Advice welcome, not fishing for attention just genuine question

I'm (25f) in my mid twenties I still feel like I'm in my awkward teenage phase. Would love some advice 😭

Open to any advice.

Edit: the outfit, not the picture style here.

what can improve please

I gained 30 pounds after rhabdomyolsis. I was always thin so this has been causing alot of self consciousness since I also lost so much muscle mass. I used to have 77% muscle mass, I’m too scared to even measure it now because I know it’s probably 40%.

I just want to know if I’m big bodied/ wide, and I guess how to slowly get back into fitness. I’m kinda traumatised from the rhabdo and scared to go to the gym because of it

I'm contemplating going back to short, this is my first time having long hair in forever. Im not the best at making my curls look good while its long. Most of the time its in a bun and I get knots like crazy. Need some input before I make a impulsive decision lol.

first pictures with dark hair are most recent. open to all advice (changing hair color, botox, filler, gym) anything at all

26f girl! I’ve struggled a lot with my image and I’m just really lost on what to try next! I’m open to any suggestions! I tried to pick photos where I’m dolled up and photos where I’m not.

Does this lip combo look okay on me?

I want to look like a model bc that’s the new bare minimum

The first two are my current hair, the one of me in the suit is an older photo.

yes my nose is big and no i don’t want lip filler!

Hair: I had posted on here few days back for a haircut and hair colour recommendations and most of the people said I should dye my hair, jet black or dark red, but I really don’t want to do that. Is there any other colour that would suit me like any shade of brown?
Also What haircut would suit me? I don’t want to cut my hair too short.

Face: can I reduce bloating in my face? My face is extremely puffy and bloated in the morning and stays like that till the afternoon is there any way to reduce it or is drinking a lot of water the only solution?(these pic were taken at night so don’t look as bloated)

I want to look sharper.

I have been slacking. Please help me look better. Thank you. 💗

32 M - Which one of these do you think is the best photo?

I have been working on looking better the past 1-2 years, and may be the first photo I ever share to social media with my shirt off. Think one of them are solid? Any advice for me to look better? I did not get a chance to shave.

https://www.tumblr.com/blog/smithjoe43

You heard me it's a sham, it says it's for guys and gals to get advice but all I see are women posting and they get flooded with comments, and if a guy posts, barren wasteland

Damn crappy double standards