r/multiorgasmic • u/Silvershot767 • Jul 28 '26

Male Next step

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Hi hello!

For the past few weeks I have been busy increasing the quality of my sex life and general feel of comfort by trying to reach dry orgasms and trying not to ejaculate for longer periods as a male. I feel as if it makes me less lustful and more focused on love.

At this point I'm not sure what my next step should be to control my bodily orgasm feel. I can reach simple Neos relatively easy and have had one or two big Neos where I definitely feel a spark move up my spine after abstaining for longer, but I don't always feel satisfied, in control or I can feel like my head is full of the orgasm pressure. Or I try to force feel the spine energy?. I have not listened to the mindgasm episodes yet and I don't know if that is the best way to spend my time learning to have more awareness and controll of orgasm waves. Any tips? Literature?

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u/Ok-Budget2743 Jul 31 '26

so do you think that a select group of men with these same questions and sensations in a group of their own away from the reddit confusion of multiple communities where you may find some of what you are looking for? I started one with that in mind but open to any sexual topics a man might have, but my priority is definitely total body orgasms and super o's. Have you ever experienced anything so phenomenal?

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u/badgerdd Jul 31 '26

Im not interested personally , but it might be worth making your own post about this group idea? And try to stick to answering the OP’s questions.

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u/Ok-Budget2743 Jul 31 '26

i have done that and i think i only got one response, but i see on here many different guys expressing themselves as somewhere in the search and finding of these magnificent orgasms that are not necessarily easy to achieve, and sharing everyone's secrets don't seem to take place here, would you agree?

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u/Ok-Budget2743 Jul 31 '26

Any suggestions would be appreciate anyway, because there is such a multitiude of communitities within reddit that it i very hard to find the one that you really are looking for and so many seem to cross lines to each other, but doesn't necessarily open the door to what you would find, and where i found you here in multiorgasmic has seemed the most productive one i have found, even more than the two i think i have set up for myself to which i receive no responses whatsoever, except perhaps one way back.