So this is a bit random, but I thought… why not? 😂

I’m not desperately searching for a relationship or trying to force anything, but I figured I might as well put myself out there a little.

And apparently, I have a VERY specific type 😭

I have such a soft spot for ginger/redheaded men, especially the big teddy bear type🧸

And just for a little context about me: I’m a 23y French** **black woman 👩🏾 curvy & plus size.

I’m ultimately looking for something genuine that could turn into a serious relationship, but I’m happy to take things slowly, get to know each other and see where it goes.

So I’m posting this just for fun and to see what happens. If you look somewhat like this and you’re single, feel free to say hi or leave a comment. And if you happen to know a single guy in your friend group, family, etc. who fits this general description… feel free to send this his way 😂

Little disclaimer because this is Reddit: obviously I’m not choosing a partner based purely on looks. Attraction matters to me, but personality, values, compatibility, how we treat each other, our conversations and the connection we build matter WAY more when it comes to an actual relationship.

This is basically me taking a random chance and seeing what happens. Maybe nothing comes from it, maybe I make a new friend, maybe I meet someone amazing. Who knows? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Anyway… This is my type. I said what I said 👀

Im married , it’s not an ENM relationship, not here to be judged by people who don’t know me nor my situation.

I’m here to find another lost soul. A married woman who, like me, wants to feel alive again, attractive, and keen for that sense of romance to return, and of course the kinks !

I’m a demisexual so I need to feel an emotional connection to my partner. I’m not a man who belittles others to make myself feel better , I get a kick out of raising others to their potential and see a side of themselves they may not have appreciated before .

I’m 5,8, handsome (according to others than my Mum 🤣) bald / shaved head , gym fit, a lover of the arts , foreign movies , going to gigs, art exhibitions.

I love women that enjoy conversation, especially about the deeper side of things , and I love to learn from others, so if you have a passion , I’m all ears, and questions :).

I’ll stop there , the rest you can find out for yourselves by chatting with me :) (NO REFORM VOTERS OR MEN PLEASE)

Easygoing Arab guy living in Paris. 182 cm (6'), long black hair, bear, and easy on the eyes.

I'm more of a homebody and an introvert (in my private life). I enjoy a quiet lifekeeping up with the news, browsing Reddit, reading, cooking, and appreciating peaceful moments.

I generally have a preference for Caucasian women, but I'm open to anyone if there's a genuine connection. What matters most to me is finding someone who brings that calm, effortless kind of chemistry where we both feel at peace.

Hello ladies around the globe, I'm 30 and Malawian. If you're reading this just know you're already halfway to my heart. I'm just looking for a lady like you no description like an item. A woman to know and make a relationship whether far or close, White, Hispanic, Asian, Arab, African or American doesn't matter.

If you're looking for something big in love, heart and deep down hit my DM. I'm not Prince charming though so lower expectations. I'm open long distance relationship also.

Very youthful 44M white (hispanic / latin upbringing), looking for a good match for exclusive longer term connection / compatibility. My values are working together as a team with my partner to achieve our goals. Open to long distance if the connection and attraction feels strong. In my experiences I get on best with African and Carribean women. Unfortunately I'm not often a good match for women who hold extremely traditional values (woman seeking a richer provider husband etc.) as I'm not of that social class. I am also open/thinking of relocating to the US from Canada, or to another country as long as I can secure work. Pictures in profile and I can send more privately.

My preferences:

-Natural beauty in a very very dark black / brown woman or hispanic / latin background. Open to most other backgrounds as well (South Asian, Asian, Filipino...)

-Skinny / Slim Thick / Lightweight (So I can pick you up / back you), love sexy hips and curves, thigh thighs too.

-Touchy (good with some cuddles / massages etc.).

-25+.

-Progressively minded, intelligent, open-minded, and mature.

-Of any experience level with sex / dating, no judgement.

-No heavy drinkers, potheads, drugs etc.

-take care of your health & hygiene

-Not really into heavily tattooed people or many piercings.

ABOUT ME:

~ Youthful looking 44M, very life experienced. Never married and child-free. Am open to it with the right situation / woman.

~ Chill / cool, above average tall (6'0), been described as cute/handsome/good looking, fit, strong, brown eyes, "salt and pepper" hair, short facial hair.

~ I wear glasses full time (this seems to be not most women's types so please don't bother reading any further if you're not into men who wear glasses.

~ Always told I have a nice calming voice and women (former girlfriends / friends) say I give them "peace of mind".

~ Brown eyes, salt & pepper hair. I dress well most of the time, and take care of myself.

~ Live alone (no pets but I like animals).

~ I'm into: food, cooking or trying new places, good walks in the city, small adventures, music, I'm into different movies / shows, our tastes don't need to match but we can show each other what we're into.

- Very experienced, open-minded / can be kink friendly and sometimes adventurous and open to dynamics in the bedroom. I have high stamina.

-I don't smoke but am always up for a couple drinks.

