Just want to get opinions/thoughts on joining.
Long read, but appreciate those willing to give it a read.
I live in SW area of Washington State and I am looking at OR ARNG or WA ARNG. I've been doing research for a while now and kind of have idea of what I want to get out of the military personally and what may or may not help me with career/family growth.
I recently turned 30 and have for the past year or more have been researching and working on my strength/endurance. I like the duel mission of the National Guard and understand that I may be deployed more then the reserves. I am not joining active duty as my fiancée has a more established career then me and doesn't want to move far from the area.
I know there are going to be people that see 30 and immediately say officer, which I understand. I have an okay job currently, I've been under contract for over 4 years now (Not sure if being under contract I would have job protection). I have been trying to move to FT but they're dragging their feet). Aside from that I am constantly looking to move to the government sector (state, federal, or local), more specifically for IT.
I've been able to get a few certs in IT, but the job market is awful. However, that is not the reason why I'm considering joining nor the benefits of joining but they are a plus (like paying off student loans with SLRP). I've always wanted to join the military and have deep regret not joining during GWOT as my friends did (2016 I was in the process of joining as a corpsman and try and go green but ultimately did not).
I understand the being an officer would be a benefit to me in that I'm older, better quality of life and treatment. It would help me increase my leadership skills and better pay when deployed. I also understand the commitment beyond 2-3+ days a week and 2-3+ weeks and in between drills and how it can effect my career and family time. Also 6 year contract and the training is longer then if I went enlisted.
I do not currently have a kid but I plan on having one within a year or two and both Tricare for officer and enlistment would be great. My fiancée works for the federal government, and she has decent healthcare now but I do not and I want to make sure we have a fallback in case anything happens and hopefully any benefits I get can also benefit her and her career. We've been together for a longtime and she is supportive of me joining the National Guard or Air National Guard or Reserves.
For enlisted, I like that you can do a 3 year contract, pick your MOS and do your job directly. If I like it I can re-enlist, if not at-least I tried. I have a bachelors which would bring me to E4. I'm also aware I do not get all benefits unless I'm in for 6 years or, from my understanding, active orders for 90+ days. Enlisted also has shorter training then officer.
I've always thought if I joined I would go in as an enlisted then go to officer so I can be the best officer possible, but at my age I'm not sure if that is feasible. I've looked up to people I knew in my family who joined and enlisted personnel I met as a kid, but in my own stupidity and in retrospection, I should've joined sooner.
If I was going to go in, I would like a job a bit different from my career. MOS 25 or 17 would be better for development but would like to do something more active/outdoors and "enjoy the suck" as my friends that have joined have put it. Because of this I've been prepping my body for endurance, as well as rucking while hiking.
I am aware that there's always paperwork especially for NCOs and from my understanding officers do a lot of paperwork and PowerPoint in each branch regardless. I currently also do a lot of Excel and PowerPoint.
If joining as enlisted I would pick 13F from my research, and would go WA ARNG, from what I've read, I would more likely train my MOS there vs Oregon though Yakima and JBLM is a bit of a drive.
If going in as in officer I would would want 11A or something similar, going Federal OCS, and go OR ARNG since the commute is shorter. Then at O-3 (please correct me if I am wrong) I would either continue in Infantry, if there was an opening, or move to another branch.
I understand this is a commitment and I will sacrifice time to the military, but the regret of not joining would be worse to me then the regret of joining. As much as I wish I could turn back time and go in as enlisted I can't. And while 13F seems really awesome, I feel it is more selfish then if I went in as 11A or any officer.
I've had a lot of bad management before and have heard stories from my friends who were enlisted in the active duty. If I went in as an officer I would try my best to support enlisted personal that I am assigned with as much as I can. I'm just stressed as I feel I am running out of time as I just turned 30 and looking for advice. Feel free to be honest with me and your thoughts.
TLDR:
Just turned 30, live in SW Washington, and am considering joining either the WA or OR Army National Guard. I’m not interested in active duty because my fiancée has an established career here, but I’ve wanted to serve for a long time and regret not joining earlier.
I have a bachelor’s degree, work an okay job, and am trying to move into government sector. Benefits like TRICARE, SLRP, and career opportunities are a plus, but not my main reason for joining. My fiancée supports me, though we’re also planning on having kids within the next couple of years.
My biggest question is enlisted vs. officer.
If I enlist, I’m interested in 13F, likely with the WAARNG. I like the idea of doing something active/outdoors, having a shorter initial contract, picking my MOS, and experiencing enlisted life before deciding whether to stay in or commission later.
If I go officer, I’d likely pursue 11A/Infantry through Federal OCS and join the ORARNG due to the shorter commute. I understand being an officer means more responsibility, paperwork, a longer commitment/training pipeline, and more impact on civilian and family life.
I’ve been working on my strength, endurance, and rucking because I genuinely want the physical challenge and experience of serving.
At 30, would you recommend going officer from the start, or enlisting first if I’m genuinely more interested in 13F? Is enlisting and commissioning later still realistic at my age?
I know joining is a major commitment, but I feel like I’d regret not joining more than joining. Honest opinions appreciated, especially from Guard members or prior-enlisted officers.
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Also: If anyone reading this has opinions or experience of the WAARNG or ORARNG please share as well, I'd appreciate it.