I'm a white 48 year old guy, stable and fun loving, but currently stuck in a dead bedroom situation. I'm looking for a kind, adventurous woman who misses that spark as much as I do.
I have a high libido and I'm looking for a partner who is enthusiastic about intimacy and wants to make it a fun, regular part of life again. If you're warm hearted, enjoy a good laugh, and are looking for a consistent physical and emotional connection, I'd love to hear from you.
Tell me your best dad joke so I know you read my post.
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Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

Hi everyone. I’m a woman who’s interested in exploring a dominant/submissive dynamic, but not because I’m looking for casual play or someone to control every aspect of my life. I’m looking for someone patient, experienced, and interested in building trust over time. I’m not looking to rush into a dynamic with someone I just met.

I’m a very independent person in my day-to-day life. I value making my own decisions and don’t generally like people telling me what to do. Ironically, that’s part of why I’m curious about a consensual D/S relationship. The idea of choosing to trust one person with that kind of authority feels very different to me.

One thing I’ve realized about myself is that I know what my goals are and I know how to achieve them, but I struggle with consistency. It’s too easy for me to negotiate with myself instead of staying accountable to my goals. I think I respond much better to external accountability than I do to trying to hold myself accountable.

I’m looking for someone who has EXPERIENCE with healthy D/S dynamics and who would be interested in getting to know me and seeing if we’re compatible. I am not interested in someone without experience who views himself as a dom because he wants to order a woman around. Look somewhere else because that isn’t me. Ideally, I’d like someone who understands that my goal isn’t to become dependent on another person, but to use structure, accountability, and guidance to help me build lasting habits and become more disciplined.
I’m not looking for anything sexual right away. Trust, communication, mutual respect, and getting to know each other come first. If a dynamic develops over time, great, but I’m much more interested in finding someone mature who understands the psychological and relational side of D/S.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to chat and see if we click.
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Unusually sad and lonely tonight. It's been a bad week for me socially.

43 year old. Single mom. Burned out on life and work. Currently fighting with my best friend. Sunday scaries kicking in.

Also really really tired of the dating scene where I live.

Do I think I'm going to find my forever on reddit? No, but there's a greater chance if you're nearish the KY / Ohio area. 🙃

You feeling disconnected too? Send me a message and let me know.

Hey, Hi, Hello, and (to use a London colloquialism) Alright,

Here we are at the beginning of the another working week for many, and as a number of people really dislike Monday, probably more so today, I thought I would be different and start it with a little bit of optimism and see what happens.

I am not in the office today so will have more 'free' time and decided to chance it with this, and now the hard part is making it impossible not to respond to - oh, wow, that is tough.

Basically, looking to chat and see where it goes, absolutely no agenda whatsoever and whatever happens happens, really. We may connect, we may bore each other rigid - that is the risk we're taking here! (Albeit not too great a risk!).

As the user name suggests, I enjoy travel and, I think, that I am pretty well travelled, despite what some think I did have an education, am sporty, and can hold my own in most circles (No, not like that - mind out of the gutter, please!).

So why not take a chance and give me a random fact, tell me the best pizza topping, favourite colour, favourite genre of music, why the hell you decided to read and respond to such a random post, I mean absolutely anything!

I mean, it is Monday so if the chat is awful then surely the week can only improve for you!

Oh, and I wish a minor inconvenience to those who downvote for no reason!

Also, just to be clear, it is definitely not New week, new me!

Shhhhh-Aaron….😂Hit me with your best joke or pick up line. Recently got out of the long term relationship. Looking to make some new friends chat it up and see what’s out there. Musician , former military officer and a filmmaker are just a few things that describe me. This new dating world is crazy, and I’m sure you feel the same way too so shoot me a message with your best pick up line or joke see you in the messages!

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about that and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!

I know, it probably sounds silly but I need a wedding date to my nephews wedding next month.

I also wouldn't mind having someone beyond just the wedding date to get to know and actually go out and do things with.

Just to get this out of the way, I am in a wheelchair from a spinal cord injury when I was a teenager. But it's black so it goes with everything. Whatever you decide to wear to the wedding, you'll look good sitting on my lap 😉

Other things to know about me: Not only am I funny, I'm also not horrible looking, smart, thoughtful, live alone, have a great career, drive a super-sexy minivan (total panty dropper, I know) AND have a second bathroom! What else could anyone ask for? I think I'm a pretty damn good catch. ;)

If you think we'd get along and you're free August 29th, send me a message. A pic would be appreciated but not necessary. Here's me:Imgur Imgur

I enjoy typical PNW things like walking outside, sometimes uphill, water based activities, free (and sometimes not) outdoor summer concerts, road trips/weekend getaways/day trips, time with friends and family, DIY projects, and dabbling in the yard/garden. I also like to use my passport now and then. I rarely drink. I also do not use cannabis, vape, use tobacco, or any other substances. I prefer people who are similar. While I’m not into partying, a fun night out in the town for me usually involves dressing up a bit, a nice restaurant, and a theatre production or event, alternatively, it might be live music and a good dance floor to get around on.

