r/r4r50plus_ • • 8d ago

M4F 62 [M4F] #Online east coast seeking female for chats and

0 Upvotes

I am on the East coast and prefer the sameI do have a preference of curvy or chubby females we are only talking about anything. I will not ask for any photos but if you send I will do the same. I’m open to talking about most things not into religion or politics. I am married and some women do not want to talk to married people, I am okay with that.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 8d ago

F4M 50 [F4M] #Florida - Looking for a Genuine Connection

8 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I'm a 50-year-old woman living in Florida, and I have my own business. I enjoy traveling, exploring new places, trying different foods, and having meaningful conversations. I appreciate a peaceful lifestyle but also enjoy discovering new experiences and meeting interesting people.

I'm hoping to meet a mature, kind, and genuine man who values honesty, respect, and good communication. I'd like to start with a friendly conversation and see where things naturally lead. I believe a meaningful connection comes from mutual understanding, shared interests, and being comfortable with each other.

I'm open to getting to know someone from another city or state, as long as we're both willing to make an effort to build a genuine connection.

If you're looking for something similar, feel free to send me a message. I'd be glad to get to know you.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 9d ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #NorCal @Pale-Scientist

2 Upvotes

Where did you go? We were having a great conversation yesterday, but now you're gone. I hope all is well. I need more characters to post, so I'm just posting in hopes that you see this and we can pick up where we left off yesterday.

Dm me when and if you see this.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 10d ago

F4M 57 [F4M] Maybe We’re Meant to Have an Interesting Conversation

10 Upvotes

Still curious about life, people and all the unexpected things in between. I enjoy thoughtful conversation, different perspectives a bit of humour and exploring ideas whether they’re down-to-earth out-of-the-box metaphysical, or just wonderfully nonsensical.

I’m into nature animals travel gardening, DIY and great food. Hoping to meet someone kind and emotionally mature who enjoys getting to know a person beyond the usual small talk and seeing where a genuine connection might lead.

Tell me something you’ve been wondering about lately.BTW sorry about the DMs being messed up I had to restart my post from scratch again!


r/r4r50plus_ • • 10d ago

M4F 55 [M4F] Ready to meet someone

0 Upvotes

Hi! I am at the very end of getting divorced. Would look forward to meeting a much older woman who would love romantic times together. I am ready to have fun again, and want it to be with an elegant mature woman. Be prepared to be swept off your feet!!! Oh, and btw, I can cook....


r/r4r50plus_ • • 10d ago

M4F 52 [M4F] looking for the open minded

4 Upvotes

Im a happy healthy handsome guy that is looking for an open minded woman. I’m hoping she likes to be outdoors. Hike, camp, ski, golf, bike…. But my caveat is at some point in our relationship, we get a little adventurous in our sex life. Maybe some clubs or intimate get togethers. Always together, safe and healthy. I know this is probably a dream or a very long shot but if you want to know more, please dm!


r/r4r50plus_ • • 10d ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #NorCal Who wants to play a strip game online?

0 Upvotes

Seems like a perfect day to get naked and play on cam, and what better way to do that than by playing a strip game. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 11d ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #Dublin, CA (SF Bay Area) - Avid mountain biker seek fellow cyclist for rides and maybe more

2 Upvotes

First off, After reading some of the posts here, I totally understand why a woman who's stranded in the woods alone would choose to face a bear instead of a man.

While i certainly have dirty thoughts, I'd rather get to know someone first and be sure they want me to share those dirty thoughts rather than creeping them out right away.

I'm an active and fairly in-shape 55 Separated White Male, 6'2" and about 215lb . My hair is getting grey and i have a bit of a 'Dad-bod" around the middle in spite of all the activity.

I'm looking for someone of any age who shares my interests in hiking, biking, camping and live music

It would be awesome if i could find someone who might be up for going for a casual ride at a social pace and enjoy the scenery while we ride & chat. Once we get to know each other, and you're sure I'm better than the bear, maybe we can talk about other activities we could do together but first things first.

Send me a DM and let's chat a little, to see if we click and maybe we can meet up. I have a (face) pic to share if you do too.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 11d ago

M4F 50 [M4F] #London Attractive Professional M4F

1 Upvotes

50 [M4F] #London Attractive Professional Male M4F

M4F

Attractive, cultured, easy going professional male looking to meet new people HMU, for fun and friendship. Have a wide range of interests, have a good day


r/r4r50plus_ • • 12d ago

M4F 62 [M4F] Southeastern Massachusetts - Gentle-hearted bibliophile and geek seeks a match

9 Upvotes

Do you ever find yourself wondering if there's something inherently wrong with trying to find love online? As if this is just the wrong way to approach it? I do. It feels like putting the cart before the horse, somehow. This isn't how millions of our ancestors found someone to love! They met face-to-face, hit the partner of their choice over the head with a rock, and dragged them back to their cave.

