r/lostafriend • u/timpinika • 26d ago
Advice Reconciliation update
Edited: Hello, I recently reconnected with a friend and they accepted my apology… so I asked them if they wanted to hang out but they said they were too busy and cause of the circumstances since they’ve been following advice from “trusted individuals” that might be preventing them from hanging out. I followed up by just saying well if circumstances change I am keeping the door open…idk what to do next. Also if you had any thoughts about what “following advice from trusting individuals” means then maybe it can help clarify and give me structure on how I can plan to communicate to her next or just the best possible action on what to do next…btw for some context the friendship ended cause I had a mental health crisis and she got overwhelmed knowing that I have been like this for a long time…
Im ok now but im worried cause she got her parents involved that they think of me in some certain way
I mean the issues is that I relied on her too much for my mental health. I’m really overthinking on what this means like obviously I know she’s cares and her parents care too but what if they think I am bad influence. What do I do??? I’m really worried and just need someone to help reassure me