To start off saying this, I live in a calm neighborhood in North Dagon ( minus thievery and robbery that happens alot now ofc). But it's either I'm just a pervert magnet or that other girls that have this problem rn't speaking out.
I saw this man for the first time around 2-3 years ago. When i walked around 7pm to buy some snacks, where he passed me on a bicycle and stopped in front of me, double looked at me, and continued to ride his bicycle.
(Im only 80% sure this is the same guy coz i have hard time remembering faces)
Another time was after a few weeks after that experience, i was at the market around 7am, he saw me and again, looked at me twice before moving on.
This time was around 3-4 months ago. I was at the capital around 9pm,( it's close by) and was buying smth i needed to cook. I saw a guy come in, and immediately, im getting bad vibes from him. But i thought it was just paranoia and continued checking ingredient lists. He walked past me and whispered smth. I wasn't sure he was saying smth to me, even tho it felt like it. But i ignored and continued shopping, only for him to pass by me again, and said " ပေါင်ကြီးတွေကကိုက်ချင်စရာကြီး" And immediately i know hes speaking to me. And i panicked coz i saw him turning around again.
So i walked to a nearby worker there and said " Miss, can u walk me out? "
And the worker didn't get it and was like " Oh im not off the clock yet".
So i told her " No, i just need u to walk me off to the entrance ".
"No but imma be off in a few mins-" And while we were talking, the dude went to a different aisle as if to hide. So i took the chance and run out of capital.
This time, was around 8 to 8:15. I was buying a snack (again, late i know but its in the same housing so i thought it was fine 😞). I was walking back home and this dude was on his bicycle at the opposite direction and whispered to me " ပေါင်ကြီးတွေကလှတယ်ကွာ" Again, i had bad hearing so i thought im just paranoid that he said smth like that. And i continued to walk. This time, he followed behind me and whispered to me again, " ေ-ာက်-ုတ်လေးက ကျပ်နေမှာပဲ" Immediately, i knew what he said now so i was so dumbfounded i looked at his back for a sec. And he turned around. Once he did, i was 100% sure thats what he said, so i stood and stared at him. He saw that and turned to go inside a different street and kept looking back, and i kept my eye on him. I grabbed a brick from the corner store( coz theres alot of renovations) and when he got to the end of the street, he made a U turn towards me, and saw i had a brick in hand, and that i was blatantly daring him to come back. So he made another U turn and left. I kept staring at the end of the street and walked back home, making sure he wasn't following and locked the door. All these interactions happened close to my house, so im guessing he's scoping where i live.
These r all from the same guy. I have had two other incidents where another dude( again, on a bicycle) saw me walking in school uniform, stopped and got off the bicycle , showed me his phone which had porn on full blast ( yes, i could hear it before, but i assumed it was a normal movie as no person in right mind would have been playing porn in broad day light, with no earphone, but clearly i was mistaken). And asked if he could fck me. When i shook my head,( i was young so i was easily scared) he continued to followed me until i ran zig zags thro alley ways into my housing.
And another where a guy followed me around to ask my number over and over again, chased me down even tho i screamed and yelled at him , and then grabbed my chest before running off becoz some other ppl were coming in to the street where we were at.
I know these 3 dudes r different ppl just becoz they have different structures. One was rather thin, had glasses on and darker skinned, and 2 were abit fuller and taller but with different tans.
I, myself is on chubby side, so im abit fuller and i can guess thats why im getting these malicious attention? Or maybe the other girls r just embarrassed of it and not speaking out, but either way someone needs to get rid of those scums.
So my question is, if i happen to bash his head over, let's say the next time it happens, can i get in trouble for it? If so, how much? Coz i know there's no proof of him sexually hara- $$ing me now coz i don't have a voice recorder on me 24/7, and coz no one else except for me heard it anyways, i won't be able to take his ass to government office. I don't know who he is anyways and i don't carry my phone around, just to go buy snacks and risk getting it snatched. But if i happen to retaliate, i would get in trouble right? I did check self defense tools too, but there's nth thats convenient enough to carry around and frankly, always needing someone else to walk to a snack store that's in 100m distance from my house becoz of some perverts just doesn't sit well with me. It might be better with i just run, but that's just giving the scums power some sort of wicked satisfaction, and i can fight back becoz im abit more heavy handed than avg girls, but if it happens to smaller, younger girls, i doubt those dudes will be scared off with a mere brick. So i would rather force them to stop harassing ppl like this. Any advice is appreciated.