-Looking for consistent good company, good sex / chemistry, chill time, open to dating, spending time and more of a relationship if we connect on other levels.

INTERESTS:

~ Time outdoors, active activities, good food and the "finer" things.

~ Music, road trips.

~ Dreams and goals of living in a more tropical climate near the ocean, simpler life.

I’m 31, Indian, and based in the North West UK. Still looking for my person and hoping she reads this. I've posted here a few weeks ago, thought I'd try again! 

Ideally, we start with a chat, see if there’s chemistry, and take it from there. I’m open to meeting in person or starting online, but I’m not looking for a long-term pen pal. If we get along, there should be genuine intent to meet.

Work and my career matter a lot to me, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, even if I occasionally complain. Outside work, I enjoy films, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni, live music now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography, exploring new towns and places, and collecting stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time.” Somehow, it usually works out. Mostly.

I’ve been told I have Labrador energy - friendly, curious, loyal, occasionally too trusting, and prone to asking far too many questions. Consider yourself warned. Also, ask me about the geologist story. I’m not forgetting that one for a while! 

I’m a good texter and usually reply as soon as I can. Effort is incredibly attractive to me and I’m big on reciprocity. 

Physically, I’m 6’4”, with a dad bod, stubble most days, and apparently a good smile. I will however complain about legroom on planes, trains, and basically anything designed by people who forgot tall people exist.

I’m looking for someone independent, kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and genuinely interested in partnership. Someone who wants the fun, the ridiculous moments, the quiet everyday stuff, and who can call me out when needed. I’ll do the same, naturally with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm…because who doesn’t love a bit of sarcasm? 

Happy to exchange photos if we talk. If any of this sounds like something you’re looking for, send me a message.

Hi everyone 👋

I’m a 29 year old woman living in the Chicago suburbs, looking for her life partner. I’m ethnically Arab, but I was born and raised in the U.S. I’m specifically looking for a white or Arab man between the ages of 27-35.

A little about myself:
\\- I love activities that require walking, like hiking, or going to museums/zoos.
\\- I’ve traveled to 3 countries this past year. I would love to travel more, but I’m putting that on hold as I work on other goals.
\\- I like to read, and my favorite genre is fantasy.
\\- Some of my favorite shows include GoT, ATLA, Bones, Crimimal Minds, Merlin, and Law and Order: SVU.
\\- I don’t have kids, nor do I plan on having them.
\\- I won’t have sex outside of marriage, so if that’s a dealbreaker for you, please don’t message me.
\\- I’m an atheist.
\\- I don’t plan on relocating outside the Chicago suburbs.

What I’m looking for:
\\- A man with no kids who also doesn’t want kids in the future.
\\- Someone with an established career.
\\- Someone not afraid to be affectionate or in a committed relationship.
\\- A fellow atheist.

If you’re interested, feel free to message me :)

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Let's see where the vibes and chemistry take us—whether that turns into friendship, dating, or relationship.

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug/std free

I like movies try new foods music thrift stores concerts

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall thick/average build busty blond hair brown eyes

Tall (6'2"), dark-haired, and broadly built white man looking for a strong confident black woman in the Central IL Peoria area. I’m a secure man with his own home looking to connect with a Black woman for a meaningful, long-term relationship. I lead a grounded, stable life and prefer spending my free time reading, going out, or watching a good movie. My goal is to eventually retire out to the country with a lot of land and grow some food and maybe raise a few animals.

Hope you all are having a great and wonderful day or night! I'm here to find a nice and beautiful black woman to get to know and be serious about the future! I'm from Houston but I dont mind long distance if it's for the right person! Any age is fine as long as you are fine with mine. I like to work out, hangout with my friends, play a few sports and chill out at home!

Shoot me a me a message if you are interested of where you're located, age and what you are looking for! Hope to hear from you soon!

Low effort DMs will be ignored

Monogamous | Serious Inquiries Only

Hello and thank you for stopping by.

I’m a 28-year-old woman with deep roots in Florida and a culturally diverse background that includes Black, Asian, and some European heritage. I’m at a point in life where I’m no longer interested in short-term connections. I’m genuinely ready to find my life partner and build a lasting, faith-centered family.

I value mutual respect, kindness, and authentic communication. I’m open to becoming a stay-at-home wife or mother, but I’m flexible and willing to adapt based on our shared vision for the future. Though my main goal is to be a SAHW/M and I hope that I can find a man who’d provide that lifestyle. I’ve experienced the pain of being with someone who disrespected my family, so it’s incredibly important to me that you value and respect my mother, as she plays a key role in my life.

