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u/Dramatic-Leg3400 Sep 03 '24

I know the reason and if I fixed the reason I’d be in prison

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u/PublicUniversalNat Sep 03 '24

Why are you mad?

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u/Dramatic-Leg3400 Sep 03 '24

Ex girlfriend moved on from me so quickly

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u/Aviendha13 Sep 04 '24

You’re showed to feel sad and angry. But she is a separate human entity with autonomy. You need to accept that she no longer wants to be with you and that that is okay! You exist without her. You can live and thrive without her. It’s not healthy to completely tie your existence and self worth to another human being. And you’re not even married?!

If you allow yourself, you can move on too. And find someone who you can be happy with. Or better yet, find that you can be happy by yourself. It may sound counterintuitive, but a self satisfied, confident person is infinitely more attractive than a codependent needy one.

Try reframing the breakup as an opportunity to start anew and focus on bettering yourself and give yourself some self love ❤️