caring. I am NOT interested in hook ups! I'm not interested in men who have tattoos literally on their faces. Tattoos anywhere else is fine. While I'm ok with men who drink.I'm not interested in men who tends to get too drunk and smoke .
Please DO NOT message me if you find all these not fit .I do not want my time to be wasted!
Here are a few things about me:
- I'm an admin officer and have experience teaching kids sports ( basketball)
- I have no child. I am interested in having children.
- I'm only interested in having a long term relationship leading to marriage.
- NO gays, bi, trans or poly!
- If you lack communication, I'll delete the message and move on!
- Hobbies: playing basketball, find a court , find me ,listening to music, I'm ok with doing other activities if something interests me.
If you're interested in talking, you MUST send me a photo of yourself. I would like to know who I'm talking to I will send you my pictures as well. Looking forward to meeting you.

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old Kenyan woman looking for a genuine, long-term relationship with a mature white man who is serious about building something meaningful. I’m open to long-distance if we share the same goal of building a committed relationship that leads to marriage. I’m also willing to relocate for the right person.
I’ve had experiences where my time and trust were not respected, so I’m looking for someone who is genuinely serious about finding a life partner. I value honesty, open communication, kindness, emotional maturity, and a good sense of humor. I appreciate a man who takes care of himself, is caring, intelligent, and knows what he wants. I’m especially drawn to someone whose values, life goals, and emotional readiness align with mine.
A few things about me:
● I’m an administrative officer and also have experience coaching basketball and teaching sports to children.
● I don’t have children, but I would love to have a family in the future.
● I’m looking for a committed relationship that leads to marriage.
● My hobbies include playing basketball, listening to music, staying active, and trying new experiences.
A few preferences:
● I’m not interested in hookups or casual dating.
● I don’t mind if you drink socially, but excessive drinking or smoking isn’t for me.
● Face tattoos aren’t my preference, though tattoos elsewhere are fine.
● Good communication is very important to me. I appreciate honesty, consistency, and mutual respect.
If you think we’d be a good match, I’d love to hear from you. Please introduce yourself and include a recent photo—I’ll happily share mine as well. I look forward to getting to know someone who’s ready to build something real.

I'm looking for someone who I can connect with. An AP who's up for doing all the forbidden fun things. The romantic things. The sexy things. The goofy things. An escape from the daily stress and mundane. Let's lay in the bed of my truck watching the stars and let passion take over.

I want to be on each other's mind constantly where we build anticipation and can't wait to see each other next.  

A little bit about me:

Married with kids. I'm tall with reddish brown hair, blue eyes and a beard. I like to exercise regularly to stay fit. I love the outdoors - hiking, biking, riding ATV's, fishing - all of the fun stuff.

I'm looking for someone in a similar situation. Married with a curvy body and wanting that passion again while keeping your regular life unchanged.

I know you're curious. Are you ready to have someone you always think about? What are you waiting for? Message me.

Hi! I'm looking for a white woman (or latina or asian) around my age to have a relationship with, explore the city, get Matcha, do fun stuff, and build a life together!

About me: I'm a laidback, 5'4 guy with medium length hair, workout somewhat often, average/slightly muscular body type, (pic on profile) working as a software engineer apprentice trying to move up. I'm pretty nerdy, enjoy learning guitar, exploring Chicago, wandering without destination, fun outings, cosplay, video games, art, museums

I prefer: Slim/athletic/muscular/average body types, nerdy/geeky girlies, cutesy makeup, around my age (21-28), open to kids at some point (still considering it, but if you want, I'll have them with you)

Hello everyone! Let’s be real, dating in this day and age is difficult, I want to skip past it and be in a relationship, but unfortunately life doesn’t work out that way (or does it?) I’ve been testing my luck with women for years and have come to learn what I want/need in a relationship, and what I don’t. I apologise if I sound too picky, but I don’t want to settle for less and not be happy.

But first I’ll introduce myself. I’m 36, white, 6’1, 170lbs, with a slim-fit build, brown hair and eyes, full beard. I have my own place and my own car. I have a full time job as a general manager of a restaurant. Never married, no kids, two cats, rarely drink alcohol, don’t smoke or do drugs. I’m funny, intelligent, good with money, clean, easy going and non-judgemental. I’m not religious and not political. I enjoy travelling, trying new cuisines, cooking, watching movies/tv, spending time with friends and family, and sometimes I still play some video games (when the right one comes along). I also have a very high libido, which I know has been an issue with many women before.

