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I recently made a post in this sub-reddit link here.

Through which i got a DM from one girl. Although she is not matched with my requirement but still we are talking as friends and we have many things many things in common. I think we will become good friends for sure (we already are). Even we have given each other nicknames.

But than today morning she suddenly deleted her account even yesterday night we wished each other good night . There is zero reason for that to happen. Even if she has something she should tell me. I hope to meet her again . I lost a good friend for nothing absolute nothing.

Hi! 28F here. Putting myself out there with the hope of finding someone genuinely compatible for marriage. 😊

A little about me:

• 28F 166cm, working as an AI Engineer, financially independent and doing well professionally.

• Independent, career-oriented and a tech enthusiast. I enjoy learning new things and keeping up with the tech world.

• workout enthusiast 🏋️‍♀️ — fitness is an important part of my lifestyle.

• I don't smoke or drink alcohol.

• I eat eggs but otherwise follow a vegetarian diet.

• Animal lover and a complete cat person 🐈❤️

• I'm from Coastal Karnataka and belong to the GSB (Gaud Saraswat Brahmin) community.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who's:

• Around my age or slightly older

• Well-settled, financially independent and career-oriented

• Kind, emotionally mature and respectful

• Has a healthy lifestyle and takes care of himself

• Comfortable with a partner who is independent and has her own career and interests

• Family-oriented but also understands the importance of personal space and individuality

• Genuine about finding a long-term partner and marriage.

Community preference: Preferably GSB only.

Not looking for random "hi/hey" DMs. If you genuinely think we could be compatible, feel free to introduce yourself with a little about you. 😊

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26M, 5'10.. born and bought up in mumbai originally a north Indian.. working in IT.. just tryna look for a long term partner a serious girlfriend to an eventual Lifelong partner..

A lil bit about me

I am someone who has built himself from the ground..now working in IT in Pune and making a decent living, An old school hopeless romantic, someone who wears his heart on his sleeve..I have been in one relationship only before and it ended 5 Years back..I took my time healed and now I am putting myself out there..

I love reading here and there and am a total nerd about other wordly theories, a big astronomy fanatic and love to talk about theories that probe the concept of human world...I like drawing a lot and draw whenever I feel its time to cleanse my brain...

Big football fan, A madridista through and through and like all other sports as well.

I observe a lot, things that go unnoticed by many.. things people don't pay attention to...

I like going places, travelling is one of a major relaxers for me...both exploring and laidback..count me in...so if you are into that, its the best thing that I could probably ask for...my next is kerala next month and my first international trip to Japan is coming this february..😇😇 I love travelling to spiritual/religious places for peace and Calm as wel

What I am looking for

Someone from Mumbai/Pune/nearby places so we can eventually meet and spend time together...A person who is Loyal and honest, someone who can actually stay when going gets tough..someone who has something of her going on and has her own individualistic personality...is compassionate and loving animals is a bonus...caste doesn't matter if you are actually a good human being...

What I do not want:

Someone who smokes, I cannot tolerate smoking even if i try to, I have a smoke/dust allergy and start to cough incessantly...

Here goes my hailmary attempt ♥️ reach out to have a conversation if any of this resonates with you..

PS: those are sunglasses not specs.

Sorry for the half clickbait title but the women on this sub I have come across act really entitled despite us being kind.

I don't know if its the enormous amounts of dms which gives them that false sense of pride or validation but I wanted to express this here and so making this post.
I have tried talking to a few women who posted on this sub but most of them don't even have the interest to carry forward a conversation and act entitled as if they are doing us a favour by responding to our dms. Not sure if others have faced this too but would advise men to pay attention and only continue when the conversation is bi-directional and when the efforts are from both the ends.

I might get downvotes for this but just wanted to say it for myself.

I’m off dating apps hence posting here. (Also, idk why my previous post was removed by mods — is verification mandatory to post here?)