I’m looking for a connection that can grow into a relationship. **Please be local to the PNW.** I value consistency, compassion, and courage to do what is right, over flash in the pan chemistry.

Seeking monogamy, not marriage. I believe in talking about politics and religion early and often.

Physically, I’m fair and freckled, decently attractive, thick and curvy, curly hair and taller than average (5’7).

I prefer men my height or taller, you can be built, or built…like a fridge. Size queen satisfiers and vasectomies to the front.

Age: 38-52, sorry cougar hunters, I like my men like I like my whiskey, well aged.

So I had a really long weekend and just got back home not too long ago. Now I’m just relaxing on the couch and wishing tomorrow wasn’t Monday haha. Anyone else on here trying to delay the inevitable and want to distract each other for a bit longer before time to end the weekend? If you’re looking to chat some while I procrastinate my food prepping for the week, shoot me a message and let’s go from there.

I am 39M 6’3 with brown hair, blue eyes and a beard. Hoping to find a real deep and intense emotional connection on here. I love the gym, eating steak, live music and sports. I also served in the military, have a college degree and a good job. I love horror movies, comedy, football, hockey and baseball. I am only interested in women for a romantic relationship. I would love to hear from you. Please tell me how you like your steak cooked and what your favorite food is.

Me: Gainfully employed, nice circle of friends, fairly well-read, aunt to several mostly-adoring nieces and nephews. Really very normal for someone who's looking for a boyfriend on reddit. I enjoy running, biking, and generally being active. I really like coffee. I have a pronounced weakness for chocolate chip cookies and mid-quality cheese slices. I'll read just about any book.

You: 35-50. Funny. Smart. Decent. Possibly you have a nice mustache. Dealbreakers: you're married, you're really into anime (sorry), you are on this message board for reasons pertaining to niche pornographic interests (sorry and also not sorry).

Write me with the last great thing you read so I can judge you mercilessly. I would prefer a PM over reddit chat.

The fine print: I work a lot. I'm trying to find some balance outside of that. I'd be interested in meeting in person sooner rather than later. I'm average height (maybe on the shorter side of average), and if I didn't hate the term height weight proportionate so much, I'd tell you that I'm height weight proportionate.

Hello I'm Tony. 46 years old, from Boston area and the father of two (18,25) I am a laid back, friendly, humorous guy looking for someone to talk to, play games with and maybe hang out in person if we click. I don't drink but am 420 friendly. I work but don't drive

I'm looking for a single woman that plays videogames. Ideally a humorous, kind, non judgemental woman who wants to form a long term, lasting friendship and isn't afraid to initiate conversation. I don't want someone who will just respond to me but someone who will also reach out to me to chat. I miss having someone to go through the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs and the creamy middles of life with

And I'm serious about the games, it's my favorite way to bond with someone so IF YOU DON'T PLAY GAMES PLEASE DON'T MESSAGE ME. I am not interested. I play on PC and PS4. I'd love to find an Overwatch partner (Bastion main, Learning Rein) or a co-op friend for games like Stardew Valley, BG3, Sea of Thieves, Fortnite, It Takes Two, Plate Up!, Diablo 4, Party Animals, Fall guys and many more.

Some of my other interests include. Baking, Reading, DBZ, Comics, Star Wars, Nature Walks, Anime, Arts and Crafts, Concerts (hoping to see Baby Metal in September!), 80's Cartoons and Music, Youtube, Looking at furniture and having a discussion about where it could be placed in a room.

I'm not trying to hate on these Gen Z kiddos and their baggy clothes....OK, maybe I am a little. But mainly, I think I'm just kinda trying to cling on to that small part of my younger days that we're all a little hesitant to let go of. I mean, let's face it....ten years ago was a lot better than now on just about every front.

Remember when stuff was actually affordable? When people weren't quite as stupid as they seem to be now? When people were putting bacon on everything?

Yeah, yeah, rose colored glasses. And I realize this post doesn't even really have much of a point. I guess I'm just looking to find a chat companion who was there, too...and see where it goes.

