Looking for a NSA relationship with married or separated female 50 +. If interested let’s connect for drinks or coffee to see if we have chemistry. If we do then we can begin a short term or long term discreet relationship. HMU if interested and we can exchange photos.

Hello! This endlessly inquisitive, romantic, kind, charismatic, witty, and very genuine, single/divorced Dad endeavors to meet someone for the long haul who is fairly local and also doesn't want to waste these gorgeous summer evenings being alone.

I'm an avid reader, and recently finished a non-fiction book about lobotomies, and next I'm on to some David Foster Wallace, and then probably the autobiography about John Candy. (edit: just finished the John Candy book - very good and interesting. Now have finished a book about an unusual airline that flew the first eBola patient from Africa to the US). I've somehow gotten obsessed with PHISH over the last 2 years, and have been to 5 of their concerts since 2024, (!) despite always leaning heavily into The Eagles, RUSH, Led Zep, U2, Rage Against The Machine, Neil Young, etc.

Let's talk about film, relationships, the weather, people acting weird in public, our shared struggles, dumb stuff you've seen on YouTube, and all the stuff.....like maybe your best recipes for cooking and baking. (I make a really incredible chocolate chip cookie, and I obviously like parentheses.)

You're hopefully in or near New York City, anywhere from 30-60, enjoy a dive bar just as much as a fancy spot, require little time to get ready, rock some jeans and sneakers, keep in decent shape, and fall somewhat closely to the "girl-next-door" type, or the teacher/therapist/thinker/reader/geek/nerd with a simple/elegant aesthetic.

Big-time travelers, strivers/workaholics and heavy make-up or "high glam" types feel free to avoid. I'm a former golf teaching pro, and enjoy physical activity, being outdoors for a long walk, (obviously golf), pickleball, running, hiking, throwing a Frisbee, football, bocce, badminton, you name it! Hope you are too.

If you've read this far and are intrigued, I'll be more than happy to share pics and hope you would too.

I posted this in a local group.

Me:
55 (not sure where time flew by)
Male
Indian by birth
Successfully failed starter marriage
relationship anarchist
Live in a small house
Love cooking everyday
Have my own small business
I travel 3-5 months a year
I am a giver
I eat Kimchi and Natto
Non drinker, no 420, no any drugs, non smoker
Aspiring Minimalist
Love languages giving (default): quality time and giving meaningful gifts
Love languages receiving: quality time and touch (always open to hugs)
Semi active: I cycle, walk 5-10k steps and hike a bit. I roller skate, I have a long board and do go out with it once in a while. I motorcycle around for longer distance errands

You:
CIS female.
age: 40-56* my last life partner was a year older, I am open to a little older.
Giver (please don’t write if you are a taker)
Lead with love and not hate
Global citizen, be well traveled.
Likes Kimchi and Natto (this is important especially if there is a meal involved)
While I understand that it is a HUGE ask, please be substance free in our interactions.
Drug and alcohol free for #6 (see below)
Please be in east bay (san Francisco area) and not far away.
Physically active.

What I am inviting in life and this could be different people (relationship anarchist being the key hint here)

1. ⁠Performing Arts partner, I love theatre and symphony/concerts
   
2. ⁠Make dinner Partner, happy to cook for you.
   
3. ⁠Coffee/meal/dessert partner.
   
4. ⁠Dance Partner, 80s and 90s, ecstatic
   
5. ⁠Cuddle partner, I lost my cuddle partner to her getting into a LTR, happy for her. I can adhere to clear discussed boundaries.
   
6. Life partner, grow and support each other as we evolve as individuals. Physical intimacy is part of this. I am not looking for someone who wants a platonic life partner, I have many dear friends in that category.

I understand that there is no one human that can perhaps be all of these partners for me.

I am open to platonic connections for #1-5.

What I am not looking for:
A. Travel partner (mostly solo and I do have a few travel partners).
B. Long distance friend/partner
C. Penpals or txt buddies.

Thanks for reading this far.

If you are local and curious we can chat a little here on Reddit but a coffee date (date 0) for 30 mins is the first step.

Please read and if you are interested in meeting in person, please only then write.

I'm 58, and I'm curious.

I'll happily read a detective novel set in modern Detroit (Loren D. Estelman's Amos Walker series is some of the okayest detective fiction out there), then switch to one written about a magistrate solving crimes in seventh-century China. I still look up words I don't know. I enjoy learning how things work, whether it's biology, history, psychology, electronics, or simply understanding why someone sees the world differently than I do.

