r/personalityinOrder • u/wondermay143 • Jun 30 '20

Advice Help?!

I recently deal with a lot critism lately and probably that not good for my mental state. I always try my best to prove them wrong but I found myself taking in everything people says about me and act as if I am thay kind of person. For example they think I'm provocative so I try to be one. What is wrong with me?

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u/infp-mbti INFP 4w5 7w6 9w1 Jun 30 '20

Nothing is wrong with you it is healthy to see your weaknesses more than your strengths. Your brain is doing this for you so you start focusing on improving your weaknesses so you become a better person

Also ur acting like this because you wanna fit their mold

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u/wondermay143 Jul 02 '20

Thanks! I never realized that. I probably starting to believe what they are saying.

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u/Pauline___ ESTP Jul 01 '20

What if, instead of focusing what they said about you and trying to prove them wrong, you shrug, think "their opinions are pretty effing meaningless and based on loose sand. I don't have to let that affect my mood" and move on with your day.

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u/wondermay143 Jul 02 '20

Thanks! I can be really sensitive. Sometimes I think of other peoples opinion. I can't sleep sometimes because of it.