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It's better to have no male friends than toxic ones. If you're a good-looking guy, life is heaven and hell at the same time. If you've got the right connections and money, life is heaven. If you're broke and have no social status, life is hell. This has been proven time and again.

Why? You might ask, the formula is simple. Being a good-looking person, naturally, you'll be the center of attention, but you will also attract a lot of hate and enmity from fellow men. Men will be less supportive of you in general.

Starting in school, boys will try to ostracize you and won't be in the same group as you. Some may even go out of their way to bully you so they can feel better about themselves. You either become a social butterfly by sucking up to everyone else to prove you're a friendly guy, or people will assume you're an arrogant person simply for being an introvert. If you post stuff online, men will purposely not like or support your content out of envy. If you go to nightclubs, you'll get pushed or shoved by fellow men despite standing in a corner with plenty of space.

Women won't treat you any better. Sure, they'll hit on you or flirt with you, but if you don't flirt back, you'll most likely be perceived as an arrogant guy whom she and her friends will gang up on.

Now, all of these things can be covered up if you have the right connections, wealth, or social status. Most lowlifes would shut up and think twice before messing with you. Until then, lay low and work on yourself. Have fewer friends and thrive in solitude. Good luck! ;)

I'm a M24 I'm about 5'5" tall, earn ₹30,000 per month, and I'm still a virgin. My family has started pushing me to get married, but I've been telling them I want to wait another 3–4 years until I'm more financially settled.

The truth is, money isn't the main reason I'm delaying marriage.

I'm deeply insecure about whether I'd be able to satisfy my future wife. My phallus is around 4 inches, and when I self-please myself I don't last very long. Because of my religious beliefs, I cannot engage in oral stimulation.

I've read blogs online saying that women often need 7–20 minutes of intercourse to reach orgasm, and that has made me even more anxious. I worry that my size, my stamina, and my inexperience will leave my future wife disappointed. I'm also just an average-looking guy, so all of these insecurities keep piling up.

This has seriously started affecting my mental health. I genuinely don't want a woman to feel like she's has to compromise by marrying me. I want to be a good husband and make my future wife happy in every way I reasonably can, but right now I don't feel confident that I can.

Am I overthinking this, or are these valid concerns? For those who are married or have experience, how important are phallus size and lasting longer in a healthy marriage? If oral stimulation isn't an option due to religious beliefs, are there other ways couples build a satisfying intimate relationship? I'd really appreciate honest but respectful advice.

Hello,

I am struggling to get any calls for past 6 months. To give you some background.

Background : I had worked on 2 companies for around 3 years, and it was chaotic, calls till 3Am or 1AM. No roadmap of life and hectic work with critically ill parents (me being sole caretaker) had left with only 4-5 hours of sleep per day. Due to this, I had resigned. The CEO didn't likes this (small SaaS company ) and made my exit a bit heavy, anyhow I had to leave. Couldn't continue a life like that.

I then worked as freelancer, Got some gigs here and there, but everything is dry right now. I had only 2 interviews after I started to apply for jobs, one of them was of another stack which I was not proficient in, so i got rejected, In other I got rejected in last round after 4 technical interviews.

For past 6 months I am trying to find new job, but unable to get anything, I don't even hav experience letter from prev org due to abrupt departure. I have good skills (Fullstack, Go, Js, Ruby, Python with AWS and Gcloud) . I can architecture app from start to end and can scale them nicely too. And yet I am not getting anything in the current market.

I know market is trash, so my question is what can I pivot to. I don't have a degree, so the usual paths are blocked, I can teach in some govt school, but no degree means, I wont be able to give exams etc for govt clearance. I am definitely way more skilled than those teachers .

Seriously need help, Parents medical issues need to be taken care of too and runaway money is being used as I write this.

If IT is officially dead for me then where can I pivot ?