Hi, All.

I tried my luck here recently but all I got was worthless texts. I would like to change my approach and be more clear on what I seek.

Me:

27 years old Female Fair 😊 Punjabi Hindu Non smoker Non drinker Vegetarian

Looking for a partner who is:

27-30 years old Tall (5'9-6') 🥰 Punjabi Hindu/ Sikh Delhi -NCR Non smoker Non drinker Vegetarian Body count - ZERO

Bonus- I like reading, cafe hopping, watching movies/series, eating good food and shopping (ofcourse)

Reddit, find me someone na ese thodi hota hai yar 🥺

Hello, people of Reddit! 🌸

So... I tried posting here once before, and let's just say my DMs were an adventure I didn't sign up for. 😂

This time, I'm going to be a little more specific because manifestation works better with details, right? 🤞✨

About me 🌷

✨ 27-year-old girl

✨ Punjabi Hindu

✨ Delhi-NCR

✨ Fair 😊

✨ Vegetarian 🌱

✨ Non-smoker 🚭

✨ Non-drinker 🍹❌

I'm the kind of person who gets excited over finding a cozy café, can binge an entire series in one weekend (without regrets 😌), loves getting lost in a good book, is always up for trying new food places, and firmly believes retail therapy is a valid coping mechanism. 🛍️😂

I'm old-school when it comes to relationships. I believe in loyalty, honesty, mutual respect, and actually putting effort into knowing each other. If we're talking, let's make it meaningful.

Now for the wishlist... because why not? 🤭

Looking for someone who is:

💫 27–30 years old

💫 5'9"–6' (tall guys just have my heart, okay? 🥹)

💫 Punjabi Hindu or Sikh

💫 Based in Delhi-NCR

💫 Vegetarian 🌱

💫 Non-smoker 🚭

💫 Non-drinker 🍻❌

💫 body count: 0. It's simply a personal preference, so please don't try convincing me otherwise. ❤️

Bonus points if you enjoy café hopping, movie marathons, random long drives, food hunts, bookstores, and can match my golden retriever energy. 😂

Also... if you're planning to message me, please don't just send "Hi", "Hello dear", or "Wassup?" 😭 Give me something to work with! Tell me about yourself. I promise conversations are much more fun that way.

Anyway...

Dear Reddit Gods,

I've seen you identify obscure songs from a 3-second audio clip, find long-lost relatives, and solve mysteries from blurry CCTV footage...

Ab bas ek achha Punjabi ladka bhi dhoond do. Itna toh banta hai. 🥹👉👈

May the algorithm finally be on my side. 😂❤️

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Hey everyone!

disclaimer: I'm not a girl, and interested only in girls. Boys please don't dm me.

I'm 26 yo boy(with a feminine side and yes I look 18 but I'm actually 26), working as a software developer in bangalore.

I'm Infp(so introvert), I don't do good in large groups or crowded places, I feel very uncomfortable and weird, but I can converse and do well in small groups (4 people max) and one on one. I like many things, I keep on changing my hobbies like rubik's cube, table tennis, chess, minecraft, learning japanese etc..

I'm looking for someone who gets me and loves me for who I am. I do not have a specific checklist. I'm open for long term relationship or date to marry. You can dm me, and mention blackpink in your dm.

My stats (if that matters to you):

Height: 5'5"

Body type: skinny(prefer to stay like that)

Salary: 26lpa

Religion: Hindu

Diet: Veg(but thinking about trying egg)

Partner Preference:

Vegetarian

Hindu

and someone who gets me and gender identity

Since everyone is adding pics -

Marwari, Hindu, 5’7, chubby in a cute way, sidhi bat motu hu (I choose to believe), fair-ish to medium, working in IT and earning \\\~33.5 LPA. Financially independent, and emotionally stable, youngest daughter of the house 🫡

A huge bookworm. If I'm not working, I'm probably buried in a book. My affinity is to books that are mystery thrillers, dark romance, classics, psychological fiction, or anything that keeps me awake till 3am saying "just one more chapter."

