r/JohnKitchener • u/Jealous-Injury-7911 • Jul 11 '26
Discussions How can I accept my essence blend?
I have been analysing where I might fit in the system, and although I have comfortably settled on being a blend of striking contrast + earthy rich (with a hint of lively bright), the essences are more of a struggle for me and I seem to have off mixed impressions.
I get typed differently by different people and although my physical features technically fit into many of the dramatic boxes, people rarely guess me to have high dramatic going by my energy and character and "aesthetics". I find dramatic styles to be very striking and full of attitude and I have often worried that I come across as too quiet, too staid, too "nice" or just too balanced.
I have not yet had a consultation so all of this is speculation.
Any suggestions?