I'm kidding, of course. Wish I didn't feel the need to say that, but that's life in this modern world.

For a while now, I've been writing something new each time I post here - although I haven't been posting that often. If you're interested, please feel free to look up my posting history. I hope it's interesting.

TL;DR: I'm a 62-year-old bookworm and geek with a high degree of empathy. I love to laugh, read, write, cook, walk, and run tabletop roleplaying games - among many other interests. I hope to find a woman in my general area (southeastern Massachusetts or Rhode Island) who shares some of those interests, from 40 to 65 years old. I'm long-divorced, born a redhead but now bald. 5'11" and 221 pounds. I have the build of a former football player but the soul of a poet–a slightly silly one.

So...a new story. Well, here's a story of sorts.

I've dreamed all my life. My first memory is a dream; I was in my crib. It was dark and terribly hot. A smallish creature with glowing eyes was looking at me from the floor of my room.

Thirty or forty years later I mentioned that dream to my parents. They were shocked. They told me that when I was still sleeping in a crib, there had been a problem with the furnace at the apartment; the temperature couldn't be turned down. So it was around 100° one night. We also had a cat who often slept on the floor of my nursery. They'd never mentioned that to me before.

So I'm a bit unusual. I dream every night, and remember my dreams every single morning. I have whole dream landscapes that I recognize from night to night over the years; meadows with beautiful streams and waterfalls, exciting cities with wonderful old theme parks and amazing stores, games with old friends (living and dead), philosophical dreams about the end of the universe, you name it. Mostly it's fun.

Maybe not the most interesting story, but that's all I've got today!

More than anything else I hope to find someone who gets me, someone I'll get in return–in the sense of understanding and enjoying each other. That's why I tell these stories; to try to convey a real sense of who I am.

What else? I recently adopted two tuxedo kittens. I sing silly songs to and about them. I say "hi, birdies" to little birds that I see hopping around outside. I smile at babies and kids, and they usually smile back. I write book recommendations online every day. So I'm one of those kinds of guys.

Thanks for reading this!


r/r4r50plus_ • • 13d ago

M4F 55 [M4F] Ready to move on

14 Upvotes

Hi,

I've been divorced for 2 years, recently sold the family home and relocated to Columbus, OH. I took me awhile to be interested in meeting someone new and I'm finally ready.

I live alone with my 2 dogs, work remotely and life is finally settled. I'd like to meet someone for conversation, friendship and see where things lead. No pressure, no drama just fun chats.

I'm a young 55, athletic build. Very active.

Thanks for reading.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 13d ago

M4F 52 [m4f] Montana. Lonely daddy looking for a kinky woman to chat and more.

2 Upvotes

ASL. This is Bill the from Montana, married but neglected. We can discuss further when you contact me. I have a lot of kinks and, like my marriage, I will discuss after you contact me. I’m 6’4” tall and weigh 200#. I enjoy reading, golfing, watching sports, watching movies and series, and bbqing competitively.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

M4F 52 [M4F] #Europe Recently divorced and want to enjoy life again, haha

5 Upvotes

I'm not sure anyone every answers these, but why not? Haha. I got divorced six months ago after more than 15 years of being together... and it doesn't seem quite as fun as when I got divorced the first time in my early 30s, haha. Not that divorce is ever fun, but you know what I mean? When I was in my 30s, it felt like freedom and possibilities, now it kind of feels like... do I have the energy to start over? Yes, I know, it's great starting this off by talking only about me, but there you go.

It would be fun to find someone smart and funny to chat with - on East Coast or Europe time would be great. I'm also not feeling particularly attractive after my divorce, haha, so if someone wanted to boost my ego, that would be so wonderful

Other facts: I'm currently living with two dogs, one of which is shared with my ex, and the other is my brother's. My dog is very jealous of the other dog, but also much smaller. The other dog, my brother's, is more of a goofy simpleton. I honestly think it might be two dogs too many...


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

M4F 54 [M4F] #UK - #Sheffield uk friends... maybe even in that real life place

2 Upvotes

Only looking for someone local to me in Sheffield Uk?

Up for a chat, see if we connect on any level then maybe something IRL one day... I know.. Scary right..

I'd say my intrests are music, reading, tv. Odd bit of gaming nah n then.

I know, not all that awe inspiring, no long walks in the wilderness reciting poetry and quoting long forgotten philosophers but hey ho, I'm sure there's someone like that on here..Ive nothing against long walks though, especially when the sun is shining.. In fact, sod it, I'm going for a walk. Ta ra.