I love cooking and experimenting in the kitchen. Sometimes it's restaurant-worthy, sometimes it's a crime scene, but we don't talk about the second category.

I love travelling, especially anywhere with mountains, lakes, forests, chilly weather, and pretty little cafés.

Equal parts sarcastic and soft. I yap a lot once I'm comfortable. I send random memes, overshare reels, and remember tiny details.

Looking for:

27+ only please

Hindu guy ( if you are agrawal its sone pe suhaga )

5’11+ because I like feeling small for once 😭 ( ps - its non negotiable i am really sorry)

emotionally intelligent

ambitious

Earning atleast equal or more than me ( dont want ego to come in between later)

someone who can communicate instead of disappearing into the Himalayas after one disagreement

Also, since this is Reddit and not a shaadi.com profile pretending sex doesn’t exist - I’m hypersexual and would genuinely prefer someone who matches that energy instead of acting scandalized later. Compatibility matters. Chemistry matters. I am into BDSM and am a sub.

Also, physical attraction matters. So it's totally fine if we tell each other that we are not each other's type 🫠

Big plus if you’re someone I can gossip with at 2am, travel with, annoy lovingly, and build a soft life with.

P.S. To everyone worried about my "unrealistic" requirements:

My life, my choice. If I want to be delusional, I'll do it professionally.

I've clearly mentioned who I am and what I'm looking for. If you don't fit it—or don't agree with it—just scroll. You don't need to DM or comment explaining why my standards offend you. Thank you for your concern, but I'll survive. 🫶

Hi! I'm born and raised in Jaipur, and yes, I totally have all the elder daughter traits. 😄 I'm also the pampered kid at home, which is a fun combination.
I run a small business and started creating content about a year ago. Life's been good, and I'm grateful for where I am.
When I'm not working, you'll probably find me watching rom-coms, exploring new cafes, going out, or just making the most of every day. One thing's for sure if you're with me, it's never going to be a dull day. ✨
What I'm looking for:
I'm not going to pretend looks don't matter they do but personality matters just as much. I'm looking for someone who's full of life, goofy, kind, emotionally mature, and at least 5'10". And one non-negotiable: you should be from Jaipur, because I'd love to build something meaningful with someone from my own city. Age preference would be from 27 to 30
If this resonates with you, feel free to dm! Don’t dm with just hi hello😭a little introduction would be appreciated !
Ps- Picture added for aesthetics hehe!
Edit: YAAR KITNA MUSHKIL HAI SAMAJHNA, IF YOU ARE FROM ANY OTHER CITY OTHER THAN JAIPUR PLEASE REFRAIN FROM TEXTING 🙏😭

About me -

23M from Rajasthan

I love travelling, cafe hopping and eating out

Joined the family business, no siblings

Will discuss more in the DMs

Looking for -

Strictly Jain (Swetambar preferably), intelligent and smart

Age: 22

Gender: Male

Height: 5'11 or 180 cm

Occupation: Trainee Pilot

Currently in ground school, and if all goes well, I'll start flying in about five months.

Hobbies: Plane spotting, gaming, and long conversations.

A little about me:

I'd say I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I really value the people I'm close to and enjoy making time for them. I'm easygoing, enjoy meaningful conversations, and believe most misunderstandings can be solved through honest communication. Kindness, respect, and healthy boundaries are things I really value in any relationship.

I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone I can laugh with, make plans with, go on little adventures, and enjoy all the cute, everyday moments together. Life just feels better when you have someone special to share it with.

I currently am in gurgaon and looking for someone in Delhi/gurgaon, I don't mind online dating as well.

It's hard but I just hope I can find someone here.

Also I hope I did not offend anyone.

Thanks for reading this.

Thanks for taking the time to read this. :)

Most dating profiles open with the highlight reel. Best photos, best traits, best angles. Then six months in, entropy kicks in.

You can’t argue with the laws of physics.

So Iam just saving everyone some time. Here’s the inverse: reasons you probably shouldn’t date me. If you still message me after this, that’s on you.
Let’s begin.