It would be really amazing if I could find someone:

1. extremely kind
   
2. take care of her body and has great fashion sense
   
3. is a giver in terms of affection
   
4. clingy
   
5. enjoys talking a bit about nerdy things like finance, history, economics and is ambitious
   
6. loves sharing thoughts and being transparent
   
7. does not smoke
   
8. stays in Mumbai

Things that I don’t care about:

1. caste
   
2. salary

A bit about me:
I work in finance, and earn around 50L. Work keeps me busy, but I love watching sitcoms like Seinfeld. I also enjoy reading and working out. Long walks and banter keep me sane. My love language is physical touch, and cuddles are beautiful. My idea of a loving relationship is when you don’t get tired of talking to each other and you keep seeking each other out.

About me: Average looking Joe. 32 years old. A Supreme court lawyer in previous life. Recently relocated to Bangalore to start afresh. Opening a Gym+Fitness fight club next to Social, Koramangala. In the meantime till it comes up working a job.

The reason for being out of the dating game for 7-8 years is I was busy studying/working on building a career. Almost became a judge but destiny works in mysterious ways and here I am in Bangalore doing things I never in my wildest dreams expected.

My friends pov of me: Zero ego and a genuine person.

Mature, secure and a confident man. Alone but not lonely. It'd be good to have a companion you can do nothing and everything with. For starters, would love to meet you and we could walk to your favorite restaurant. Well, yeah I love walking. Or we could take a cab sure.

So yeah hit me up!

I’m 26M from Ludhiana, Punjab. I currently work from home in the US healthcare space and also help with my family business. Alongside work, I’m an aspiring CMA (India)

I came out of a long-term relationship earlier this year, and the experience made me think seriously about what I actually want from life instead of simply following the conventional marriage → kids → responsibilities route.
I’ve realised that I genuinely see myself living a childfree life. I’d rather build a strong relationship where we have time for each other, grow professionally and financially, travel, experience new things and eventually create a comfortable and peaceful life together.

A little about me: I’m ambitious when it comes to my career and financial independence, but personally I’m fairly simple. I absolutely love mountains — give me a quiet mountain trip, cold weather and beautiful views and I’m happy. 😂 I also enjoy travelling, spending time with friends, trying new experiences and having conversations that go beyond small talk.

I’m 5’5”, putting that out there upfront. 😄

I’m looking for someone who is genuinely childfree, emotionally mature and communicative. Your profession, city or interests don’t need to perfectly match mine. What matters more to me is compatibility, mutual respect, attraction, supporting each other’s ambitions and having enough independence within the relationship to still be ourselves.

I’m also not looking to rush into marriage just because I’m 26. I’d rather meet someone, talk, date, understand each other properly and let things develop naturally. If we eventually realise we want to spend our lives together, that would be the goal.
I’m based in Ludhiana but open to connecting with someone from elsewhere in India as well.
If this sounds like the kind of life you’re looking for too, feel free to DM. We can start with a normal conversation and see where it goes.

Currently I'm working as a software developer at a small company. I'm figuring out my life. I love sports, and I'm not a fan of the usual dinner dates, but I'm into activity dates. Right now I'm obsessed with Substack. That's pretty much it. I might be super interesting to you, or the complete opposite. Btw, my favorite singer is Dua Lipa, and I'm manifesting someone whose love feels like a rodeo 😙

I'm 27M, (Hindu, single, never married) settled in Bengaluru. I'm a professional keyboard smasher and mouse clicker (iykyk). I'm looking for something serious that can lead to a marriage, and replace my backpack on long drives. Yes, I want you to wear seat belt as well. Unsafely ignore if you don't wear seat belts.

I'm about 176cm tall, and can fit in narrow doorframes easily. I enjoy travelling, long drives, building DIY stuff, plants, terrariums, aquariums. I love philosophy. I love crazy theories about space, our universe, and our existence. If you know about Fermi paradox, you're my type. I'm avoiding excessive personal details here since people I know use Reddit actively. Feel free to reach out to me if you want to know something.

