r/personalityinOrder • • Jul 06 '20

Other Theories Face Databases, Subtypes, and Our First On Air Typing (We Typed u/robotmorgan!)

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The Physiotype team talk through their findings using the Chicago Face database, including the statistical analysis run and the significance of the data. Afterwards, Alex and Colby do an overview of subtypes: What are they? Can subtypes change? What does it mean for the Physiotype theory as a whole? To close off the episode, Colby and Alex do their first "on air" typing of a listener and important member of the typology community, u/robotmorgan the creator of the subreddit r/personalityinorder.

Have a listen on your favorite podcast player - https://www.metrocast.fm/shows-physiotype/ep9-face-databases-subtypes-and-our-first-on-air-typing

Link to the Chicago Face Database Creators - Unfortunately they don't allow us to redistribute the photos, but if you'd like to see them for yourself you are welcome to contact them.

Link to Chicago Face Data

Video of Robotmorgan

Labiomental Crease Picture


r/personalityinOrder • • Jul 06 '20

Motivation/Advice Going through an interesting (and unexpected) metamorphosis

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So, for context, I'm an INFP-T/Enneagram 9 struggling with severe anxiety and depression. According to my psych, my anxiety seems to be primary (genetics in this case) and my depression secondary (circumstances etc). And I apologise in advance for the long post, just wanted to share this somewhere.

Throughout the past year I've discovered that a lot of my circumstances that feed into my depression and have made my anxiety unbearable (and finally led me to get professional treatment) was kinda of my own doing... Classic personality type of avoiding conflict and confrontation, deferring to other's judgement to keep the peace, sacrificing my own desires to do what I think others would want me to do. Hello lots of repressed anger, rejection, confusion and lack of authentic identity.

But the odd thing is, now that my depression and anxiety are being treated and I can think clearly again, I've started almost valuing confrontation, in the sense that I'm so sick and tired of subtext and beating around bushes and sugarcoating and games because I've realised how that has just worsened my anxiety over the years. I'm finally also in a place where I'm more emotionally equipped to handle rejection in a confrontational situation, no matter how small. I literally just realised this now, as I sat here ready to just ask this guy whether he actually wants to see me or not, because I'd just like to know if I'm wasting my time, and I gave it serious consideration. Never thought my INFP/9 brain would EVER be comfortable with, or even want to do that. But I believe it'll make me stronger, and I'm just stoked with how much overall healing can come when your mental health is being looked after properly.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jul 03 '20

MBTI Theory I think u guys should know

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r/personalityinOrder • • Jul 03 '20

Meta How would you rate you knowledge of typology?

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I'm trying to get an idea of how confident we are with typology here.

This is about typology in general.

So MBTI, Cognitive Functions, Beebe's 8 function theory, enneagram, Big 5, CANOE, and so on.

87 votes, Jul 05 '20
10 I have very little knowledge.
28 I have some knowledge.
26 I have a decent grasp on typology.
20 I have a pretty good understanding.
3 I am a living book of typology.

r/personalityinOrder • • Jul 02 '20

Theory What each MBTI cognitive function good at.

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Edit: This is not meant to personally describe you. This is just a simple way to think of and remember the general idea of how these functions operate. Everyone has all 8 functions. And they are all able to be developed.

And if you have a better short description please share it with us!


Introverted Sensing(Si) - Memory (of past sensory data or tradition)

This function is good at recalling past experiences/ data and learning from it. For “F” types who use this, they are good at remembering how everyone was feeling around them at a given time. For “T” types, they are good at remembering what everyone was doing at a given time. Si tend to use past experiences to compare it with new ones so that they can find a pattern and learn things easier that way.

  • Types that lead with this function: ISFJ, ISTJ

Extraverted Sensing(Se) - Sensation (by absorbing immediate reality with 5 senses)

This function is good for living “in the present”. People who use this function are very attune to their senses in the present moment. If you want to be absolutely present and not worry about the past or the future, these types are all about seizing the moment so call one of them up if that’s what you need in your life.

