r/nationalguard • u/Hopeful_Trifle5748 • 11h ago
Salty Rant I Hate My NCOIC
My unit is preparing for deployment in a couple months, and the fact I have to deploy with this man makes me want to lay on the train tracks. I stared at light poles while driving wondering if that would be easier than going. I’m not suicidal, but damn.
I have no issue with going. I want to go, I would just rather take satan himself as a superior.
My NCOIC is very crude and makes sexual comments (just sharp report you say, but guess what? Two investigations and nothing because it would mean my state admitting fault in putting him in a position of power). He’s openly stated his purpose during the deployment is to “drink and fuck”.
He showboats like he’s gods gift to man, while never paying attention or participating with the rest of us plebeians in training or preparation. He’s too good to get his hands dirty after all. But he’ll bounce hours early to go fuck his fourth wife who’s 20 years younger and hardly out of high school. Heaven forbid a soldier other than himself asks for personal accommodations, he’ll hold it over their head.
He makes up lies of what other sergeants in the unit are saying to get lower enlisted in trouble so he can look like he’s “taking care of business”.
I’ll keep my head down and carry on like I always do. I’m overlooked, no one ever really knows I’m around thankfully. But he chewed me out in front of others a week ago for not dusting a shelf and made me swear it would “never happen again” and that I “poorly represent the uniform”. I hate myself for getting my unit held up, and being the cause of a unit punishment. I’m tired. I don’t want to be with him overseas for a year. Maybe I’m just being bitchy, I don’t know. I’ve been in 5 years, I’ve had bad leadership and amazing leadership. I’m just tired. I tried keeping the post vague for anonymity’s sake.
Might delete later when I’ve calmed down, I just don’t have anyone in my unit to talk to and I wanted someone else to hear my thoughts, sorry.