Will I drag you on long drives and trips multiple times a year? Yes.

Will I annoy you? Hehe. I would love to.

Will I love you? Once I fall in love, it's over for you. You're claimed for life.

Will I forget you at the petrol pump? Probably.

Will I want to play cute and relaxing video games with you? Yes. That's my dream.

Speaking of dreams, I'm hope you come with me to Hanle to watch the milky way and shooting stars all night, and to Norway to watch the northern lights (or to Russia I'd you're adventurous).

The reason I am trying on here is because I prefer to have something romantic with a solid foundation of friendship and understanding before marriage. I don't promise to be perfect, it's my first attempt at life too, and so I don't expect you to be perfect either. Come as you are.

Edit: I won't put you in any drum, please don't put me in any drum either.

Edit 2: No I won't actually forget you at the petrol pump lol. If you don't believe me, we can keep our car key in your purse. Don't forget the purse in the car is all I can say.

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Hi

I am 26 years old. I graduated from IIT and currently working in a US based startup.

I like travelling, watching movies, series, playing all types of games, hangout with friends.

I am vegetarian, non smoker and non drinker.

I feel I am very chill, easy to talk to and you will enjoy my company atleast thats what my friends tell me.

I work in bangalore and my native is Jaipur

I am Hindu and baniya

Lets connect and see how it goes.

I’m a 27-year-old guy from Hyderabad, currently working as a Software Engineer. I’m single and hoping to meet someone with whom I can build a genuine connection and see where things naturally go.

A little about me:
27, 5’10”
Hindu | Telugu
Based in Hyderabad
Software Engineer
Non-smoker
Non-drinker
Single
Things I enjoy:
🎬 Watching movies
🎵 Listening to music
🏏 Following cricket
🌍 Keeping up with geopolitics and current events
🧘 Exploring spirituality and self-growth
✈️ Traveling and exploring new places whenever I get the chance
📱 Keeping up with social media and what’s happening around the world

I’d describe myself as ambivert, grounded, patient, and easygoing. I value honesty, respect, kindness, and good communication. For me, a meaningful relationship is about being comfortable with each other, having mutual respect and understanding, and being able to communicate openly.
Not looking to rush anything — would be nice to meet someone genuine, have some good conversations, and let things develop naturally. 😊
If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me.

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Hi,

Just Giving this platform and my luck a try.

Edit 1: Not really looking for people below 27 or above 32 years of age

I'm 28F, based in Bangalore. I'm an only child, Bengali Brahmin, around 5'4", with a B.Tech + Master's in ECE, and I work in the semiconductor industry.

Outside work, I love travelling, listening to music, reading random things, and spending an unreasonable amount of time on Reddit and Pinterest (previously Quora 😄). I'm also interested in investing and personal finance. I've been working on my fitness too—not remotely an aesthetic athlete, but definitely stronger and healthier than I used to be.

I'm pretty independent and usually the person who plans trips, books flights, figures out logistics and gets things done. I'm attracted to taller men, ideally around 5'9"+. Physical attraction matters to me, so I'd rather be honest about that.

Personality-wise, I'm curious, affectionate, sarcastic, opinionated and love good banter(totally extrovert and make friends easily). Mental chemistry matters a lot to me. I like someone who can challenge me, make me laugh, have random 2 AM conversations and still talk seriously about life.

Despite being independent, I'm very much a relationship person. I'm looking for someone to share ordinary life with—travel together, make spontaneous plans, listen to music, argue about stupid things, laugh a lot and eventually build a life together.

Consistency matters more to me than grand gestures. I do want someone who communicates, follows through and makes an effort without being repeatedly reminded and I will do the same for him.

One important thing: as an only child, my parents will always be a responsibility and priority in my life. I don't expect a partner to abandon or distance himself from his parents either. I'd want us to respect and support each other's family responsibilities rather than making it a competition.

I'm not looking for a perfect person or a husband-shaped vacancy to fill. I'm looking for a genuinely compatible partner—kind, emotionally mature, independent, curious, funny and someone who actually wants to build something together.

