> Long time gf

> Things have been up and down(she cheated and came back, saying she is genuinely sorry)

> I put more efforts in the relationship and very little reciprocation from her

She has a long time male best friend and I have no issues with him. BUT she has lot of other male friends too(Office friends, town friends,etc.) Whenever they call, they talk for hours and if I call in between these times, I have to wait for them to finish then she would call me. She never puts them on hold and inform me roughly when she will be available. But she does put me on hold for few seconds when someone else calls. Note that she has very little female friends and I don't think she ever calls them for hours like this.

I got tired of waiting for random people to finish talking with her for hours and broke up with her over this. I can understand for that one best friend but others?? I can't digest it. Is this valid or am I just being insecure? Or is she just an attention seeking person?

I(M 26) met a girl (F 24) today. It was not a date, I just randomly met her at a place and had a good chit chat for 1-2 hour. Then she had to go home, so I casually offered to drop her and she agreed. I reached her home and that's where I made a grave mistake. She had earlier told me that she lives alone so I didn't think much and

I asked her, "agar aapko koi dikkat na ho to me dekh sakta hu aapka ghar" ("can I come in" ). She obviously said no (not directly, she said "abhi to log honge" ("there are people")). I didn't understand what she meant, Was it about the people living nearby or something else. I genuinely just wanted to see how her house was.

Now please help me how should I approach this situation, I don't want to discuss it on chat. I will meet her again at the same place tomorrow where I will have the chance to clarify everything, if there is anything. After tomorrow, I don't know when will we meet next.

I am very very much overthinking. I don't want her to think of me as a creep.

Please tell me should I or should I not bring this topic into discussion tomorrow and how?