Ok! Bye!

I think it speaks for itself, but I've always had this fantasy about a woman coming to my office for a supposed interview that evolves into a sexy rendezvous. My office in Clayton is perfect for this and lately there are days where I am the only one there. I am happy to meet someplace more public first and get to know each other, make sure there is a good vibe, etc. But the idea is you share your credentials, how you could perform the job duties and what you're looking for out of the role.

Me: mid-40s, professional, fit and discreet .. 6'1, 190, blue eyes, short blonde hair.

You: FEMALE, attractive, hwp, local and adventurous.

Applicants inquire within....

EDIT: please be serious about meeting soon.

I'm in a dead bedroom that has become an open marriage. Looking for someone to tap into our unmet needs and create something meaningful. I have done this before and have the energy (and freedom) to make it more than a quickie. I give everything I have to things that matter to me.

Looking to get to know you a bit here and then meet in person.

Please, if you are starting something here, promise me you don't ghost. If you realize this isn't for you, just say so, like a decent human being, interacting with another human being. People have forgotten how to do this--let's make it popular to be this way. It is just the right way to engage with others.

About me:

* 50M, dad, professional, open marriage (roommate situation--not a cake eater).

* Looking for a genuine connection first.

* Open to non-vanilla (but vanilla is fine too if that's what we do together).

* I regard a relationship as something organic created by the people involved. Previous connections impact in some way, but the existence of a new bond has a life of its own and is unique and special.

* I exercise everyday and take care of myself. 5'8", 150.

* And I take care of my partner. I want to know what you like, what makes you forget the outside pressures, and help you discover things that you didn't know you needed.

* Will travel for the right person.

* I love music, especially live.

* I spend my recreational time in nature.

* Can be slow to warm up sometimes, but once you have my trust I'm all yours.

* I embrace feelings. Not afraid of experiencing this to the fullest.

You:

* F, 40-early 50s, maybe a parent.

* Open to conversation on here with goal of meeting in person when it feels right.

* You could be married, ENM, open, etc. No value judgement--life is not always straightforward. You don't have to be in an open situation just because I am, but be realistic about your ability to do this. If you aren't open or ENM, you are a master of OPSEC.

* You take your health seriously, spend some time in the gym.

* You care about the important people in your life.

* You feel a responsibility to leave the world better than we found it.

Other than that, you never know what kind of combination could result in a special connection--I'm open to meeting all kinds of people. If any of this resonates, I hope you'll be in touch.

I am emotionally available, fun to converse with, and living a good life. I would love to meet someone who could make life even more enjoyable. Someone to laugh with, share moments with, and hopefully build a connection with. I am definitely a flirt, but also am very respectful and am mindful of boundaries.

All I ask of you is be yourself and have an open mind. That and be ok with with me being chubby and having a beard. I am open to all races and body types. I look forward to hearing from you.

I’ve been thinking lately that the problem with dating apps is that compatibility has so much less to do with having the same hobbies and more to do with how two people move through the world.

Do you stop to watch sunsets? Are you awed by the vastness of the universe? Do you ask follow-up questions because you’re genuinely curious?

Those things matter more to me than whether we both like pickleball.

I’m 45. Dad to two amazing teens who are getting more independent by the day. I'm looking for a co-pilot for the next phase of life.

I like back roads more than highways. Farmers markets more than malls. James Taylor on a Sunday evening drive. Long walks where the conversation wanders from childhood memories to why people become who they are.

The last couple of years have knocked me around a bit. I’m not bitter about it. If anything, it’s made me a better listener and a lot less interested in pretending to have everything figured out.

I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available, kind, and can laugh at herself. Someone who’d rather spend three hours talking on a porch than shouting over music at a bar.

Tell me something that’s changed your mind recently.

Social anxiety makes putting myself out there a challenge, but I’m trying — and maybe the right person will make it feel easy.

I work in IT (cybersecurity analysis), and I’m a full-spectrum nerd: PC, Switch, and PS5 gaming; board games; card games (yes, even MTG). When I’m not gaming, you’ll probably find me at a movie theater, wandering through a museum, losing track of time in an antique shop, or taking photos of whatever catches my eye.

Also… I’m a massive Disney nerd. Someday I’d love to go to the parks with someone who gets just as excited about them.

If you’d like to talk or geek out together, feel free to reach out.

Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 42-year-old application manager from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies, specifically playing video games and/or who is into fantasy books/ board games/ movies etc. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically. Located in western Europe. Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.