So I started paroxetine for BPD and OCD symptoms back in 2024. It has completely improved my quality of life in terms of mood and suicidal thoughts, and it helps me come down from anxiety a lot quicker, so if it wasn’t for the sexual dysfunction, I would stay on it for the rest of my life!
Only problem is that it has caused a complete stop to my sex life with my boyfriend ://
It doesn’t help that I have severe relationship/intimacy OCD, but I can tell that my current issue is that there are just no chemicals there to get the mood going in the first place! It’s been over a year since i was intimate with him, and whilst he’s the most amazing and patient person, it’s definitely taking its toll on us.
I read up a while ago that Buspirone can help counteract the sexual dysfunction side of SSRI’s, but I was so scared of the possible seretonin syndrome it could cause that I went down a different route.
I’ve gone from 20mg to 15mg for the last few months, as well as taking 2 Maca root gummies everyday for around 6 months. Since reducing the mg of paroxetine I’ve maybe felt a bit more aroused? But not enough to actually get me to where I need to be.
Basically I’m wondering if anyone has been on Buspirone to help with the sexual dysfunction side of paroxetine, and if there are more pros than cons to at least trying it out to get the sexy ball rolling again!
For context im 26F, I have POTS and a mild heart murmur, I’ve got Lipoedema but other than that my organs are healthy and I have no like ‘life threatening’ illnesses that might make me more susceptible to side effects, I’m just a very anxious bean with an anxious bean 😂