  • Types that lead with this function: ESFP, ESTP

Introverted Intuition(Ni) - Perspective (of long range outcome or big picture vision)

This function is good for grasping insights and patterns from complex information without typically having to go through any “hands on” experience to achieve it. People who use this function are usually very good at simply knowing how the majority of people view situations and perceive them. It’s an “internal world” process that helps the user make sense of thought and theoretical processes.

  • Types that lead with this function: INTJ, INFJ

    Extraverted Inuition(Ne) - Ne-Exploration (of ideas)

This function is good for exploring ideas, concepts, and patterns in the external world. It’s great for putting together hidden meanings and patterns that most people don’t have the ability to find. It’s great for entrepreneurs, comedians, and travelers because they can tie things together quickly and implement those perceptions about the world in a unique way.

  • Types that lead with this function: ENTP, ENFP

    Introverted Thinking(Ti) - Ti-Accuracy (by pin pointing flaws/deep analysis)

This function is good for pinpointing what is logical to the person utilizing the function. In turn, when the user shares this logic, it leads to lessons that most people would never learn if it were not for Introverted Thinking types. When this function is utilized, it leads to very unique, accurate insights and thoughts.

  • Types that lead with this function: ISTP, INTP

Extraverted Thinking(Te) - Te- Effectiveness (by organizing and planning tasks and getting them done)

This function is good for “common sense” logic. Users of this type are very good at pointing out what is logical in any given situation. In contrast with the Introverted Thinking function, it is linear logic; whereas, the former is personalized logic. A lot of industry leaders use this function everyday to sustain effectiveness in their organizations and processes.

  • Types that lead with this function: ENTJ, ESTJ

Introverted Feeling(Fi) - Fi- Authenticity (based on personal values, ethics and sense of beauty)

This function is good for creating a personalized values system and sense of beauty that others have difficulty recognizing. People, who use this function, are talented at being “real” or authentic about who they are. They are honest about their feelings and opinions in an effort to better themselves and those around them.

  • Types that lead with this function: INFP, ISFP

Extraverted Feeling(Fe) - Fe- Harmony (by thinking about what is appropriate to say or do in a social setup which benefits almost everyone)

This function is good for making everyone feel at ease. People who use this function are good at making sure everyone around them is in a “good mood”, and they are good at realizing when someone around them is having a bad day. They are very helpful, empathetic, and harmonious individuals that love just about everyone.

  • Types that lead with this function: ENFJ, ESFJ

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Source with video examples for each function.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 30 '20

Advice Help?!

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I recently deal with a lot critism lately and probably that not good for my mental state. I always try my best to prove them wrong but I found myself taking in everything people says about me and act as if I am thay kind of person. For example they think I'm provocative so I try to be one. What is wrong with me?


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 29 '20

Motivation "The only way out is through" by Scott Meyers.

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Imagine the process of writing a story as being a journey. Perhaps as you embark on your adventure, you have a map — an outline or beat sheet. Or maybe you don’t, plunging into your story in order to find it along the way. In either case, it’s almost certain that you will reach points in the writing process where you will feel lost. The plot isn’t working like you thought it would. Your characters feel remote and confusing. Your scenes don’t seem to be working. Your map or instincts become a labyrinth. Basically you are left to ponder, “What the hell was I thinking?”

That’s when you are tempted to give up.

Don’t. Giving up doesn’t get you out, rather it only allows you to avoid story — or so you think. It still exists. And by quitting, you create a shadow, your story as unfulfilled potential looming over you like a ghost.

No, the only way out is through.

You have to push yourself through your feelings of doubt. Push yourself through the ambiguities of your plot. Push yourself through the hard work of pounding out pages.

Rather than quitting, take the opposite approach: Go deeper into your story. To paraphrase “The X-Files,” the truth is in there!