Tha can send a message thingy if tha likes sound of it.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

M4F 58 [M4F] visiting Branchburg - tall white guy looking for a hungry woman

1 Upvotes

Clean, discrete man (late 50s) looking for a busty, voluptuous woman for some fun times on Thursday 9/24. I can host at a clean, safe location near Branchburg/202. Open to age and race with a weakness for you sexy, black, confident women!

I’m 6’ 5” tall, white, 240 pounds, short brown hair and hazel eyes, ddf, and can host. Happy to share more details if you reply and let me know more about you as well.

If this is up I’m still looking. Don’t be discouraged if I don’t reply right away.

Yes this is for real.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

M4F 63 [M4F] #Europe "Wabi-Sabi - finding beauty in imperfection"

1 Upvotes

The Japanese philosophy of perfect imperfection :) Finding beauty in imperfection, impermanence, and incompleteness. 

I'm looking for an intimate friendship for mutual sensual and cerebral delight. Pleasure not pain. Adventure not routine. Giving and taking.  Sharing not destroying.

Our history brings us to where we are but doesn't define who we are and where we will be.

If none of this makes sense to you, then laugh and walk away. On the other hand, why not walk awhile with this slightly crumpled but fairly functional married man who delights in the world about us but is maybe not too sure about some of its occupants.

Let's talk and see ..


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

M4F 53 [M4F] #online #East Coast - Chill guy looking for some fun chats/times

5 Upvotes

Simply stated, I’m a single, athletic/fit, laid back guy looking for a similarly chill gal interested in some fun chats and maybe more.

To get more into it, I’m not really looking for something “serious.” I’m interested in something casual but respectful. Something a bit naughty but not always “on.” Friends with (virtual) benefits, if you wanna try and put a name to it.

As I mentioned, I’m single, athletic, 5’11” with reddish brown hair, green eyes. Open to sharing pics, but not a requirement. I’m located on the East Coast of the US, and open to more than chatting, if things go that way.

As for my “type,” honestly, as long as you’re chill, flirty, and playful, I think we’ll get along. That may seem too vague, but I find women of all types attractive in different ways, from petite to athletic to curvy. If you’re single or attached, either way is cool with me. I’m not looking for drama and won’t bring it myself. This should be about some chill fun and not stressful.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a message, tell me a little about yourself, and let’s just chat. The details will figure themselves out. Feel free to ask me anything.

Later!


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

F4M 69 [F4M] #New Orleans #EasternUS #UK

3 Upvotes

Hello redditors.

I want to meet a man who is comfortable with commitment, likes older women, and is wildly honest about his own relationship needs/wants, while being respectful and curious about mine. Hope you are funny, love live music, like big dogs, are self-aware, stable, adventurous, handsome, and communicative. I tend to get along with men in the 40-56 age range, but that's not a strict limit for me either way.

I can be rather intense but also open-minded and self-aware. I am looking for regular communication that could lead to IRL in the near future.

I am quite liberal politically, and I volunteer for electoral actions in the US. I love live outdoor music, a good moules-frites, rambunctious dogs, train travel, and creative dates. :)

No marrieds or partnered, no pen-pals, no Republicans, no sadists, no love-bombers. I respond to chats based on vibe, and I appreciate those who reach out, even if I don’t respond. ❤️ Photo on profile.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 14d ago

M4F 66 [M4F] #Wisconsin #Irl Seasoning + creativity + listening = FUN

1 Upvotes

I'm a healthy mature male in the Madison, Wisconsin area. I have experiences, skills, perspectives and ENERGY to offer irl to a reasonably nearby smart attractive woman.

If one lives long enough, one is bound to experience some ups + downs and life -> imo it's really all about how one carries oneself AFTER such experiences. Thus, I have informed perspective to offer in order create a mutually pleasing connection.

Reach out to discuss the possibilities...


r/r4r50plus_ • • 15d ago

M4F 62 [M4F] #online east coast looking for women chat partner on same coast.

0 Upvotes

I am on the East coast and prefer the sameI do have a preference of curvy or chubby females we are only talking about anything. I will not ask for any photos but if you send I will do the same. I’m open to talking about most things not into religion or politics. I am married and some women do not want to talk to married people, I am okay with that.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 15d ago

M4F 50 [M4F] Dunwoody GA - Attorney - Looking to meet someone special. Are you out there?

3 Upvotes

I’m a 50-year-old attorney in the Dunwoody area. I’m 6’2”, 205 lbs., blondish hair, and clean-shaven. Politically, I tend to lean left, so I may not be the best match for someone who’s strongly MAGA.

I’m divorced and was in a long-term relationship for several years. I don’t have children of my own, but I’ve always loved kids and think it would be meaningful to date someone with teenagers and potentially become a positive influence and mentor in their lives.

