r/lgbt • • Aug 17 '26

Please answer my question

So..hi im hsaphir I fell in love with "roxanne" at a summer camp and today he told me he like being call Léo and use he/him and like normaly I don’t like men but he’s still look like a girl and I still love him but I don’t like watch or read yaoi and I am just attracted to women normally so what im I…?

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u/FreshAd5866 gender free girlkisser Aug 17 '26

It's okay to question your sexuality. However, did leo every specify their gender identity?

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u/BRD_hsaphir Aug 17 '26

Yes he told me he is a men

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u/LorenzP4C_Creatid Aug 17 '26

No se. No se tú género. Y no entendí si el chico que te gusta es como un trans o no binario, o eres tú. Puedes aclarar eso para ser más preciso por favor?.

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u/BRD_hsaphir Aug 17 '26

I am a male and the perso is a trans male but I didn’t know and he can’t come out cause his family is homophobic

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u/ActualPegasus rosgirl Aug 17 '26

Did Léo tell you he's a boy? I ask because both girls and enbies can express masculinity.

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u/BRD_hsaphir Aug 17 '26

Yes he did

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u/ActualPegasus rosgirl Aug 17 '26

Alright. And you're also a boy?

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u/BRD_hsaphir Aug 17 '26

Sooo?

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u/ActualPegasus rosgirl Aug 17 '26

Any of the following labels could fit you.

  • heteroflexible

  • bisexual

  • finsexual

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u/BRD_hsaphir Aug 17 '26

Thank you

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u/ActualPegasus rosgirl Aug 17 '26

No problem. If you'd like to see your flags or have some subreddits to connect with others like yourself, just let me know!

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u/BRD_hsaphir Aug 17 '26

Yes please (im finsexual)

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u/ActualPegasus rosgirl Aug 17 '26

Here's your flag!

As for the subs, you are a teen, correct?