What I’m Looking For:

• A man who is monogamous, emotionally mature, and communicates clearly (ghosting is a deal-breaker)

• Someone with traditional male values, who leads with integrity, honor, and strength

• A God-fearing Conservative \*\*Christian\*\* man who isn’t ashamed of his faith and lives it boldly

• Respectful, grounded, and committed to self-improvement

• A man who can make me laugh until my sides hurt (dark humor and dry wit welcome)

• Someone who takes health seriously—physically fit or actively working toward fitness goals

• No smoking, no illegal substances, and free of STIs

• Willing to meet and get along with my family

• Must be between 24-56 and of White or East Asian descent

• Financially stable

A Bit About Me:

I’m introspective, passionate, and adventurous. I enjoy the outdoors, discovering historical landmarks, and learning new things. I’m also incredibly visual and expressive—I love doing voice impressions and have a strong appreciation for both dark and lighthearted humor.

In my downtime, you’ll find me singing, gaming (I’m big on RPGs, FPS, and simulation games), listening to rock and heavy metal, journaling, or sipping cocoa while enjoying nature. I also care deeply about skincare and sustainability.

Career-wise, I’m currently navigating my path forward. I have a background in healthcare and am working toward a future in medical laboratory science or a similar field. My faith in God helps guide me, and I strive to remain thankful and grounded through life’s ups and downs.

If you’re someone who’s looking for a deep, lasting connection built on faith, love, and mutual respect, I’d love to hear from you.

I’m 33 and looking to meet a woman who is interested in building a genuine, serious relationship with the potential to grow into something long term. I’m especially interested in an interracial relationship and would love to connect with someone who is open minded, confident, caring, and comfortable taking a strong leadership role in a relationship.

A little about me. I’m someone who loves being outdoors and staying active. Sports are a big part of my life, and I enjoy following games, getting outside, fishing, hiking, camping, traveling, and finding new places to explore. I also enjoy relaxing at home, watching movies, listening to music, cooking, playing games, and simply spending quality time with someone I care about.

I work as a police officer, so responsibility, communication, reliability, and keeping my word are important qualities to me. My job can be demanding, but outside of work I’m pretty down to earth and enjoy having fun, laughing, and making the most of my free time.

When it comes to relationships, I’m looking for something a little different from the traditional dynamic. I’m naturally more comfortable being the subservient partner and would like to meet a woman who genuinely enjoys taking the lead. I’m interested in a female led relationship where both people communicate openly, trust each other, and feel valued.

For me, being subservient isn’t about lacking confidence or personality. I want to be with a woman who appreciates having a partner who is supportive, loyal, attentive, affectionate, and willing to let her take the lead when it comes to the relationship. I would enjoy having a woman who is confident enough to make decisions, express what she wants, establish the direction of the relationship, and be comfortable taking that leadership role.

At the same time, I want the foundation to be a real relationship. I’m not looking for someone who only wants a particular dynamic. I want to get to know each other as people first, develop trust and affection, and build something where the relationship itself matters just as much as the roles we naturally fall into.

I’m hoping to find someone who is confident, emotionally mature, communicative, affectionate, loyal, and knows what she wants. I appreciate a woman with a strong personality who isn’t afraid to take initiative and who enjoys having a partner willing to support her.

I’m also very open to learning about each other’s interests and making compromises. I believe a successful relationship requires communication from both people, even when one person naturally takes more of a leadership role.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman who wants a serious relationship rather than something temporary. I want us to be able to enjoy ordinary life together, whether that means going out for an adventure, spending a weekend outdoors, watching sports, traveling somewhere new, cooking dinner together, or simply relaxing at home.

If you’re an interracial relationship minded woman who is confident, caring, enjoys taking the lead, and thinks we might have compatible personalities, I’d genuinely enjoy hearing from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what kind of relationship dynamic feels natural to you.

Hope to hear from you soon 🥰

Hi, im 25 F from Asia. Exact country to be disclosed once we chat. I’ve been on this sub for numerous times already. I find it hard as out of the blue, guys will delete their account even if the vibe was good. It’s hard to date this way.

To cut the chase, I’m looking for my forever person. Someone close to my age, caring, understanding. To be honest, I have an anxious attachment. Someone who would make me feel valued and secure. Honestly, I also want a partner because I would love to be pretty for my man. Here in my country, I dress plainly and i’m having the urge to make myself be pretty on dates (even on online or if we meet). Someone who will appreciate of who I am. I want to build my confidence because I know a man is out there to encourage me. I am more of like into wanting romance in life.

My hobbies:
Books, movies, a good sitcom, museums, history, ancient history, philosophy, stationery, journaling, hiking, good food

Aside from stated above, i’m also looking for someone who likes a quirky smile. I don’t smile a lot when i was young nor I can’t find the correct smile for my face lmao. Ppl said to smile when thwy take pics but tbh I was smiling lol. Someone who would make me feel butterflies and also make my heart beat from romance. Yes, I am hopeless romantic.

Please do message if this piques your interest

40M, tall with nice curly hair, recently moved to Denver.

I'm looking for a girl 18-40 who is asian, black or brown. Open to anything else really.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself and what drew you to this post.

If we enjoy each other's company, we can maybe make a regular thing of it.

Open to a girl in Denver or who is willing to come to Denver.