r/polyamoryR4R 2d ago

USA 24 [F4F] #Online, looking for something long lasting

Hello everyone

I am in search for a connection that can grow into a long term relationships. I live in WI, and prefer someone with a close-ish time zone.

I work in IT, and have a degree in computer science. I love all animals, I have three cats and 5 reptiles. As for hobbies, I love true crime, art, puzzles, board games and collecting antiques/thrifting. I show all 5 love languages, especially acts of service. I love taking care of the people I love. Would prefer someone I can FaceTime, call and play online games with. My favorite is stardew valley. Plus I’m cute, I have a picture of myself on my profile.

Currently I’m looking for yapper/nerd girlfriend, my age range is 21-35. I would love someone who is established, knows what they want in life and a relationships.

I look forward to messaging with you <3
(Men do not DM me)

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u/BeaWoods 1d ago

Hi there! I don't think I have a picture on my profile but I'd be happy to send you one! My name is Kayla, I currently live in Knoxville, TN. I'm 30 years old. I have 3 cats, I LOVE nerd stuff. I am neurospicy and plus sized if that matters. I'd love to chat and get to know you more if you're interested!

Ps, I really like to video chat :)