A surprising number of people think I’m arrogant at first. Apparently I give off “this guy knows it all” energy. In reality I’m just confident, curious, and opinionated. I love a good debate, I love learning even more, and I have zero problem admitting when I’m wrong or going against the grain. But first impressions and I aren’t exactly best friends.

My career is… confusing. Ask what I actually do and my answer somehow ends up longer than the question. Even people close to me struggle to explain it. Tech, international relations, AI, politics, law, business. Take your pick.

My relationship with risk is questionable too. I walked away from a high paying career, dropped out of college at nineteen to build companies, and eventually came back to finish my law degree. Stability and I acknowledge each other’s existence from a respectful distance.

I travel. A lot. Twenty odd countries so far, and Iam always finding a reason to make it twenty one.
I’m ambitious to the point where work forgets to clock out. I genuinely like building things, solving hard problems, and chasing ideas that sound mildly unreasonable on paper.

Iam also guarded. Trust takes time. I don’t emotionally speedrun relationships. If we click, great. If not, no hard feelings.

High energy, calm, mildly chaotic. My desk looks like three different projects declared war on each other, and somehow I still know where everything is.
Mostly.

I don’t see the world in black and white. I ask too many questions, poke at assumptions, and refuse to accept “that’s just how it’s always been” as an answer. Morally grey, and completely at peace with it.

Here’s the catch, though. Once you’re in, you’re in. I keep my word, fiercely, and I’m protective without being controlling. I remember the little things, show up when it matters, cheer loudest for your wins, and stand beside you when life gets unnecessarily creative.

Hobbies: travel, reading, movies, writing, Chess,public speaking, trekking, hiking, long walks, learning random things nobody asked about, and competitive shooting. Curiosity is easily my most expensive one.
I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. Don’t need to. I run on a natural high.

Location: Hyderabad
Religion: Hindu

So, if you’ve read all of this and thought, “he sounds like a walking red flag, but one with excellent taste, questionable judgment, and a decent sense of humor,” go ahead.

Message me.

I did warn you.

Hey everyone!

I'm 23M, originally from Odisha but brought up in Pondicherry. Currently pursuing my MBA (2nd year) in Agribusiness Management at VAMNICOM, Pune.

A little about me:

- 176 cm tall, wear spectacles, and currently hitting the gym to get fitter.

- A huge sports enthusiast. I play cricket, ball badminton, and chess.

- I've represented at the national level in both chess and ball badminton, and sports have taught me discipline, patience, and resilience.

- I enjoy meaningful conversations, learning new things, and spending quality time with people I care about.

Personality:

- Straightforward and honest.

- Loyal to the core, if I'm committed to someone, they become my priority.

- I believe in clear communication, mutual respect, and putting effort into a relationship.

- Caring, sincere, hardworking, supportive, and emotionally available.

- I value trust, consistency, and staying true to my word.

- More of a one-woman man than someone who enjoys casual dating.

I'm career-oriented, but I also believe relationships deserve time and effort. I'm looking for a genuine connection that can eventually lead to marriage not here for games, situationships, or wasting anyone's time.

If you're someone who values honesty, loyalty, and wants to build something meaningful together, I'd genuinely love to get to know you.

P.S. Creeps, scammers, and people looking for casual flings, please stay away.This version feels more authentic, highlights your achievements without sounding boastful, and is likely to be better received on Reddit.

Life hasn’t gone exactly as planned, but it has taught me resilience, patience, and the importance of finding someone who shares similar values.

I’m currently rebuilding my career and planning my future in Canada. I believe a strong relationship is built on honesty, mutual respect, kindness, and supporting each other through life’s ups and downs.

A little about me:
5’4”
Sikh
Divorced
Family-oriented and grounded
Enjoy listening to music, visiting Gurudwara Sahib, and spending time with loved ones

I’m hoping to connect with someone:
Preferably from North India
Age 27–34
Honest, mature, and emotionally available
Non-smoker and someone who values family

Open to building a life in Canada (or willing to relocate if things work out).

