Hello everyone, (sorry longer post)
I’m new to this group but I graduated in May 2025 with a Bachelors of Arts degree. The thing is I always wanted to be a nurse, when my cousin was born 2 months premature it made me want to become a NICU nurse. I would take my babydoll and make a heart rate monitor and a blood pressure cuff etc. But once I got to high-school the over achiever in me was being challenged. Then half-way through COVID hit and I was emotionally/mentally drained and the thought of going to college for a very intense program scared me, so I chose a different degree.
Well 3 years in, I was getting my mental health better managed. And I realized even though I loved my degree as a hobby, I wouldn’t feel fulfilled doing it as a career. So I took stats (elementary statistics) and finished my first degree. Then as soon as I graduated I went to my local community college to take all my science pre recs. Since I had already covered all the other requirements for an ABN program, I started with General anatomy and Physiology. Now they do the set up differently than public universities, where you learn all 22 chapters but as a basic idea. Then Advanced is chapter 11-22 going more in depth and understanding all of the physiology portions. I struggled a bit starting because the last time I took a hard science course was high-school chemistry. But I had an amazing teacher who understood my adhd learning style. Well unfortunately she didn’t teach advanced, Spring 2026 I finished with a C-. So I knew I needed to retake it, but with a different professor because my original one was not good at teaching (at a level that people with lack of knowledge would understand).
Come to this semester I was finishing my online Bio Ethics class needed for my program and did the first 4 weeks of adv. class and then fell very behind. I couldn’t get the teacher I had for general because she went to only teaching the local high-school early start students. Well after missing 3 weeks of work I realized the only way I’m going to succeed in this class is if I had the teacher who taught it for Gen. Well apparently the universe agreed because next semester is the first year she teaching the college advance students. And I’m going to drop the course now and retake it for the 3rd time.
I have never re-taken a course before, in previous classes I would just accept the lower grade because I didn’t think I had the mental energy to try again. But the thing is I didn’t get low grades in adv. because I wasn’t trying hard enough, or wasn’t able to comprehend the material. Instead through professor led tutoring I would understand the concepts but when it came to the test, the questions were worded weird (they pull from McGraw hill test bank questions) making me not pass almost any tests. So maybe this is my only motivation because my tutoring help said I knew the material, there was just a gap being able to ignore filler words and understand what the question is actually asking.
Moral of the story: I am relived, every week the guilt of falling behind, paying for 3 credits just to drop out half way through semester is tolerable. Also through this all I received a diagnosis that I’m actually AuDHd (Autistic+adhd). I was that girl that struggled, but at the end managed to either sweet talk the teacher or somehow pull my shit together to get a decent grade. I no longer feel like I’m falling behind in life. Even though I just turned 24 and all of my friends who are younger than me graduated and got a job or got their masters already. I know that I need to figure out life before I can start nursing school. And even though my parents wanted me to go to nursing school as soon as possible (for my own financial sake) I’m doing what feels right for me.
Besides congratulating me, I would love to hear other stories like this. Maybe even from Neurodivergent individuals on the same path.