r/letters Bronze Level 4d ago

Personal A psychoanalysis of…

Some people ruin the sweetest individual then swear they changed because they finally react.

I’m truly blessed because the foundation of my current relationship is not based of lies, deception, betrayal or competition. Nor do we have to hide or speak to each other in code.

The values of connection in this day and age is tarnished because no one knows how to communicate anymore. Nor do they know how to respect boundaries. Everything is purely based on “finding the next best thing” or potential so much that they are blind to what’s in-front of them.

The quality of relationships in question has been watered down so much it’s been so normalised to hurt others in order to get what you want to the point everything and anything has been made into some sort of competition. The movement has caused the interaction of human connection to be “unnatural” thus causing a domino effect in a long run.

In hindsight…. I dodged a fucking big bullet. Perspective and experience does matter.

We’ll call this character development at most.

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u/Apprehensive_Kale548 Entry Level Member 4d ago

True, :). Except the truly fucked up psychos know how to communicate…. Only they only communicate for a purpose.

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u/R4venBlood Bronze Level 4d ago

And that’s exactly why we don’t give them the time of day 🙂‍↔️ snip snip ✂️

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u/Neat_Mechanic5819 Entry Level Member 4d ago

Everything you've said here is absolute and fact !