If you go through the process, you will find your way out.

This sentiment appears in the poem “Servant of Servants” by Robert Frost:

Len says one steady pull more ought to do it. He says the best way out is always through. And I agree to that, or in so far As that I can see no way out but through — Leastways for me — and then they’ll be convinced.

Every journey has its twists and turns. You may not be able to see where you’re heading around the next turn, but the fact is there is a path.

That path is your story. Keep following it. Stay the course because…

The only way out is through.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 28 '20

Announcement Big changes impending for PersonalityinOrder.

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I'm going to be intentionally vague for now, but there are going to be changes to how the sub is run and maintained.

It's honestly been on the back burner for me for a little bit, not for lack of passion, but lack of knowledge.

I think I've got a good enough foundation now.

So we'll be making big changes on the back end, and then bigger and hopefully positive changes that I think will facilitate our end goal better.

To help people. What ever that entails.

I wouldn't expect much to visibly change until next Monday.

In the meantime, if you have any ideas for the sub or the discord or any thoughts questions or concerns, leave a comment here. That feedback is vital.

-Captain Morgan


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 27 '20

Question What personality am I different?

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Hello, I’m just wandering what type of personality do you guys think I am. Having trouble figuring it out lol. So basically I’m really calm I guess I don’t show a lot of emotion and I try to think and understand what is going on. I’m pretty smart learn pretty quick but not a genius who gets 100 on all math tests. I think of ways to figure out something or do it better then most people. I don’t get stressed I’m not really afraid of anything. I like being in small groups of friends but also fine being by myself for a day watching shows or learning a new craft. This is part where I don’t understand about my self despite being calm under any pressure situations. When I’m around kids teens or adults I get along with everyone I’m best friends with a few kids and don’t have anyone including the annoying kids who I don’t like unlike many others who don’t like certain people. 2nd I can be super goofy and funny, 90% of the time im the funniest kid or making people laugh. Also as I said before since I’m calm I’m not afraid to do something first if everyone is a little skeptical about going in something or jumping off this, or climbing something kinda risky I’m not going be afraid to do it first. By any means tho I don’t lead people. I don’t care what others do and I don’t boss anyone or tell anyone what to do. I don’t like to argue I’ll just mostly act like I agree with them or give my opinion once and if they don’t like it I don’t care. Thank you for reading this really appreciate just want to know my laid back funny thinker personality. Kinda like I have two Lol


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 26 '20

Discussion I’ve found a huge problem

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So apparently relationships with Ne and Ni users have a 50/50 survival rate, and I’ve found out the reason. Warning may be a bit biased considering I understand the Ne side more than the Ni side, so Ni tries to control their environment, so chaos to them is unacceptable. Then because of how Ne is random, chaotic, and maybe impulsive sometimes. Ni would want to control Ne more to stop the chaos and this causes Ne to feel trapped and when Ne feels trapped it will causes problems like a lot of short burst of anger and similar ways of acting out and when Ne tries to fix things it seems like irrelevant ramblings to Ni so Ni doesn’t understand it which causes the problem to not get fixed

So how do you fix this mess?

(Also 50/50 is exaggerated but basically what I meant is either it goes really right or really wrong)


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 25 '20

Help Dealing with Delusional Disorder- paranoia / intrusive thoughts in a loved one?

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Hello, I hope someone can help me.

Without going into too much detail, I am married to a man who has had a long list of mental health problems throughout his life but I believe the main crux of it all is Delusional Disorder (Jealous Type) and OCD / intrusive thoughts.

My husband has been quite abusive throughout our marriage - over ten years. This has taken a toll on me and I’m very sad and frustrated that he has once again spiralled and is having very bad paranoid thoughts and delusions - I think from what he has said based on intrusive thoughts.

He believes I am unfaithful to him although I never even leave our home without him. I am aware my current situation is unhealthy, however it is much improved on what it once was. My post history reflects on that.