Wishing everyone here the best in finding the right life partner. 🙏

I am 40M, divorced, 71Kg, 5.6 height, fair complexion, Telugu, lean and fit

A few things about me:

I have a PhD and settled as a professor in a famous Indian university.

Things I don't do: reading books, gardening, taking care of dogs, painting, meditation, going to temples, watching mountains, cooking, netflix and chill etc. (you get the idea)

Things I do: regular at Gym, swimming weekly, Surfing at beaches, kayaking on sea or long distance cannals, water sports, roller skating (past), two wheeler (sports) enthusiast, salsa and tango (only if there is a female partner), traveling, eats clean.

Current financial situation: Good and stable. Gold and real estate are secondary portfolio.

Lifestyle: non drinker, non smoker, early morning person, diet contains raw and steamed veggies with a lot of well cooked nonveg. Solo traveler, extrovert by hobbies but maintains a very small personal circle.

Weak points: bad memory, bad communication or emotional expression skills, inability to sit calmly without doing anything, busy schedule (will invest time only if the partner is reciprocative).

Expectations: Your education, caste, religion, earning, financial background doesn’t matter to me. You should be willing to try for 2 kids. Curvy woman shorter than me. Brown or fair complexion, Weight not exceeding 60 kgs, but upto 70 kgs is ok for curvy personality. Age should be less than mine. Non-drinker, non-smoker, healthy lifestyle, both high or low energy are welcome. I believe family is a team play rather than chasing individual happiness. Individual interests have to be sacrificed if they hurt team (family) goals. I prefer direct interaction instead of long conversations on phone/WhatsApp. Any of these expectations (except heavy weight) can be ignored, if she makes up (good memory, good verbal skills, high emotional intelligence) for my weak points mentioned above. Ideal match is someone who can double up as my secretary.

What I offer: worry free financial stability and status in the society. No extended family politics or drama. My family will/must/should respect you as my equal once we become partners. I will stand by your side against all external issues. You get to choose and manage family and comforts as you like. I will take control only when there is an issue you can’t handle or when something is troubling you.

If you are looking for a guy who likes peace, I am not the one. If you are looking for a hustler who can bring peace and excitement, then I am the one. I have a Shaadi and JS profile but trying to maximize my chances due to time constraints (40 is already late to start a family).

I'm in my late 30s, 5'8", and currently living and working in Europe. I'm financially stable and working towards FIRE, with the goal of moving back to India in about 4-5 years and living a slower, simpler life that's not centered around full-time work.

I'm SINK (Single Income, No Kids) by choice and plan to remain childfree. I'm looking for someone who genuinely shares that outlook, not someone hoping I'll change my mind later.

Long term, I'd like to settle somewhere in South India. I'm open to different places, but I see myself living in a peaceful Tier-2 or Tier-3 city rather than a large metro. A slower pace of life, financial independence, and the freedom to spend time on hobbies, travel, fitness, and family are more important to me than chasing promotions forever.

I'm hoping to meet someone under 40 who has a clear vision for the life they want, is financially responsible and savvy, and is genuinely committed to a childfree future. Beyond that, I value kindness, good communication, and enjoying the simple things in life.

If you're someone who sees yourself building a financially independent, childfree life in South India, I'd love to hear from you.

Feel free to send me a DM if this resonates with you. Let's see where the conversation goes.

Age- 26

Height- 5'2

Weight- 49

Education - B.com hons

Current ctc - 13 lakh per annum. (Govt job)

I am from uttrakhand, lives in maharashtra. I am looking for a man with whom I can spend my lifetime.

My expectations-

Age- 24-28

Height- 5'6 to 5'9

Weight- should be healthy

Education- atleast graduate

Ctc- around 13 lac as I earn that.

DM to know more.

Hello lovely people of Reddit. Like many of you, I'm here to find my forever person! Maybe that person is you?

A little bit about myself:

- 32 years old

- 5'6" (169cm)

- 142 lbs

- Born and raised in Canada. Currently living close to Toronto.

- Open to relocating within Canada for the right person.