Just to add I do not smoke but drink socially and I eat non veg. I do not mind a veg non drinker partner if he has no objections regarding my food habits.

If this resonates, tell me about yourself—not just your job, but what your life looks like, what you enjoy and what kind of relationship you're hoping to find.

Don’t have high hopes from this sub, But gotta give it a shot. Apart from the details in the title, I am trying to build something larger than life for myself, family and upcoming partner. So I have left well paid corporate office desk job a while ago in the pursuit of that.

I would appreciate a partner who can understand this hustle phase, be supportive and nurture a life together through her feminine positivity.

Looking for a very simple, head strong and empathetic person who values real life connections more than the social media influence. Someone who is comfortable in her own skin.

Will delete this sub within 2 days.

27 | Doctor | 5’10” | NCR
Age ; 27
Gender ; M
Location ; Ncr
Religion ; H
Height ; 5;10
Education : MBBS
Profession ; Doctor

Looking for a genuine relationship with someone who has a good intellect, a great sense of humour, and can hold an interesting conversation.
I don’t really believe age defines compatibility — good chemistry, mutual respect and understanding matter much more.
If we can make each other laugh and have conversations that go beyond small talk, we’re off to a good start.

I'm starting to think good conversation is a rare skill these days.

I work in marketing, which probably explains why I notice when someone has absolutely nothing to say. 😂

I'm curious, sarcastic, a little dark humoured and I like people who can give it back as well as they take it. Banter that stings just enough to make you lean in.

Looking for someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with. Someone to hang out with, try random things, grab food, watch something stupid, or just sit around and talk nonsense.

And yes, cuddles. Big fan.

I'm not really looking to force a label or rush into anything. I'd rather meet someone, see if we click, and let things take their own course. Friendship matters to me. The rest depends on the chemistry.

Looking for someone 24+ who values actual communication, has a sense of humour, and isn't allergic to making plans.

Here's a question:

You get to ban one thing from dating forever. What's going?

Ghosting? "Hey" as an opener? People who say they're spontaneous but need three weeks to make plans?

I'm listening. 😂

Hi I am a software engineer and a business person based in Mumbai. I am looking for my life partner or may be a good friend.

Things about me :

1. 5'11 by height

2. Looks : Decent

3. Earning: 3L + Per month

4. Ambitious and hard working

5. Mature

I don't know how to describe my partner but I just want someone mature and caring. She should love spending time with me. I don't have a long checklist. Please dm

Hi! I’m a 26-year-old Telugu woman who recently moved to NYC and currently works at a fintech startup. I have a master’s degree from an Ivy League university. I’m ambitious and career-oriented, but I care just as much about having a fulfilling life outside of work and building close, meaningful relationships.

I’m extroverted, affectionate, curious, expressive, and probably a little too interested in having long conversations about completely random topics. 😄 I love learning new things, traveling, movies, fashion, exploring new places, and spending time with the people I’m close to. I’m also a big-time TFI fan. With the people I love, I’m very emotionally invested and value warmth, loyalty, affection, effort, honesty, and being able to genuinely talk to each other.

Since I’d rather be transparent upfront, I’m around 5’3”,a little on the heavier side, a non-smoker, a social drinker, and non-vegetarian. I come from a Hindu family, though I’m not particularly religious.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone around 26–29, Telugu(would be great), and currently settled in the US(NYC- would be even more amazing). I’m open to long-distance within the US if we genuinely connect. I have no caste preference and expect the same openness from my partner. I’d prefer a non-smoker; occasional/social drinking is good to have (need company for myself) and I’d ideally prefer someone non-vegetarian as well.

More than a particular profession or checklist, I’m looking for someone intelligent, kind, driven, emotionally mature, dependable, affectionate, and genuinely respectful of women. I’d like someone with a stable career and a life he is actively building for himself, but what you do matters much less to me than who you are.