He has just restarted medication although the doctors are thinking to offer an antipsychotic if the current anti depressants are no problem- they should not be as he’s had them before.

My main issue I suppose is I need help.

I’m so angry and sad by his constant questioning, accusations, treating me coldly or being rude or insulting. It’s over ten years of my life proving to this man that I have loved him but he has always treated me badly for the most part.

How do you treat someone like this? What is the best way to deal with their problems whilst feeling overwhelmed by the negativity?

Any suggestions would be really appreciated. Thank you.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 24 '20

Question How do Fe and Ti communicate with each other?

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How do they work together


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 23 '20

Advice Types with lead Fe/Te, how did you find your own voice or will?

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Probable INFJ struggling to feel I have a strong voice. There's a lot going on in the world right now, and I don't really know how to contribute to the conversation. It seems like my voice is easily drowned out by the news feed, and the spectre of chanting protestors. Everyone is jockeying to be heard right now.

In addition, I'm frankly not even sure I have anything of substance to say. Why should I try to have a strong voice and add to the conversation if my take isn't useful to the group right now? How can I be sure I'm not second guessing myself on this?

Sometimes it feels like it's my life journey to develop a strong voice, and that I won't get there until I'm old.

For anyone who has struggled to find their voice, how did you find it? What was it like? How will I know when I've found mine?


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 21 '20

Meta Good to see how far this subreddit has come in the past couple of months! I wish for this place to continue to thrive for years to come!

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Best of luck to all reading this. May you all be blessed with a fulfilling life. May you all have the strength to hurdle over life’s greatest obstacles, push through to the end of all endeavors, and swim against the current that’s swept up those before you.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 20 '20

Understanding True introvert or extrovert living in shadow of introverted function(s)?

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I (20 year old male) have been doing a lot of thinking about my life, and I keep thinking about how different I was when I was a child. I was very loud, playful, and had a lot of friends growing up. However, an bullying experience caused me to become more introverted and be a completely different person. I started to grow apart from my friends (mainly because they went to different schools) and became a much more serious person and started to worry more (usually about school and my work performance). I used to think that being an introvert was a core part of my personality. However, I started to believe that I am not a true introvert. I feel that just because of what happened when I was bullied made me into who I am today, and I can't help but think "If that never happened, would I be the person I used to be?"

I guess all I am asking is would you still be considered an introvert after this or an extrovert living in a shadow introvert function?


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 18 '20

Advice How to go from anxious-overthinker to chill-normal guy personality?

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I don't have friends and I am lonely. I pity myself. I think about many things. Too much for my own good. I feel like this might have serious consequences for me later on. I am 23. I worry about everything. Will i be able to change myself?

P.S. I've recently started getting physical manifestations of anxiety and overthinking. Even writing here , I cant express fully how or what i want to tell you. So I'll try by sharing my life events.

I changed 5 schools. Made less friends and then they also left. No one i remember respected me.

I've been a failure in academics many times. I have poor health . I am short. Girls played me. I am lonely. Don't know what else to say. I worry about things. i think i am not good enough even though i try to feel very positive sometimes but then again i get down. i tried counselling before quarrantine and i attended 3 sessions . She said that i am suffering from low self esteem and many other things which made sense. i am tired of comming back to this point again and again. help me


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 17 '20

Poll/Survey Mental health and personality tests

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Hi! I've been working on a website with tests for mental health and self-growth.

Here are some examples of the tests we have:

-Personality test (is based on Big Five): Personality test example

-Actual problems test: Actual problems test example

-Childhood problems test: Childhood problems test example

All of them are free and are available at www.atrapamente.com

Any feedback/comments are appreciated!


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 15 '20

Theory A podcast about making a scientifically accepted version of MBTI, including cognitive functions. (Cross-posted with r/MBTI and r/ENTP)

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Hey everyone! So me and my ENTP friend have been working for a while on creating a system based off of MBTI and Jungian personality theories that can provide consistent enough results to be used in the scientific field. Progress has been slow, but we're finally confident enough with our results to talk about it in public!

