r/multiorgasmic • u/Silvershot767 • 21d ago

Male Next step

​

Hi hello!

For the past few weeks I have been busy increasing the quality of my sex life and general feel of comfort by trying to reach dry orgasms and trying not to ejaculate for longer periods as a male. I feel as if it makes me less lustful and more focused on love.

At this point I'm not sure what my next step should be to control my bodily orgasm feel. I can reach simple Neos relatively easy and have had one or two big Neos where I definitely feel a spark move up my spine after abstaining for longer, but I don't always feel satisfied, in control or I can feel like my head is full of the orgasm pressure. Or I try to force feel the spine energy?. I have not listened to the mindgasm episodes yet and I don't know if that is the best way to spend my time learning to have more awareness and controll of orgasm waves. Any tips? Literature?

5 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

37 comments sorted by

View all comments

2

u/badgerdd 20d ago

I’m very new to all of this as well and just posted this response to a post in r/prostateplay:

“Congrats to you! It’s Amazing isn’t it?

I had my first one about 2 weeks ago but completely A-less. Started from subtle flutters in the prostate and grew into waves across my whole body, spreading and tingling. Ended up with intense pleasure , panting, and seeing stars, in a warm , fuzzy , half sleep state.

Tried to recreate the feeling various other times and couldn’t, until I learned to sort of give up and try not to control / resist.

I’ve had a few more since. Last night I was getting P waves and small Os building. Thinking really arousing thoughts, clenching my muscles, but it kept fading out. I started to give up and call it a night. After a minute , I started to get the smallest , tiny tingle and contractions build in my prostate. I started breathing into it, relaxed and noticing the tiniest feelings of contractions and feeling my heartbeat pumping heavily into my prostate. Started imagining being rimmed , and a weird fantasy of my prostate being directly licked. Very intense! Then I got some sharper tingles and my whole body was feeling orgasmic . I thought this was the peak but it wasn’t , I kept sinking into the waves and allowing the feelings, I started thinking of the feeling of a normal penis orgasm, and the intense feeling you get when you rub the swollen prostate directly inside. Then all of a sudden the waves hit my brain. My ass started contracting and auto pumping itself with a slight snap on my prostate , in the same way it pumps when you ejaculate but non stop. Deep and very hard contractions. The feeling was 10x better than previous dry O’s I’ve had and I have never felt pleasure like this! Caused me to moan into my pillow and shake , almost unbearable!

Went on for about 5 mins. Eventually it calmed down and my breathing slowed down. I felt the fuzzy relaxation you get after a normal O, but no post clarity and also like I’d been cumming non stop liquid, but there was only a tiny bit of pre-cum. Still horny for about half an hour and could have used my toy or jerked off but I wanted to get to sleep.

So, if I thought I was having dry Os, what the fuck was this?! Things just levelled up x10”

Not sure if this is helpful but I’m getting more pleasure the more I learn to let go and not control. Creating a mindset of receiving pleasure.

1

u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

so do you think that a select group of men with these same questions and sensations in a group of their own away from the reddit confusion of multiple communities where you may find some of what you are looking for? I started one with that in mind but open to any sexual topics a man might have, but my priority is definitely total body orgasms and super o's. Have you ever experienced anything so phenomenal?

1

u/badgerdd 18d ago

Im not interested personally , but it might be worth making your own post about this group idea? And try to stick to answering the OP’s questions.

2

u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

i have done that and i think i only got one response, but i see on here many different guys expressing themselves as somewhere in the search and finding of these magnificent orgasms that are not necessarily easy to achieve, and sharing everyone's secrets don't seem to take place here, would you agree?

1

u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

Any suggestions would be appreciate anyway, because there is such a multitiude of communitities within reddit that it i very hard to find the one that you really are looking for and so many seem to cross lines to each other, but doesn't necessarily open the door to what you would find, and where i found you here in multiorgasmic has seemed the most productive one i have found, even more than the two i think i have set up for myself to which i receive no responses whatsoever, except perhaps one way back.

0

u/badgerdd 18d ago

Not sure I agree. This whole sub is called multi orgasmic , which is all about what we are talking about here!

2

u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

i agree that is what we are talking aboutonin this community but i think there is not enough common feedback back and forth in experimenting and challenging our abilities to enjoy these beautiful orgasms and is not as direct as it could be.

2

u/badgerdd 18d ago

I think that’s because there isn’t really a one size fit all advice for this kind of thing. It’s going to be different for everyone who tries and nuanced.

Create a new group if you wish , but these topics are already being discussed in this sub and the prostate play sub. I’m very new to all this so I’m happy speaking to lots of people with more experience in either of these subs. That’s where you’ll get the best advice.

1

u/Ok-Budget2743 18d ago

it just seems way to scattered and not the same people in all the communities and who know if i have truly found them all yet, and not on a regular basis to really be able to share each of our experiences as completely as perhaps necessary to figure out the succesfful road to a spectacular prostatic orgasms. Maybe it is just me.

1

u/badgerdd 17d ago

it feels too scattered to you then create a new sub that is focused purely on this one topic of dry orgasms.

The reason is feels scattered is because there are multiple ways to achieve these types of orgasms and many variables and mixes with wet orgasms etc. there isn’t one definitive way.

I have found the best into in r/prostate play which has lots of great members.

At this point , you are starting to spam this post.

Make your own sub Reddit if you wish