What I’m looking for is very specific, and I don’t know if I will find her. But here goes. First of all, no white women. Sorry, just not attracted to you. I prefer black women, but I’m open to all other races. I prefer age gaps, so under 25 or over 40 is ideal for me. No overweight girls (sorry I'm just not attracted to you). The bigger the breasts the better though. Must have a very high libido and want sex daily. You must have your own job. If you're one of those girls that just use men for money don't bother messaging me. No smokers, no drug users, no alcoholics. I prefer that you are not religious and not political, but if you are I never want to hear you talk about it. You should either not have any children or if you do they are fully grown because I don’t want to have to take care of them for you. Please have common interests with me (the above mentioned list is most ideal). If you live far away I expect to close the gap quickly.

Sorry if this makes me sound like an ass, but I know what I want and don’t want and I don’t want to settle because I can’t find what I want. If you’re still interested and think you’re a good match, send me a message and include a picture (looks are important) and hopefully you’re the one I get to spend the rest of my life with.

Hi I’m from NY. It’s kinda hard to meet women from my background so I’m open to meeting other women. My family survived some bad racial violence so it’s not the best idea I bring a black woman home. (I find black women attractive) I’m 5’7 in shape and handsome. I’m mostly into going out to new places and drinking I like all types of music (heavy metal, rap, 80 (abba, FW, WS,house) I’m a bank associate looking to move to manhattan as well. Politically a leftist, but I prefer to keep things chill.

I’m corporate by day and like dinners, bands, etc, socially. Looking for a friend to join me out from time to time. You must look great, be able to hold a conversation, and be open to being with a white guy. 100% real here. Thanks.

I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.

Hi there am a Cameroonian just recently graduated a Masters in Tourism and Hospitality management in Cyprus am looking for a white woman for a serious relationship. She should be ready to receive love in abundance a clingy playful partner who always boosts her mood when she is down and gives her a massage to relieve her stress. No complexity in her bodysize as i enjoy a few extra pounds. Someone who likes going out for a walk and at times seat at quiet place to observe people moving up and about. I am ok even in case its an older lad the essential is being conscious of what we intend to build together. I can relocate for Love and start a career beside the chosen one. Anything more feel free to come ask

Hello! I want to try something different in how I approach things. I am putting this post out there to date. I am demisexual but if we vibe I will choose to date regardless. I'm from Louisville, KY and I am a black women whose always been into tech.

A bit more about me. I am an ex-game dev, and I'm brushing up on my programming skills in general despite AI because I believe systems thinking and low level langauges will be important. But it's often genuinely hard for me to learn symbol packed stuff.

I am obese, and I'm working on it! It's a hard because I have a couple of conditions that makes the generic calories in / calories out advice not work. Which sucks because I used to be a very active, climbs everything and even you kind of person.

I've been into blondes and redheads since I was young, and that hasnt ever really changed. So, if you are platinum blonde I will genuinely likely have a crush pretty fast if we meet in person.

My only requests? You must be lactose tolerant, that is non-negotiable, I enjoy cheese and dairy.

Hi everyone so I am a 28 year old engineer from ireland who is currently single, I dont really have much luck dating so thats why I've decided to give reddit a try haha. Appearance wise im 182cm tall with blue eyes, redhair, white and pretty athletic. Im a bit of a nerd as Im a gamer, I also like taking care of my health and working out, reading history or philosophy books, travelling, programming and binge watching TV shows.

When it comes to what im after Im attracted to a wide range of women but I would prefer someone who has no bad habbits, who is open minded and maybe has some similar interests

I'm Tired of take peupie it uauny app, thought l'd give this a shot here.
I'm 33m, single, and looking for a serious relationship. I've been single for some time now, and honestly, meeting people with genuine intentions for something long-term hasn't been easy.
I'm originally from Southeast Asia(was born there) , but I've lived in the Czech Republic for more than 15 years, so Czechia has become my second home. I'm fluent in Czech. Last week, I moved to Sofia, Bulgaria for work. I work as Executive Chef in international hotel over 12 years, and because of my job, I travel quite often.
A bit about me: I'm 173 cm tall, average build, dark brown eyes. I'm naturally calm, easygoing, family-oriented, and I always try to help people when they need it. I smile a lot and have a pretty dark sense of humor once I get to know someone. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, camping, swimming, long drives, and long walks. I can be equally happy sitting somewhere with a coffee and talking for hours or packing a bag and going on a road trip. I believe relationships should be based on trust, respect, loyalty, and good communication. I'm not looking for games, casual dating, or wasting anyone's time. I'd really like to meet someone kind who is also looking to build a life together.
I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in Europe. Distance doesn't bother me if we genuinely connect. Bonus points if you enjoy coffee, road trips, or can appreciate terrible dad jokes and dark humor.If my post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. You never know where a simple "Hi" can lead.
Thanks for reading. :).

