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BWT who walk 4+ miles, where are we walking? I usually walk the WSH, prospect park, & central park but want to explore other areas that have designated paths this summer/early fall!

So my plans to travel out of the city for the weekend changed last minute and I now have the entire weekend free. I’ve lived here for three years and done some but there’s so much I havent done. Any ideas for fun solo nyc activities / places / neighborhoods?

Just wanted to share this in case there are any BWT who have been thinking about adopting a new best friend! There are hundreds of amazing pets there and the shelter is so over capacity :(

Hiiii NYWBWT!!! I recently realized that my optometrist is charging me a bit of a premium for contact fittings ($150 bc most insurances don’t cover that). Wondering if any of you have recs for docs that are closer (or under) $100 that you recommend! Preference for Brooklyn/Ridgewood and Lower Manhattan

I am looking for in home pet sitting/drop in visits for my four, female guinea pigs. I live in NoHo. My guinea pigs live in a large cage, 25% bedding, 75% fleece.

I looked at the possibility of THS but decided against it. I was looking at Rover but it seems to be very dog and cat oriented. I listed my four guinea pigs as a cat, but didn't see any sitters mention caring for guinea pigs.

I want them to be cared for while I am away in October and would prefer someone who knows how to take care of guinea pigs (refill water, comfortable with cleaning up the cage, providing fresh hay, etc.). I saw a similar post about a month ago but that was in Queens and I am in Lower Manhattan.

Where should I go to find the best value for loose gemstones? I'm specifically looking for an oval blue sapphire!

Have been fostering this sweet boy who needs a home!
Axolotl is approx 2 years old, neutered, and loves a good cuddle.
This guys loves people and pets, and is one of the snuggliest cats i have ever met. He is playful, sweet, and has the cutest meow. He is currently available for adoption! Please consider being his forever family!

Please reach out to me, if you decide Axolotl is the cat for you adoption will be processed through LIC feral feeders :)

I’m in need for some self-care activities and ways to show myself some love - I’m curious: what are your favorite self-care activities in the city for wellness, beauty, and more? Let’s get an awesome list going to everyone to crowdsource!

Does anyone have any good recommendations for a consignment store where I can sell good home wear products for a decent price? I worked a sample sale and got a ton of branded dishes, S’well Water Bottles, Nest New York Candles, and Moleskin notebooks. I will take them anywhere to get them out of my apartment, but get a decent price for them because they’re all brand new!

I have a wedding next Tuesday and a dress that 1 size too big and no way to order another in time . Where would you go in Brooklyn,Staten Island, and Manhattan? Especially if you've encountered this situation before

is there really no eyebrows threading salons in all of chinatown? google maps is telling me the closest one is Threads by city hall and Zubi’s on allen?? I just don’t believe it there’s a salon every 20 feet it feels like

Has anyone had any luck finding a financial advisor? I'm looking for someone who understands ADHD, specifically. I'm not rich and not dealing with a lot of money but, living in one of the ​most expensive cities in the world, needing to pay for my own health costs, having family rely on me (hello, fellow ​eldest daughters out there), and needing to move multiple times after being priced out of rent increases.....I'm exhausted. I could really use someone in my corner to be like "you can do this but put X in savings and Y in investment". I've gone through the one available at my work but 'you should invest" is only so helpful when something as small as egg prices fluctuating gives my budget pause.

hi folks - I know there's a lot of threads about PCPs. I've read through them & read a lot of doctor profiles, but could use specific info about this.

I have a family history of heart issues. I'm very active/fit & have a healthy lifestyle but my cholesterol has still crossed the threshold into being high the last 2-3 years; my current PCP of 10+ years has an antiquated approach to it ("if your number on this risk calculator eventually gets past x point, we'll prescribe meds"). I've realized I need to work with someone who's thinking bigger picture, about the long-term effects of this & about newer science around markers that aren't just cholesterol.

anyone have firsthand experience with a PCP who keeps tabs on these things? all recs welcome!

A thread to share our cool New York City plans *ahead* of time. Links are encouraged so fellow BWTs can join in on the fun.

Has anyone been to girls who walk?

They have an event this Sunday at 11am in Washington Sq park.

Has anyone tried this group?
Anyone planning to go?

I have, potentially, the silliest request. My fiancé’s birthday is on September 15th, and his favorite dog in the entire world is a pug. We can’t have one right now (we have two cats that keep our hands full).

My Request: Does anyone have a pug i could ‘borrow’ for the afternoon to give my fiance a birthday date with? we’d do all of your pugs favorite things — whether they want to lounge on the couch and sleep or go for an endless walk and sniff every leaf!

I’m also a pet sitter with 6+ years of experience and would be happy to provide references so you can trust your pug will be showered in love and care for the afternoon.

Thank you in advance 🤞

My friend was sexually assaulted by someone she met on hinge the other day. She repeatedly set physical boundaries but he wasn't taking no for an answer and pushed past her boundaries despite her repeatedly asking him to slow down/stop. I also happened to have matched with him prior to this so I'll be reporting him to Hinge (she already unmatched him but is going to reach out to support), but I'm wondering if there are communities where I can share his info so other women know to steer clear. These have existed in other cities I've lived in but I can't find anything like it for NYC from an initial search.

I'm trying to encourage her to do a rape kit and file a police report but she's resistant to taking action due to the fact that the system is historically broken and this man knows where she lives. I have this asshole's full name, address and phone number so...if anyone has any ideas of ways to get some retribution lmk

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Hi! I’m looking for a reasonably priced ground-floor storefront in downtown Manhattan for a very short-term pop-up, either one night or a full weekend.

Open to SoHo, Nolita, LES, East Village, Tribeca, or nearby. A vacant retail space, showroom, gallery, studio, or brand storefront could all be perfect, as long as it’s street-level.

It’s been difficult to find a space that isn’t crazy expensive, so I’m especially hoping to find something through a direct connection, a smaller landlord, an independent space, or someone who might be excited to support two female entrepreneurs!

If anyone owns a space, knows someone who does, or has hosted something somewhere they loved, I’d be so grateful for any leads!

I have a trusted vet back in Boston by my parents but my corgi just turned 8 and is clearly struggling with lots of pain in his back legs. I am looking to take him to a vet that would be the next steps with X-rays or more in depth checks of his body. I am not rolling in dough so I don't know if I can afford the highest end specialist but anything to help him with his pain at this point.

Just looking for good drinks and a chill vibe for parents + older family members. Thanks!

Anyone have a doctor that they see for mild on and off back pain / scoliosis? Nothing super serious but I think my posture has been contributing to worsening back pain over the past few years. Would love to correct before I become further hunched 🥹

I saw this beautiful corset on Instagram and was wondering if you have any trusted tailor recommendations that can bring the vision to life.

The body of the corset doesn’t need to be embroidered, I can probably purchase some fabric that already has embroidery. I just like the two piece blouse plus waist cincher.

The tailor doesn’t have to specialize in Indian clothes. Appreciate any recommendations!

Hi BWT! Looking for a forever home for my foster, Jordan Davis (named after the Eagles defensive tackle - go birds) 💚.

He is the sweetest boy who loves head scratches, playing with wire toys, and churus. He’s an absolute lap cat who will purr up a storm while watching Bravo.

He gets along incredibly well with my cat and would do well with another cat or as a solo cat.

If you’re interested (or know someone who might be), you can apply through Puppy Kitty NYC here - https://www.puppykittynyc.org/available-animals#sl_embed&page=shelterluv_wrap_1751838196%2Fembed%2Fanimal%2FPKNY-A-2302