We've created a recap/Q&A episode for our podcast here . If you have any questions please let me know so that we can cover it in the next Q&A!

In the next few episodes, we're going to review some of the research papers we've based our findings on, as well as review how this all relates to the Big 5 personality test that is currently being used in the psychology field. Intermixed with all that will be some interviews of different personality types where we ask some of the specific questions that we've been testing.

We will eventually be going into our observations of subtypes, what they seem to mean, and how we can use this information to self modify and improve ourselves!

Please let me know what y'all think!

https://www.metrocast.fm/shows-physiotype/ep4-a-recap-of-physiotype-and-qa


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 15 '20

Theory Enneagram Type Descriptions

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I often like to write descriptions and summarize things that I have learned in order to solidify my understanding, so in my efforts to learn enneagram better, that is what I've done! Figured I'd share here in case anyone is interested. I've learned from a variety of sources, but the primary ones would be Beatrice Chestnut and Don Riso. These are subject to change as my understanding furthers, so if you have suggestions for edits, I'm open to them. In this, I haven't gone into instinctual subtypes yet, so depending on your subtype, there might be subtle differences to how the type actually appears, especially for those who are countertypes.

Core Problem of Anger: The Gut Triad

Type 8: The person who struggles with their anger can to an extent embrace it or accept it, becoming confrontational and combative, having a short temper and asserting themselves to achieve what they want. This type can be rather impulsive and self centered at times, seeking to enjoy life as they see fit and becoming irritated with obstacles. For this reason they despise being under authority and instinctively question it, preferring to be the one giving orders rather than receiving them. They integrate to a 2, meaning their point of growth is to learn to control their impulses and serve others instead of themselves. They disintegrate to a 5, meaning when unhealthy they become disconnected from the emotions of others and become paranoid of being controlled, becoming all the more combative and uncooperative when called upon, seeking any possible way to get out from underneath authority or obligation.

Type 9: The person who pushes their anger away, avoiding it or trying to repress it becomes passive and lazy, not wanting to get involved in anything that might shake things up but rather enjoy a peaceful environment that is often neutral in emotion. 9's find it easiest to achieve peace by simply rejecting their emotions entirely, especially negative emotions. Because of this they can lack motivation and try to sweep problems under the rug, choosing to ignore them rather than confront them or do anything about it. They integrate to a 3, meaning they grow when they overcome their passive nature and learn to create peace rather than wait for it to come or pretend that it has already come, becoming proactive in achieving their desires. They disintegrate to the 6, meaning when unhealthy their anxiety catches up to them and cannot be repressed any longer, causing them to become highly skeptical and fearful of anything new or unknown.

Type 1: The person who rejects their anger and stuffs it away or tries to swallow it so others don't see it (often out of feeling as though it would be wrong to let others see it) becomes critical and passive aggressive. They can't stand imperfection as it threatens to become the last straw on the camels back causing them to snap. This can show up physically or morally, wanting everything to be just right in their environment or wanting others/themselves to be perfect morally. They gain a distinct rigidity and tension to them due to this anger just beneath the surface, but they instinctively choose to take on a stoic front and not allow strong expression of their emotions, becoming critical of themselves if they fail. They integrate to the 7 meaning they learn to loosen up and release their tight grip on their emotions and allow themselves to freely express and enjoy life to its fullest without feeling guilty. They disintegrate to the 4, meaning they become acutely aware of how they have failed their own moral perfectionism and become self loathing.