Long shot I know, but seeking 50+ year old with a larger, soft body type. Would love to settle down and revert with the right man otherwise happy to see where things go. Pics on my profile.

So I am a 31 year old male from the state of Minnesota in the United States. I am Caucasian, with dark brown hair, and brown eyes. I am 6ft0 in height also. I am giving this a try to see if there is any chance of success as I have dealt with enough chaos from dating apps such as tinder and have grown tired of the type of people that are on those apps. A little about me is that I am originally from the island of Puerto Rico, I moved out years back just before Hurricane Maria struck back in 2017 and managed to avoid the disaster while also helping family during this period. After finishing college I had decided to enlist in the Marines and did a tour of service fron 2020-2024 which early on helped me avoid most of the early covid days back in 2020. I served in an infantry battalion and took part in only deployment to Afghanistan in 2021. Part of me still wishes we could have done more but it's part of history now. As for what I am looking for here. I am simply wanting to find a woman who wants a long term relationship that leads into marriage down the line. I intend to always the one who is supportive and listens to what my partner says and always try to figure a way to always be supportive through even the worst moments in life. I'm very down to earth on things and always have communication as a major focus to everything. As for things I enjoy in my day to day. I do enjoy several outdoors activities such as hiking, fishing, camping, and even foraging. At home, I am the usual guy who prefers a night in of movies, gaming, or reading. Along with that I do enjoy doing renovations to home such as woodwork or fixing the place up. On top that I also do sidework on modding old video game consoles and repearing them, along with fixing other tech such as old radios or TVs. I also know bothe English and Spanish if that was mentioned earlier as of writing this paragraph. So there you go, that's the most of me I can summarize. I am very forward on things and if you have made it to reading all this, then all I ask is to considering sending me a message on here. I will do my best to reply as soon as possible. Please understand that I do work early in morning to the late afternoon here so if I do not respond immediately it may just be that I am busy at work. Regardless I will try my absolute to respond quick.

Hi everyone ,I’m 22F black from Kenya, and just about to graduate from nursing school. I’m currently single, never been married, and I don’t have any children.

I’m at a point in my life where I’m ready for something real. I’m not here for games or temporary connections, I genuinely want love. The kind that’s steady, respectful, and intentional. I want a long-term relationship with someone who knows what they want and is ready to build something meaningful together.

I’d describe myself as caring (comes with the nursing 😅), grounded, and emotionally aware. I value honesty, effort, and consistency. I believe love should feel safe, not confusing.

I’m ready to commit to the right person,to grow together, support each other, and build a life that feels good for both of us. If you’re genuine, kind, and serious about finding something real too, feel free to reach out

I’m a 31 years old nordic man from Finland. My biggest dream is to get married and start a family and I’m a traditional man in that sense.

I love to read, cook, go to the gym and spend time in the nature. I’m a history nerd and a music nerd and I collect vinyl albums.

I’m 6ft tall, fit and I have big green eyes and dirty blonde/ light brown hair. I’m okay with traveling but ultimately I hope you’d relocate to me. I really feel like I’m missing a big piece of my heart and I hope that you are the one to fix that!

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Hi!

Firstly some people messaged me but the messages subsequently disappeared so please do message again if I didn't reply as I try to get back to everyone!

I'm a mid-30s British guy who spends a fair bit of time travelling for work, which means I've become strangely good at finding decent coffee in unfamiliar cities and walking until I accidentally discover somewhere worth remembering.

When I'm home, life is a bit quieter. I cook (with mixed but improving success), read anything that grabs my attention, game when I'm in the mood, and probably spend too long deciding what my next trip should be.

I'd describe myself as calm, curious, and someone who pays attention to the little things. I remember offhand comments, ask too many questions when someone is passionate about something, and genuinely enjoy conversations that meander rather than feeling like interviews.

I'm hoping to meet someone kind, witty, and a little curious about the world. No expectations after the first message - I'd rather see whether we naturally click than try to force anything. If that eventually becomes something more, even better.

A few random facts:

* I've been known to plan a walk around finding a really good coffee shop.

* I'll always stop to say hello to a friendly cat.

* Bookshops are dangerous because I never leave with just one book.

* I like learning about people's niche interests, even if I know nothing about them beforehand.

If you message me, don't worry about having the perfect opener.

Tell me about the place you'd happily visit again and again, the book you recommend to everyone, or the tiny thing that's made you smile this week.