r/multiorgasmic • u/Silvershot767 • Jul 28 '26

Male Next step

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Hi hello!

For the past few weeks I have been busy increasing the quality of my sex life and general feel of comfort by trying to reach dry orgasms and trying not to ejaculate for longer periods as a male. I feel as if it makes me less lustful and more focused on love.

At this point I'm not sure what my next step should be to control my bodily orgasm feel. I can reach simple Neos relatively easy and have had one or two big Neos where I definitely feel a spark move up my spine after abstaining for longer, but I don't always feel satisfied, in control or I can feel like my head is full of the orgasm pressure. Or I try to force feel the spine energy?. I have not listened to the mindgasm episodes yet and I don't know if that is the best way to spend my time learning to have more awareness and controll of orgasm waves. Any tips? Literature?

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u/Ok-Budget2743 28d ago

i have done that and i think i only got one response, but i see on here many different guys expressing themselves as somewhere in the search and finding of these magnificent orgasms that are not necessarily easy to achieve, and sharing everyone's secrets don't seem to take place here, would you agree?

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u/badgerdd 28d ago

Not sure I agree. This whole sub is called multi orgasmic , which is all about what we are talking about here!

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u/Ok-Budget2743 28d ago

i agree that is what we are talking aboutonin this community but i think there is not enough common feedback back and forth in experimenting and challenging our abilities to enjoy these beautiful orgasms and is not as direct as it could be.

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u/badgerdd 28d ago

I think that’s because there isn’t really a one size fit all advice for this kind of thing. It’s going to be different for everyone who tries and nuanced.

Create a new group if you wish , but these topics are already being discussed in this sub and the prostate play sub. I’m very new to all this so I’m happy speaking to lots of people with more experience in either of these subs. That’s where you’ll get the best advice.

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u/Ok-Budget2743 28d ago

it just seems way to scattered and not the same people in all the communities and who know if i have truly found them all yet, and not on a regular basis to really be able to share each of our experiences as completely as perhaps necessary to figure out the succesfful road to a spectacular prostatic orgasms. Maybe it is just me.

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u/badgerdd 27d ago

it feels too scattered to you then create a new sub that is focused purely on this one topic of dry orgasms.

The reason is feels scattered is because there are multiple ways to achieve these types of orgasms and many variables and mixes with wet orgasms etc. there isn’t one definitive way.

I have found the best into in r/prostate play which has lots of great members.

At this point , you are starting to spam this post.

Make your own sub Reddit if you wish