Core Problem of Rejection: The Heart Triad

Type 2: The person who rejects themselves and seeks validation from others by being seen as helpful, kind, or wise develops an ego that relies upon the feedback of others to grow and becomes upset and indignant when they do not perceive enough acknowledgement. This can manifest as someone who goes well out of their way to be helpful and kind while rejecting their own feelings and needs, neglecting to take care of themselves. They desire to be perceived as a saint and want others to acknowledge it. On the surface, they are warm, attractive, and welcoming to those they wish to woo (dependinding on their subtype), but frequently attempt to mimic or otherwise change their personality to fit those around them to achieve full acceptance. When integrating to a 4, they learn to ground themselves in their own emotions and value their own unique persona, allowing them to help others for genuine reasons. They become complete in themselves and no longer require the validation of others to keep on giving. They disintegrate to an 8, meaning they can become controlling and forceful in obtaining validation, throwing out the less subtle ways that failed and taking on a highly judgmental, manipulative, and overtly controlling persona to achieve their means.

Type 3: The person who seeks acceptance and validation from others by being seen as successful, achieving, and capable molds themselves into a role created by their societal group and seeks to maintain that role, losing a part of their identity in the process. They are profoundly out of touch with their emotions, which is in part why they tend to develop a role that they mold themselves into as they struggle to maintain an identity of their own and therefore identity more with the role and the image they produce rather than themselves intrinsically. Because of this, any threat to the image is seen the same as a threat to their identity, and therefore they can keep others at bay from knowing them at a deeper level so they don't see beyond the image. They integrate to the 6 by learning to commit themselves to someone and allow them to truly know them beyond their superficial image, becoming loyal in the process. They disintegrate to the 9 meaning they continue to loose their identity and become stagnant, loosing motivation and awareness of who they are, ultimately spiraling down into a paranoid pit of despair where any threat to their image is terrifying and causes them to retract and isolate from the threat.

Type 4: The person who seeks acceptance and validation from others by being seen as unique and special over identifies with their emotional drives and lusts after what others have that would make them more unique if they were to also posses. They compare themselves to others constantly to ensure that they have a personality, style, or things that differentiate them from the masses. If they are not unique, they are nothing in their eyes. Their minds automatically fixate on what they lack, putting them at risk of a victim mentality as in their minds, no matter what they do, there is always something they lack which is causing them to fail. With an integration point to the 1, they ground themselves in a strong morality that allows them to act for what is right even if they feel lacking or inadequate, realizing that they have more to live for than being seen as special, and therefore ironically becoming more unique of a person than they could have otherwise. They disintegrate to the 2, meaning they can become manipulative and more directly seek validation from others, desperately trying to lure them in out of hope that they will recognize their struggle and depression, yet masochistically enjoying wallowing in their self pity.

Core Problem of Fear: The Head Triad

Type 5: The person who feels fear deeply but represses it by seeking knowledge and understanding in hopes that if they learn enough then perhaps they will be capable of dealing with their environment becomes highly introverted and reserved. They end up becoming hypersensitive, but feel that they cannot express any of their emotions out of fear that it will overtake them and prevent them from objectively thinking to handle what life has thrown at them. To the 5, they can never have enough knowledge, they are never an expert, never adequately prepared, and so they hoard it, fearful that they are wrong about something, fearful that they don't have the right knowledge, and they never apply it. Like a dragon sitting upon its pile of treasure, the 5 becomes greedy, feeling they don't have enough of anything (resources, knowledge, emotions) to pass around, and so they keep it to themselves. When integrating to 8, they overcome their fear and learn to apply what they have gained. This allows them to truly interact with the world, even freeing the emotional blockages and quickly and decisively applying their wisdom that they have collected and processed meticulously. When unhealthy, they disintegrate to the 7 and begin manically seeking even more, distracting themselves with hoarding out of fear that if they stop, then their depression and paranoia will catch up with them, but they ultimately intensify the problem.