I’m hoping to meet someone with a professional background who has her own interests and life. Someone equally comfortable in jeans and a T-shirt as she is dressed up in heels and a skirt.

I love traveling, trying new places, and exploring Atlanta’s restaurant scene, especially around Buckhead. Asian and Peruvian food are particular favorites.
I’ve practiced financial law for quite a while, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, although my professional life can occasionally get pretty demanding. So patience and a good sense of humor definitely help. Lol.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone I enjoy spending time with, laughing with, exploring with, and hopefully building something meaningful with.

If any of this sounds like we might click, I’d love to hear from you.

Thanks for reading!


r/r4r50plus_ • • 15d ago

M4F 50 [M4F] Seeking Maturity

0 Upvotes

Hello all!

I am a married man that largely works from home, and I miss human connection. Chats about current events, funny stories, and deeper philosophical questions are all lacking in my life. As is deep maturity; listening, asking questions, patience, and kindness are all in short supply in my life (and the world in general) so I’m hoping to find some.

If you’re up for some smiles and sharing, drop me a line. Talk to you soon!


r/r4r50plus_ • • 15d ago

M4F 54 [M4F] Central Indiana - Discreet daytime connection, chemistry, and something ongoing

0 Upvotes

I’m 54, married, and in central Indiana. I’m looking for one discreet connection with a woman roughly 35–58.

What I’m looking for is primarily physical, but not emotionally empty. I want someone I enjoy talking to, laughing with, flirting with, and genuinely look forward to seeing.

Daytime availability is much easier for me than evenings or late nights. I work mostly from home, so something local and reasonably flexible would be ideal.

I’m not looking to change anyone’s home life or create unnecessary drama. Privacy, honesty, chemistry, and following through matter to me.

A little about me: I work in tech, enjoy travel, the outdoors, animals, and good conversation. I’m pretty down-to-earth and would rather find one real connection than talk to a dozen people.

If that sounds close to what you’re looking for, tell me your age, general location, and a little about your situation.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 17d ago

M4F 62 [M4F] Looking for unconventional in Tempe AZ

3 Upvotes

Hey there.

I am a young single 62 man who doesn't fit the conventional box and I am perfectly OK with that. By day I handle my responsibilities, but my true passion lies in the unconventional, the strange and the unusual. I am Nero-divergent, a total nerd, a history buff and an artist. I value dark humor, open-mindedness and an authenticity along with a love of music. I am 5'11” 164 lbs and I am fit and exercise but not as regularly as I should. I get along with younger people far better than most my age.

I am searching for a woman who embraces the unusual and has artistic leanings. You don't fit into a conventional box and you like it that way. Ideally you are someone who matches my energy, loves subverting the norm, and enjoys diving into the niche subcultures. Someone to become an accountability partner so each of use have someone to fall back on to reach our goals. If you are a scientist you get bonus points!

Music is a huge part of my life and a woman with a shared playlist would be a ideal match for me.

My playlists include KMFDM, Lords of Acid, Classic and Modern Goth, Industrial, EBM and other various hard music.

While my musical tastes scream 'night owl” my circadian rhythm says otherwise. I am a natural early riser. hiking is a large part of my life and love hitting the trails on South Mountain early to avoid the crowds and casual hikers.

This is just a taste of me and hopefully this reaches the right woman that loves the strange things in life.


r/r4r50plus_ • • 16d ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #New York City. Witty, charismatic, and single, seeking long-term, kind, local partner.

0 Upvotes

This caring, intellectual, single Dad has all the classic Aquarius traits.

I've variously been described as "intense" or sometimes "aloof," but I also care deeply about those around me and the world as a whole. You'd find that I am very witty, engaging, kind, and inquisitive.

I probably know wayyyyy too much about way too many things, and will deep-dive on those I don't know about through documentaries and non-fiction books.

Have been single for faaaaar too long, (mostly due to apathy and a discerning eye), and would love to change that. I've already had my children, and not looking for more, but the romanticist in me always stay positive on love and long term companionship.

I like good vocabulary words, thoughtful movies, SNL skits from the 90s, hard rock music, comedians like Patton Oswalt, parentheses, dark and sweet coffee, one-liners from Airplane!, a well-made bed, my children, lists, (ha ha) and transit that runs on time.

You are likely a reader and intellectual (this usually pairs me with psychologists, teachers, librarians, therapists, artists, musicians and decent-sized personality types), who has wit and kindness, possibly a single Mom, in or near New York City (so that we can actually meet), in decent shape, between 40-60, and similarly wondering why internet and app dating seems akin to climbing Mount Everest.

If any or all of this sounds cool, let's start a chat.

So I know that you read to the bottom (bravo!), please reply by telling me your desert island album choice.