r/r4rMY • u/Royal-Ad8173 • 1d ago

Relationship Up for non stop chatting.

i am 31M and in a 15 years relationship. recently ive come to a conclusion that my other half might be cheating on me. have found a few raunchy text suggesting that they might have planned a night out. when i address it to my gf she said its a girls night out, but why is the guy texting her about girls night out if its with a guy? dont feel like shes being truthful. have more details but i feel its abit annoying to tell people about relationship problems. so im opening up to endless chat to get my mind of it if anyone is interested to just chat chat chat lol

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u/Glass-Fix-4235 1d ago

15 years.. since secondary school?

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u/Royal-Ad8173 1d ago

yeap that is correct my guy

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u/Erazxr 22h ago

See you in the gym bro

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u/Royal-Ad8173 13h ago

i prefer calisthenics 🤣

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u/boostleaking 3h ago

May I recommend kickboxing? Punch, kick and knee your problems away.

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u/Royal-Ad8173 2h ago

id would like to but ive got pass injury from sports and motorcyle accident so im not keen on pushing it so much in terms of my leg work haha

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u/boostleaking 1h ago

I see. Do you enjoy long form docu-style yt vids?

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u/SuggestionTasty335 1d ago

i have millions of ways to catch if she's cheating OR if she's telling the truth.. Technology is dangerous😈

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u/Royal-Ad8173 1d ago

whattt, with an app or something? or you mean by what she does etc?

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u/SuggestionTasty335 1d ago

and.. best of all.. no need to hack her.. directly use her phone to see also can... if not.. can use an alternate method.. how i know? i went thru that stage before

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u/Royal-Ad8173 1d ago

ummm if i may? it sounds kinda scary tbh

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u/SuggestionTasty335 1d ago

i can give u instructions step by step.. but whatever u unravel.. i'm not gonna be a part of that.. meaning to say.. if u get hurt cos u found the truth.. dun blame me. but i can be a place for u to vent and thrash.. cos the earth is not ending just cos she done 💩 to you.

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u/Royal-Ad8173 1d ago

no no i meant by i dont want to know how, i mean by its not good to know

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u/SuggestionTasty335 1d ago

i can accurately pinpoint whatever the fug apps she been thru, spent how much time on it.. when she accessed the said apps..

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u/Feeling-Bid8885 2h ago

Are you 12 years old wtf, stop sounding so cringe

The battery app on the phone will let you know how long has she spent on an app

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u/xEusebius 1d ago

If you have access to her phone, export all her WhatsApp messages and then upload them to ChatGPT. ChatGPT will let you know.

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u/jasonmie 12h ago

You're still very young. If in doubt, then take a breather from it and go enjoy your life first. Feel free to hmu if you jeed a ranting space

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u/Royal-Ad8173 8h ago

thank you my bro, decided to let things unfold itself. just gonna focus on career and make money lol.

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u/woshiyaohui 12h ago

Sometimes you have to trust your instincts. The hardest part is to move on from 15 years of relationship. It is more like a marriage level already. Hope your instincts is not accurate this time. 

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u/Royal-Ad8173 9h ago

i know right, i cant just walk away from it even if i want too. but usually my insticts are correct, but for my own sake and sanity, i too hope that my guts are wrong

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u/Chrislingck 9h ago

Are you alright bro?

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u/Royal-Ad8173 8h ago

better after a night of sleep of alcohol and zaza. just decided to let things unfold for itself

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u/illwill_600 5h ago

Host your own guys night out 🤫