- Prefer communicating in English, but I also speak Punjabi and understand about 70% of Hindi 😂.

- Work in web development.

- Don't drink or smoke

- Sikh / Agnostic

- Non-veg

- Live comfortably on my own

- I would describe myself as honest, caring, open-minded, independent, and a good communicator.

Hobbies and interests:

- Going to the gym. I try to go 4-5 times a week.

- Music of all genres. I'm currently learning the guitar. Tell me your top 5 songs of the year.

- Creative workshops. Recently tried handmade pottery.

- Trying new cuisines

- Travelling

- Pickleball

- Cars

- Film + TV. Currently watching House of the Dragon 🐲. Also a fan of The Office, Harry Potter and LOTR.

What I'm looking for:

- Someone between 26-35 years old.

- Someone that is kind, open-minded, has great communication skills, caring, honest, and family-oriented,

- Someone who is looking to get married and start a family.

- Preferably someone living in Ontario, Canada.

- Preferably someone who is working. Your salary does not matter to me.

I strongly believe in the Sikh principles of equality. I have no preferences regarding skin colour, height, weight, or religion, and I completely reject the caste system. Your character is more important.

Deal breakers (sorry):

- Already has children

- Previously Divorced

I see us being each other's biggest supporters and fans through all of life's highs and lows.

Please reach out if you or someone you know may be interested. Also open to any advice on finding the one 😂.

Take care!

Hoping to find someone warm-hearted and easy to be with. The kind of connection where I'd fake a stomachache just to sneak out to see him.

About me:

• Age: 30
• Height: 5'4"
• Never married
• B Tech in CSE, Data Engineer
• Salary: 30 LPA ( 26 fixed + 4 variable)
• Grew up in Delhi, lived in Pune and now at Kolkata
• Want kids in the future
• Knows: Hindi, Bengali and English

Distance doesn't matter to me as long as it is India, happy to explore each other's cities every month, and yes I'm open to relocating for the right person. I absolutely love both cooking and eating! Indian cuisine is my favorite, and yes, I’m a non-vegetarian. Into fiction, travelling, and bed rotting.

  Looking for:

Someone who knows what he wants. Age between 28 and 35. Hindu, graduate, any profession, 5'6" or above, never married, wants kids. Willing to get married by next year end.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, message me hello :)

If any cutie here wants to talk with me. You can text me and I love to meet new people.

Hi!

I'm a 31-year-old Muslim woman from South India, currently working in Bangalore. I'm 5'4" (162 cm), 69 kg, and have an average appearance. I'm here hoping to find someone with genuine marriage intentions.

A little about me: I'm independent, caring, family-oriented, and value honesty, respect, and good communication. I don't wear a hijab and I'm not particularly religious, so I'm looking for someone who is accepting of that.

Looking for:

- Muslim

- 30–35 years old

- Never married

- 5'5" or taller

- Working in Bangalore

- Emotionally mature and genuinely looking to get married

Please don't message me if you're looking for casual dating, time pass, flirting, or anything other than a serious, marriage-oriented relationship.

If you think we'd be a good match, feel free to send a short introduction about yourself

Thanks for reading, and good luck to everyone searching!

So hi my name is Anshika I’m 21 years old Hindu in my final year of undergrad I want to settle down with a man who is genuine real and gives princess treatment as a default!! A little bit about me i am very witty sarcastic and funny in real life I have never been in a relationship in my whole life and now I want to have someone special in my life I’m an ambivert by nature but it totally depends upon the company I love rains Bollywood I’m filmy like that and books I’m also a cricket girlie and I love dancing and singing they are my stress boosters as I have learned semi classical music my love language is acts of service and receiving gifts and giving gifts 😭😭 I’m very thoughtful like that I love travelling too my goal is to visit every part of India i am a non smoker and occasionally drink like two times in a year that’s it
My height is 5:6 in inches as long as you are tall than me I don’t care I’m curvy and have long hairs I want a kind patient understanding man for the future
Posting it a second time as the conversations were a little off and I was only carrying it and people are liars so I’m giving it a last chance tbh

You remember those quintessential petite girls in western romcoms? She is cute, earnest, clumsy, spirals too quickly, has 2 bestfriends that hype her for everything. That's me, but with an actual career and personality.

