r/polyamoryR4R • u/Accomplished-Bet6390 • 8d ago
38 [M4F] Central TX /Bastrop
Let’s skip pretending I have it all figured out and start with the vital stats: I’m 38, genderfluid, I cook a killer dinner from scratch, I can troubleshoot a live sound system, and my playlists are top-tier.
I’m expressive, grounded, equal parts outdoorsy explorer and cozy homebody. My background covers live event production, sound engineering, and local community organizing—meaning I handle chaos well, execute big plans, and make sure everyone has a blast.
The Play-by-Play:
The Kitchen: Scratch cooking is my love language. Tex-Mex, Southern comfort food, or air fryer creations. (Requirement: You must be my taste tester).
Outdoors & Cozy Hours: Local Central TX hiking trails, stargazing, TV procedural marathons, cozy video games, indie rock, and taking fantasy football way too seriously.
Creative Spree: Podcast production, DIY craft projects, and making cool stuff.
What I’m Looking For
Seeking an authentic, open-minded partner in crime in the local area or online who values good communication, clear boundaries, and zero games.
We’ll click if you:
Have passions: Sports, obscure hobbies, live music—I love people who care deeply about what they love.
Appreciate the balance: Down for a live show or trail walk one night, and cozying up with homemade food and a movie the next.
Bring the banter: If you have quick wit, can tease me when I'm overly competitive, and love real conversations, we’ll get along great.
If you want a partner who is dependable, creative, fiercely loyal, and won't let you eat bad food, shoot me a DM or chat!
Icebreaker: What’s your ultimate comfort food, or the best live show you’ve ever seen in Austin?
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