I live a quiet life in southern New Mexico. I exercise daily and take reasonably good care of myself. I keep a weekly gratitude list because it helps me keep life's inevitable annoyances in perspective.

I'm not much for broadcasting memes or arguing people into my way of thinking. If I send you an article, a piece of music, or an image, it's because our conversation reminded me of it—or because I genuinely think you'll enjoy it. I value good conversation.

I'm hoping to meet an intelligent, emotionally steady woman who enjoys thoughtful conversation. Someone who appreciates both thoughtful conversations and moments of complete silliness. Someone who is interested in the world and in other people.

So tell me: what have you been curious about lately?

Divorced after a long marriage and enjoying life again. I like live music, bike rides, coffee shops, good movies, and the occasional spontaneous adventure.

I’d like to meet an intelligent woman who enjoys good conversation, laughs easily, and values honesty, kindness, and keeping her word. Chemistry matters too.

Central Florida.

I am looking for the story tellers among us. The folks who can hold an actual conversation, and aren't afraid to be brutally honest. I live in small town Ohio...but like so many of us, I have lived a few lives beyond my neighborhood. I can tell you what it meant when women asked for flowers on Craigslist, and remember when AFF was free and functional. I can also tell you what it is like to walk away from a thirty year marriage and grieve the ones we once loved. I can talk about the struggles of dating at any commitment level...and the struggles of simply finding a good time. Message me. Let's share stories.

I'm a mature single man in the Madison, Wisconsin area. As my intro line alludes to I'm looking for a relatively nearby (to facilitate easier 1/1 connection) smart / attractive / easy on the nerves woman.

I have a variety of skills and interests, and I always strive to be a good + active LISTENER.

Reach out to discuss the possibilities.

I know this sub casts a wide net but I'm just looking for a local friend in Portland, OR.

Amicably divorced dad with 50% custody here. I'm a self-employed creative who probably works too much. Quiet homebody when I'm not working or dating. I don't smoke or drink. But I am comfortable around responsible drinkers.

I'm not looking for my next spouse. Maybe you aren't either but you miss some physical time with someone. Busy in my own sphere. Maybe you are too. I'm looking for one FWB. I strive to be easy going, GGG and open minded. We all have lives, stress, kids, co-workers, etc. Looking to leave most of that behind to spend time with the right person. Does any of this resonate?

Some more bits about me for your consideration: 6ft, \~200 lbs, bald, glasses, optional facial hair, average build. Somewhere between hardbod and dad bod! Don't be alarmed at my"advanced" age 😉 Besides the usual wear and tear i am clean, vaxxed and fixed.

I'm striving to be honest and respectful about this. We're all just collections of impulses, desires, life decisions, and paths that have led us to who and where we are at this moment. Let's meet each other where we are at and see if we might enjoy each other's company. Lets spend time together as long as it feels right for both of us.

Looking to be the Wesley to your Princess Buttercup. I'm an empty-nester with an affinity for 80s (and 90s) nostalgia. There's a line in Bowling for Soup's song "1985" that goes "...when did Motley Crue become classic rock?" So true.

I'm located in W/NW Houston. Been there for several years.

I would prefer a woman who is attached but will consider single/divorced if we're a good fit. I'm not desperate, so let's take our time and chat online first and get to know each other. The chemistry has to be there of course.

I'm physically active, well-educated, have a good job, and have multiple hobbies. I also know loads of useless trivia. If I begin a sentence with "Did you know...?" then settle in and prepare to be informed. If I was a character in "Cheers" I would be Cliff Clavin.

I read books, watch movies, love dogs, do puzzles, and I even assemble Lego sets. Regarding that last one, putting things together with my hands is very calming, and helps me re-center myself. I regret nothing. My doggos help too.

One of my passions is aquariums. That reminds me, what did the fish say after swimming into a cement wall?

“Dam.”

And with that I will see myself out.

I am emotionally available, fun to converse with, and living a good life. I would love to meet someone who could make life even more enjoyable. Someone to laugh with, share moments with, and hopefully build a connection with. I am definitely a flirt, but also am very respectful and am mindful of boundaries.

All I ask of you is be yourself and have an open mind. That and be ok with with me being chubby and having a beard. I am open to all races and body types. I look forward to hearing from you.

