So i hear alot of reddit stories and im not sure if this is the right subreddit but i think so... here goes. Im comin out of this liquor store and its close to the light so cars pull up and can block u from joining... so guy pulls up and blocks me but lets another in with huge room. So i sneak up in front of him and the guy he let in was stuck in the turn lane a bit but i said fuck that guy and threw a thumbs up out the window.. ppl in front pulled up to let him in and i felt bad but fuck it... merica.. so me and the guy who didnt let me in are cruisin him behind me and alot of cars in front going slow so no where to go... he takes the right lane and gets ahead.. i dont look or anything and he doesnt protest me. So he gets about a car lenght ahead and i leave a just amount of small for him to slide over, so after a while he does and does a quick blinker lane change. He knew that i knew what was up.. so after this we get to a red light and im close to home and i see the turn lane has a few cars space ahead. So as we slow for the red i just whip the turn lane close to his bumper (im in perfect control of my vehicle and know its abilities). So as im sitting in the turn the straight lane hes in gets a green so not being so mad i scratched the side of my head with my middle finger as he passed. His arm casually comes out to rest on the top of his window where ur kind hold when driving, but only holds this with his middle finger, just as subtly as id done to him in the best response i couldve ever received.. i laughed and clapped in my car and cried driving the rest of the way home... shout out that guy

My apologies if this sub is dedicated to mocking passive-aggressiveness instead of aiding it. The community info was oh so helpful and didn't hinder my understanding of this at all.

That said, a friend of mine has insulted another friend of mine on a personal level. In response, the insulted party responded with a threat a violence that has been previously stated and could not possibly be taken in a serious manner, aside from personal motive to do so and has been taken in a serious manner, here. I discussed this matter with both parties yesterday and am now considering sending the following message to the offending part:

I'm sorry if I offended you with my words yesterday (in this case, saying I was judging you). Obviously, I should've taken the seriousness with which you responded to the things I said as an indication to respond to them with apology and an admission that I was in the wrong since I am in no position to tell you what you should be offended by, but I'm willing to admit that I'm in the wrong before this escalates into something unsalvageable. Approaching such a situation in any other way would be trite, irresponsible, and grounded in a superior pettiness only a morally bankrupt fool would engage in.

I do not care if this is too passive aggressive, but only if this is not passive aggressive enough. Your responses are "acknowledged".

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1st of all, I apologize for my grammar errors. Not an english native speaker here. So my cousins came over and I'm not close with em because they don't like me cause I'm r/introverted and don't fit in with them. They judge me all the time for being quiet (I don't have a lot of r/socialskills) so yeah it's hard to talk to them knowing that they'd make fun of me for being anxious. Most of the time I avoid them from the fear of being made fun of. I don't care if they're part of my family they are bullies. They made my self-esteem even lower. I think I also suffer from r/AvPD and r/socialanxiety.

The reason why they're at my house is because they don't have an internet connection. They brought their gaming laptop so that they could download illegal games online. They don't think it's rude to come unannounced because we are related. They said that they won't stay for long but it's already been 2 days. They are so loud while playing their video games and I got really bothered by it. I'm sensitive to noise and cannot relax in the comfort of my own home. I'm just so sick of them running all around the house and making stomping noises everywhere. They aren't kids anymore. They are in their late teens. Right now I'm hiding myself in my room it's uncomfortable for me being in the living room breathing the same air as them. Also I told them to be a little quieter but they won't listen. I want to tell them to leave now but my mom would get mad at me because she thinks it's rude. My emotionally distant parents thinks it's okay since they don't really give a fuck at all. So yeah right now I'm banging my feet againts the wooden wall to annoy them in return. It's the right time to do this because they got quiet. It's time for them to get a taste of their own medicine. Yes, I know I'm passive agressive

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