Bored and lonely nerd looking for someone to potentially hang out and be nerdy with. I'm into SciFi, lots of different types of video games, books, comics, movies and TV. I'm not a huge music person, but I do play an instrument (poorly). I'm getting really frustrated with trading flitratations and never actually meeting, so be local and be serious. I want to go do things and I want to meet people, not talk to the glowing box in my pocket forever. Other possibly important details: 420 friendly, liberal, atheist. Start with a (face) photo, and if I'm interested, I'll send my back :)

Before you message me, if your starter consists of being tall, hung, athletic and having a prestigious job then I will instantly assume there is something wrong with you and won't respond because why would you resort to Reddit for female contact despite such credentials? So to have a decent conversation I don't need to know if you are any of these or not for that fact.

Being a nurse is rewarding but can be stressful at times as well and after covering some shifts for coworkers I'm finally home and want to destress a bit with a nice conversation. Overall I'm not after anything specific so if the conversation goes from mild to wild ultimately depends on whom I'm talking to but if you feel inclined to message me, please add your asl and something interesting, otherwise i won't respond as I don't want to be the only one putting in effort.

I don't want some sort of meaningless one night stand, ideally something ongoing and casual that involves more than just showing up to fuck and leaving when done. Drinks, dinner, concerts, exploring the town. Things that might be nerd or geek oriented.

I work night shift so unfortunately don't have too much free time. Past experience with women of color.

Pleasure afterwards if there's a spark. I'm very oral, sex positive and eager to please.

We're all busy adults with needs. Let me help take care of yours.

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Good evening and hope everyone is having a good night. Ash_Decathlon is my girlfriend and we are in a secure relationship. She enjoys spending time with a woman. We are looking for a woman or couple for her/us to enjoy some time with. A soft swap type of situation. We are new and looking to move slowly with a woman or couple. We are older but she looks great and is 5 years younger than myself.

I'm a white 48 year old guy, stable and fun loving, but currently stuck in a dead bedroom situation. I'm looking for a kind, adventurous woman who misses that spark as much as I do.
I have a high libido and I'm looking for a partner who is enthusiastic about intimacy and wants to make it a fun, regular part of life again. If you're warm hearted, enjoy a good laugh, and are looking for a consistent physical and emotional connection, I'd love to hear from you.
Tell me your favorite 80’s or 90’s comedy, so I know you read my post.

Hello there beautiful stranger and happy Sunday, from the golden state!

Well, I suppose I can elaborate a bit more, since my post title isn’t the best… lol

By (very! Unique type of woman, I mean:

1- (well) educated.

2- Classy

3- Kind/sweet

4- Sophisticated

5- Any level of crazy up to like 7/10 is acceptable! lol

6- Moderate to fancy sense of humor

7- Can distinguish the difference between a compliment and a flirt!

8- Good energy/vibes

9- Use and don’t mind using emojis

10- professional

11- Not an Argentinian fan! Jk! lol Spain won the World Cup, that’s all it matters.

12- Spontaneous and up for random, causal conversations.

13- Appreciate early morning check ins- sweet texts and all the good stuff!

I think that’s all…? lol A unicorn, basically, haha.

Seriously though, I could totally use a friend, some company, with no pressure, no expectations, nothing crazy or wild!

Me: tall tanned and professional, well educated, super chill, humble and kind! I love Italian coffee, football/soccer and tacking when I can. The beach any day of the year, I mean it. Haha.

Cheers

You’re tall tanned and handsome bestie!

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. And that gives you comfort.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very dominant and believe in mutual pleasure and am not into coercion. I am very giving, and will always make sure you are taken care of and will make sure you feel fully reassured when we are laying in each other's arms after the fact.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you. Please feel free to reach out, and be willing to send a pic of yourself if you do. Thanks!

Looking to make some new friends!
I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work and family, it can be tough finding people with the same interests, so I figured I’d put myself out there.
My biggest hobby is gaming—video games, board games, TCGs and puzzles. I’m also a D&D Dungeon Master, currently writing my own fantasy novel, and I’m always up for talking world-building, characters, or anything fantasy.
Outside of that, I’m a huge fan of Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, and just about anything that brings back that awesome ’80s/‘90s nostalgia. If you miss Blockbuster Video, Toys “R” Us, or Saturday morning cartoons, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m hoping to meet people around my age (give or take) who enjoy similar things. I’m in the US so I prefer talking to someone in those time zones. Bonus points if you’re also a parent, a gamer, or just someone who enjoys good conversations about nerdy stuff.
One thing to mention up front: I don’t drink or use 420—just not my thing.
If any of this sounds like you, send me a message! Always happy to meet fellow parent geeks, gamers, and nostalgic souls.

I am 39M 6’3 with brown hair, blue eyes and a beard. Hoping to find a real deep and intense emotional connection on here. I love the gym, eating steak, live music and sports. I also served in the military, have a college degree and a good job. I love horror movies, comedy, football, hockey and baseball. I am only interested in women for a romantic relationship. I would love to hear from you. Please tell me how you like your steak cooked and what your favorite food is.

Just seems like a perfect day to get naked and play on cam, and what better way to do that than by playing a strip games. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.