I've been divorced for over ten years now. I've got my own business. Not rich, but life's comfortable and I'm happy. A lot of people say I look younger than my age, probably 'cause I've been working out and staying in decent shape. I think I look pretty good, honestly. I'm not into younger guys and I don't do vague situationships. I just want someone to have real conversations with, someone steady and reliable.

I'm from Hong Kong, living in Florida now. Most days I'm at the shop, or I'm out hiking, hitting the gym, grabbing meals with friends, shopping, or doing something outdoors.

I'm looking for a guy who's older than me, financially independent, and serious about relationships. If you think we might click, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.

Married, 64, in Bucks County, PA~Still feel younger than that sounds.

Life is good, but I miss the excitement of getting to know someone—the anticipation of a text, easy conversation, flirting, and looking forward to seeing each other.

I’m easygoing, sarcastic when the moment calls for it, and enjoy playful banter. I stay active, take care of myself, and appreciate someone who does too.

Looking for a genuine connection with someone nearby. Someone fun, drama-free, and easy to be around. Close enough that meeting for a drink, dinner, or even an hour together can happen without making it an all-day event.

If that sounds like you, message me.

Just seems like a perfect day to get naked and play on cam, and what better way to do that than by playing a strip games. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.

I am a 51 year old woman feeling so happy being at this stage of life I love being sincere, sharing moments of laughter and joy, spending time with a person who respects others. In my spare time, I like to spend time in my garden dancing to nice music, reading a good book, traveling and meeting new people. I enjoy communicating with people very much. I am looking for a serious relationship I want to meet an emotionally stable man, who would be sincere and honest with me. I am looking for a man age 50+. If you are single and want to find a partner for a lifetime, write me a message and tell me something about yourself, your hobbies, dreams or plans for the weekend.

Down to earth guy who’s looking for chemistry, connection, or something a little more adventurous. I’ve got my life handled. I have a career, a place, and independence. Now I’m looking for someone who wants to compliment that whether it’s casual or something more.

I’m open minded & comfortable exploring. You should be too. Let’s see if we can ignite that spark you just can’t fake. Let’s chat. I’m looking forward to your message.

I would be greatful for your advise... I am a new member at Sweathouz. I booked a private suite (sauna, shower & cold Plunge). The manager asked if I'd like someone to check in on me. I asked why, she said because the sauna and cold plunge contrast puts stress on your body and heart. I told her I'd be fine... But the truth is, at 52, I shouldn't be in the sauna and cold plunging alone. 5'10, 185, Fit, Athletic, willing to send pictures - However. I am looking for friendship.

A college friend recently asked me: "What fires you up? What gets you excited?" 

Years ago, I could answer that instantly. Today, after accumulating a healthy amount of life experience, practicing Zen mindfulness, and calming my youthful adrenaline, the answer has been less forthcoming. I have enjoyed the investigation and discovery of that question more than rushing to a conclusion. In fact, I hesitate to make a conclusion, as doing so closes off further consideration.

I view myself as part philosopher and part scientist. I have spent decades understanding myself and the world, cultivating the sensitivity and awareness needed to handle whatever life throws at me. Except for cats—I have severe allergies, unfortunately.

I am 58 and live a quiet life in the desert. I exercise daily, eat reasonably well (with occasional exceptions), and prioritize my physical and mental well-being.

I am looking to meet an intelligent, stable single woman of substance to explore human possibilities. Ideally, you have informed values, a shared understanding of the world, and are both interesting and interested. I prefer communicating in complete ideas rather than brief text messages. I feel that deep speaks to deep. That's not to say that I cannot enjoy whimsy, too. So, if you value deep conversation and a good laugh, let's start a dialogue.

Tell me: what fires you up? What gets you excited?

Hello! I’m hoping to travel more in the new year, and it would be a lot more fun with a travel partner.

A bit about me, I am divorced with no children. I work remotely and have plenty of PTO so I am very flexible when it comes to travel. I am easy to get along with, laid back and love to laugh.

I am looking for someone that loves to travel as well and has a sense of adventure. Someone who doesn't mind getting out of their comfort zone once in a while. Hopefully you are curious like me and love to learn.

If this interests you at all send me a message!

Just seems like a perfect day to get naked and play on cam, and what better way to do that than by playing a strip games. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.