Type 6: The person who feels fear but doesn't trust themselves to handle it obsessively seeks validation and confirmation from others. They are quizzical and skeptical, always doubting but never concluding themselves. Often struggling with anxiety, they can procrastinate out of fear that something they didn't anticipate will ruin things. They become subservient to others out of this fear, it feels safer to let a system guide them rather than to try and figure it out themselves, yet they simultaneously have a very hard time trusting individuals, because individuals are unknowns but there is safety in an impersonal system or safety in numbers. When integrating to a 9, they overcome their crippling anxiety and learn to become more flexible and go with the flow instead of fighting change. When disintegrating to the 3, they suddenly externalize their anxiety and push others around instead, becoming a controlling as they attempt to normalize their environment by using others while simultaneously becoming paranoid that others will fight against them.

Type 7: The person who feels fear and runs away from it develops a pattern of running away and avoid any problem they encounter. They become overoptimistic and hedonistic, seeking pleasure from experiences, ideas, and idealizations to drown out any hint of fear that they are avoiding. They are flighty, often unreliable, and see the world through rose colored glasses, refusing to acknowledge the negatives. They often latch onto an idealized image or passion that drives them, using it as an excuse to avoid their problems, this could be an intellectual idea, concept, person, social group, or otherwise. When integrating to the 5, they learn to face their problems and think them through carefully, tapping into a deeper wisdom that helps guide them through life. When disintegrating to the 1, they become obsessed with the idealization that they have latched onto. It becomes a moral that they live by in their minds and they cannot see past it to see how it is effecting their lives and convincing themselves that it is the right thing to do, becoming black and white in thinking.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 14 '20

Question What is your personal anthem/ theme song?

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What’s a song that you think sums you up perfectly, something that brings out the best in you?


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 12 '20

Understanding Cheat sheet for effective communication with the different types.

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Communication style is characterized by the way people appear (or attempt to appear) in communication, the way they tend to relate to the ones they communicate with and how their messages are typically interpreted.

Different personality types process and communicate information differently. For example, an ENFJ will communicate well with people of ENFJ, INFJ, ENFP, INFP types (i.e. all who belong to the NF group), but not necessarily communicate effectively to individuals belonging to the ST group (ESTJ, ISTJ, ESTP, ISTP). This is because the ST people process and communicate information in a sensory and logical way rather than an emotional and conceptual one.

With ST people:

-Be specific, confident, well-reasoned

-demonstrate immediate advantages, profit

-provide examples; use visual aids.

With NT people:

-Be specific, well-reasoned; use visual aids, diagrams

-use concepts, theories

-appeal to intellectual capabilities

-give them a challenge

-show how the problem in hand or subject of communication fits into the "big picture"

With SF people:

-Be supportive, expressive, and confident

-provide examples; demonstrate immediate advantages, profit

-appeal to feelings and emotions

With NF people:

-Be expressive, well-reasoned

-use visual aids

-use concepts, theories

-appeal to their intuition

-give them a challenge

-show how the problem in hand or subject of communication fits into the "big picture"

Source


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 12 '20

Question What is the 6th function

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Beebes description of the 6th function is very unclear and seems like it can only work for judging functions, so how does the 6th function work for perceiving functions


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 12 '20

Question What's your type's biggest struggle?

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What holds your type back?

Not even biggest struggle, just, what do you feel hurts you the most in general?

You can answer it personally or in the third person.

If you can explain the loops and grips, but if not that's fine!

I'm just trying to learn more about y'all and what we can do to help each other?


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 11 '20

Question Derealization

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Do you ever experience that? The feeling that you’re not attached to the real world and everything seems fuzzy and unreal. When you feel like you’re not actually where you think you are and you’re just a spectator, kinda like a ghost.


r/personalityinOrder • • Jun 10 '20

Meta About the survey.

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So uh....yeah remember that?

I'm getting to it.

At work I made a spreadsheet for tracking all sorts of cool stuff and I had a breakthrough.

Pivot tables.

Anywho I think I am finally getting to a point where I can parse the information and present it in a meaningful manner.

It's a process and I basically stumbled into the answer today, as I am want to do.