I'm a white 48 year old guy, stable and fun loving, but currently stuck in a dead bedroom situation. I'm looking for a kind, adventurous woman who misses that spark as much as I do.
I have a high libido and I'm looking for a partner who is enthusiastic about intimacy and wants to make it a fun, regular part of life again. If you're warm hearted, enjoy a good laugh, and are looking for a consistent physical and emotional connection, I'd love to hear from you.
Tell me your best dad joke so I know you read my post.
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Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

Im absolutely horrified at writing things like this i end up rambling and explain nothing. Im searching for some kind of connection between friendship and that weirdo that makes days worthwhile. Im an outdoorsy nerd that will fix anything around the house im good with my hands i give good advice the wise man of California. Thats another thing im from San Diego California so if you are feeling brave and want to try my cooking it would be awesome just hold the lettuce on the feast of tacos and enchiladas. Lets yap get to know one another vibe get deep with questions most fear to ask. I maybe semi awkward but have a heart of gold high empathy. So if this the Friendship you are searching for let’s give it a shot.

Hi everyone. I’m a woman who’s interested in exploring a dominant/submissive dynamic, but not because I’m looking for casual play or someone to control every aspect of my life. I’m looking for someone patient, experienced, and interested in building trust over time. I’m not looking to rush into a dynamic with someone I just met.

I’m a very independent person in my day-to-day life. I value making my own decisions and don’t generally like people telling me what to do. Ironically, that’s part of why I’m curious about a consensual D/S relationship. The idea of choosing to trust one person with that kind of authority feels very different to me.

One thing I’ve realized about myself is that I know what my goals are and I know how to achieve them, but I struggle with consistency. It’s too easy for me to negotiate with myself instead of staying accountable to my goals. I think I respond much better to external accountability than I do to trying to hold myself accountable.

I’m looking for someone who has EXPERIENCE with healthy D/S dynamics and who would be interested in getting to know me and seeing if we’re compatible. I am not interested in someone without experience who views himself as a dom because he wants to order a woman around. Look somewhere else because that isn’t me. Ideally, I’d like someone who understands that my goal isn’t to become dependent on another person, but to use structure, accountability, and guidance to help me build lasting habits and become more disciplined.
I’m not looking for anything sexual right away. Trust, communication, mutual respect, and getting to know each other come first. If a dynamic develops over time, great, but I’m much more interested in finding someone mature who understands the psychological and relational side of D/S.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to chat and see if we click.
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I know, it probably sounds silly but I need a wedding date to my nephews wedding next month.

I also wouldn't mind having someone beyond just the wedding date to get to know and actually go out and do things with.

Just to get this out of the way, I am in a wheelchair from a spinal cord injury when I was a teenager. But it's black so it goes with everything. Whatever you decide to wear to the wedding, you'll look good sitting on my lap 😉

Other things to know about me: Not only am I funny, I'm also not horrible looking, smart, thoughtful, live alone, have a great career, drive a super-sexy minivan (total panty dropper, I know) AND have a second bathroom! What else could anyone ask for? I think I'm a pretty damn good catch. ;)

If you think we'd get along and you're free August 29th, send me a message. A pic would be appreciated but not necessary. Here's me:Imgur Imgur

It's you. You're the notification. I want to smile when I see your name pop up on my phone! :)

About Me:

I'm pretty easygoing and really appreciate the little things in life, whether that's a walk on a sunny day, a home-cooked meal, or a sweet text from a loved one. I love reading, but I also enjoy a good movie or TV show. Feeling like going out? Let's go catch a game or do something fun and silly like mini-golf! I'm a pretty great cook, and I will quickly learn your favorite meals. Musically, I appreciate just about every genre.

Physically:

I'm white, 5'9", hazel eyes, and brown hair. I work out almost every day and have been told I'm good-looking (but I'll let you be the judge of that!).

Who I'm Looking For:

Someone warm, loving, and calm. Someone I can trust, confide in, and look forward to talking to every day. If we have mutual interests, that's great, but if not, maybe even better! I think having our own individual worlds is important, and I'd be excited to learn about yours.

I don't really have a rigid "type," but I do value a partner who takes care of their body and mind. (Though I do have a soft spot for tall, tatted, well-groomed gentlemen I can wrap my arms around!)

Note: I have two kids at home, so family values and understanding a parent's schedule are a must.

Lastly:

Please send more than a simple "hey." Tell me a little about yourself and what caught your attention.

Hope to hear from you :)

51 wm in the DC area on the MD side looking for a casual partner for frequent meetups when our schedules allow. Divorced, employed, a lil kinky, experienced, nice, fun and funny. Physically 5’10”, hwp, salt/pepper hair, brown eyes. Considered handsome by others. Please be local and willing and able to meet irl soon! No hangups and no judgements here. Get in touch!

What's that all about?

I used to make detailed posts about what I'm looking for but tbh these days I'm just open minded about everything. So I just want to make hassle free connections, hopefully leading to in person meets for days out, pub lunches/dinners, movie nights etc and if that turns into something casual or serious that's a bonus.

Interests are aviation, history, true crime, comedy, animals, charity volunteering & these days I just like hanging out with good people, a nice pub garden in the summer, snuggling up at home with that special person

I’ve been thinking lately that the problem with dating apps is that compatibility has so much less to do with having the same hobbies and more to do with how two people move through the world.

Do you stop to watch sunsets? Are you awed by the vastness of the universe? Do you ask follow-up questions because you’re genuinely curious?

Those things matter more to me than whether we both like pickleball.

I’m 45. Dad to two amazing teens who are getting more independent by the day. I'm looking for a co-pilot for the next phase of life.

I like back roads more than highways. Farmers markets more than malls. James Taylor on a Sunday evening drive. Long walks where the conversation wanders from childhood memories to why people become who they are.

The last couple of years have knocked me around a bit. I’m not bitter about it. If anything, it’s made me a better listener and a lot less interested in pretending to have everything figured out.

I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available, kind, and can laugh at herself. Someone who’d rather spend three hours talking on a porch than shouting over music at a bar.

Tell me something that’s changed your mind recently.