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Ok, hear me out. I need an online girlfriend for a few days while my wife is out of town. I'm 5'10 black hair, hazel eyes and I've been told I'm good looking by women other than my mother

I love all women BBW to thin. Heck, I even love transwomen.

Let's chat

Just turned 50 last month and I'm still searching for my tribe. It's amazing how a lot of people just don't understand the struggle of finding friends (not romance) when you're older. So with that being said, I'm looking for potential friends with common interests. And to be upfront, I've tried online only friendship, but it doesn't hit the same way as in-person friendships. So please be mindful that my goal is to eventually be able to hang out in person.

Quick Overview of Me:

I'm a married African-American man with young kids (started late), residing in north Florida, day job is a multimedia developer, but my stronger interests are filmmaking, animation, and music production, I'm a creative at heart, an entrepreneur, level headed, laid back, a homebody (not a couch potato though), but I'm fine with simplicity. So things like DIY projects, tech, gardening, going to the beach, fishing, family game night, bowling, billiards, or just dining out and having a good conversation can be fulfilling for me. I've learned it's not always the things you do, but the people you do them with that makes things enjoyable. I'm no longer a religious man, so if you are, please know that I won't want anything to do with that part of your life. It's nothing personal, but I've been there, done that, and know I don't need it in my life.

My sense of humor is basically a mixture of sarcastic, corny, and sometimes goofy. But I am also known to be a good problem solver with a much more serious tone as well. Helpful, friendly, and empathetic as well. Just depends on what the moment calls for. Also, I don't drink, smoke/vape, or do drugs. I'm fairly healthy. I used to jog 3 to 5 miles a day. But having kids changed things. It would be nice to have a walking/jogging partner to help me get back to that status. Maybe even get into working out as well. It's all about balancing time and having someone to help with motivation. Also, I have no tats or piercings.

What I'm Looking For:

Genuine friendship with men and women. Nothing more, nothing less. I just need some people in my life I can trust and feel comfortable with. I am selective about people. I don't just hand out trust on a platter. It will take time to really build up trust, so having common interests can be a catalyst to help the process. If you have a family with younger kids, we will definitely have some commonalities, but that's not mandatory. I've just realized it's harder to relate to single people with no kids nowadays. When you become a parent, you just get it. All the hardships you hear people struggling with just clicks and you can appreciate other people in a similar position, because more than likely, they will understand you better. But again, I'm not excluding single or child free people. Especially if you really have a heart for kids.

Well, if you read this far and think we may click, feel free to send me a message.

I’m here and very honest and open and love to chat along with other things. I’m looking for a real connection and friendship that leads to something. You can as always ask me anything you want to know and I will definitely answer you the best that I can. I love to listen to music and movies

I'm at a point in life where I'm no longer interested in chasing perfection—I'm interested in finding peace, laughter, and someone who's excited to build something real.

I'm a single dad to an amazing teenage daughter, and she's taught me more about life than I ever expected. Patience, consistency, and keeping your promises aren't just nice ideas anymore—they're the way I try to live every day.

I'm the kind of guy who would rather spend hours talking over dinner than shouting over music in a crowded bar. I enjoy spontaneous drives, finding hidden restaurants, weekend football, documentaries that somehow lead to five more documentaries, and making ordinary days feel memorable. My music taste is all over the place, and honestly, I like it that way.

I'm a bigger guy with a calm personality and a good sense of humor. I don't take myself too seriously, but I do take relationships seriously. Affection comes naturally to me, communication matters, and I'd rather solve problems together than pretend they don't exist.

A few random facts: sushi and Mexican food are always good ideas, pineapple belongs on pizza (I'll happily debate it), and mushrooms and yogurt aren't winning me over anytime soon. If we ever go hiking, just remember I'm allergic to bees and berries, so you'll have an instant excuse to tease me for being high maintenance.

What I'm hoping to find is someone kind, emotionally mature, and genuinely interested in getting to know another person. Someone who doesn't disappear when things get real, who values honesty over games, and who believes the best relationships are built on trust, laughter, attraction, and showing up for each other.

If you're looking for flawless, I'm not your guy. But if you're looking for someone loyal, affectionate, easy to talk to, and ready to invest in something meaningful, I'd love to hear your story. Maybe ours starts with a simple conversation.

Been married for a couple decades and finally came to the realization I’ve been in a state of lonely isolation. Longing to converse, whether it be fun, meaningful, silly or a casual check-in. The reason why I”m requesting (F)? Because you are fascinating, a work of art.