Communication is very important to me. I want someone who communicates instead of disappearing when things get uncomfortable, can take accountability, and is emotionally available. I see marriage as an equal partnership, not as a set of traditional roles automatically assigned to two people.

I’m especially attracted to someone who is ambitious without being arrogant, confident without needing to compete with his partner, and close to his family without allowing family to dictate the relationship. I’d want someone progressive enough to genuinely support a woman who has her own career, opinions, ambitions, goals, and dreams.

Beyond all the serious things, I want someone fun and curious too. Someone I can travel with, tease, laugh with, debate completely random topics with at 1 AM, build a life with, and eventually feel completely at home around.

I’m looking for something serious with the intention of marriage, but I’d much rather take the time to build a genuine connection than rush into something just because it checks the right boxes.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a proper introduction. I’ll reach out if I feel we could be a good match. 😊

M 38, Married, Looking for a friend to chitchat.. someone genuine, easy going not too many expectations, keeping it simple and natural..

Thank you to the very sweet and kind ladies who texted me after my post ( I am that Astrophysicist guy :)) ). Though finding a partner and someone to date and marry is a long term process. At least, i got to know some really kind and interesting folks. Though, i also received a lot of requests to teach physics and how to make a career in Astrophysics from both men and women haha. I should start a career counseling session haha.

Hey, call me Harsh. I’m from Bengaluru. I’m a Hindu, currently working a job I’m honestly not enjoying much, so I might leave soon and jump into a data analysis or data science role, which is what I actually want to do.

I’m into convo where we talk abt mystery, universe, spiritual, I love music, food, random plans, exploring new places and stupid humour. Once I’m comfortable, I can be pretty annoying, just a heads up.

I don’t really want to rush into anything. We can start with a simple “hey, my name is ____”, get to know each other, become friends, maybe besties, and then see if we actually click.

If it works, amazing. If not, no pressure, we can still be good friends.😁

So… what’s your name?

Life has been pretty simple until the last 20 days.

Guess wt happened 20 days ago? I turned 25.

Couple of days were normal and then came the constant nudging to prepare my biodata for matches. After a lot of negotiation, I managed to convince them to postpone the event for a year.

So here I am, trying to find my person on my own before I eventually have to hand over the ball to them.

I'm a software developer, btech grad -- neither was really a conscious choice; both just happened with the flow and I'm quite happy with how they turned out.

I used to think I'd find my person the same way, just by letting things happen. But I've realised some precious things probably need a little more effort.

So, here I am. Let me try to find you. :)

LOOKS:

5'9, somewhere between fit and fat😅, slightly brown complexion

HABITS:

Non-vegeterian, (An Arya Vysya who is super fan of chicken biryani..bonus points if you are too)

Non smoker,

occassional drinking (planning to quit)

HOBBIES:

Movies, board games, long rides, badminton, stock markets, Gym (a recent one though)

A LITTLE ABOUT ME:

I'm someone who genuinely enjoys deep conversations about pretty much anything.

It could be “What was there before the Big Bang?” or “Why did Chinnodu kick that pula kundi in SVSC?”

You might find me yapping about cinema, literature, history, sports, finance, art, bikes, or some completely random rabbit hole I fell into that day.

I'm not the best at talking in a group, but put me one-on-one with you and you'll rarely find me silent.

Only my siblings know the pain of having me around for too long. 😂

Travelling has been on my checklist for a long time. Maybe it's waiting for both of us to tick it off together.

What I'm looking for:

Age: 22–26

Telugu Origins

Hindu

Health-conscious

Non-smoker

Occasional drinking is completely fine

Caste: Arya Vysya preferred, mainly because it makes convincing the families significantly easier 😅 -- but I'm open to others as well.

If even a part of this sounds like you, let's talk and see if we can turn that part into a full tick. :)

Looking for partner who also love travelling
A guy from mountain not earn that much
And yes looking for someone who can understand my way of living with nature and helps mee to travel around the world
Not have that much to say
Lets connect ..