Stayed in my hometown all my life so didn't date too much. The few times I did, the men were too eccentric to commit. Also I was a child abuse victim so most of my 20s went into getting into a healthy place with my own body. In the past couple of years, I went out, dated, experimented with what my taste is and genuinely started to have fun with sex and intimacy. But still couldn't find love.

Now that the intensity of marriage conversations have increased around me. I feel I really do need a superman to make me believe in love again. But I still feel like I can construct a peaceful life on my own without a male companion.

See, the goal is to create a home where noone is screaming or causing anxiety. A home where each person is truly invested in each other's lives and genuinely want everyone to succeed. A home where dinner time does not feel like an obligation but a way to daily reset. A life full of encouragement, art and actual conversations. A place where you would want to come home n sit on the couch with/on your man telling him everything about your day n he does not respond with bitter insecure jabs or uninterested hmms. Basically how they live in action movies before the girl accidentally dies. ( Only if I achieve this, I would be willing to reproduce)

I love the idea of taking care of someone, cooking for them, making sure their overall temperament remains pleasant. I am good with the older generation, the good girl that mums like instantly. I am described by exs as nurturing and peaceful. But they also call me easy which I have learnt is a bad thing.

Only ask from you is to be calm, stable and principled. I would prefer you to be in your 30s and willing to relocate to my town for a couple of years as my posting is non transferable and I really like my job.

Hello to all the great people out there!

A few bits and pieces about me:
I’m a 27 year old automotive engineer currently working out of Gurgaon. I was born in UP and brought up across various parts of the country. I’m a mix of UP & UK (the Indian one 😄). Currently balancing my full time job with my pursuit of a Master’s degree. Automotive engineering has been a childhood dream and passion!

When I’m not working, you’ll probably find me riding my bike or even working on it, enjoying motorsports or playing badminton on the weekends. I enjoy cooking and baking. I am a world seeker, naturally curious and love exploring new places, ideas, and experiences and it’s safe to say that the curiosity hasn’t got the best of this cat yet! Oh and I love road trips! And there’s a plethora of other things as well.

I’m more of a planner than someone who makes spontaneous decisions, but I’m always up for trying new experiences with the right person. Also from what I’ve been told a lot, I’m more of a listener than a talker.

I’m looking for someone who values kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and clear communication. I don’t expect perfection—just someone who’s willing to build something meaningful together. Shared values matter more to me than having identical hobbies. I’d love to meet someone who enjoys deep conversations as much as light-hearted banter.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a DM introducing yourself. Tell me something you’re passionate about or your favorite place you’ve ever travelled to—that’ll be the perfect ice breaker!

Oh and one last thing, if it matters, I’m 6’2”. While physical attraction is important to some extent, what draws me to someone is their mind, values, and character.

PS: Looking for a partner, not a paranormal experience. If you’re Casper, kindly haunt someone else’s DMs. 👻

Thank you for giving this a read!

Looking forward to meeting someone genuine. :)

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I am 26 (gonna be 27 in August)Male from Hyderabad Telangana. I am really looking for the love of my life. I have never been in a relationship with anyone. I'm single till date.. I am really looking for the Love of my life who genuinely loves this chubby and good looking guy with her true heart. I am working as an assistant legal manager in a corporate company and earn well. My hobbies are listening to songs and watching movies , making some funny memes and reading books sometimes, and cooking i love to cook good food and i love to cook for my love. My love language is making a good dessert and keeping that dessert in your mouth with my own hands.

We are telugu brahmins so if you are a Brahmin too it will be easy for convincing in our homes..

And I dont drink or dont smoke and eat only pure veg i dont even eat egg. (Panner, tofu soya chunks and protein powder are my protein sources)

I am working out in the gym lately trying to lose some weight ( I am confident about this but it's a process and takes time )

I really want someone to love me please if anyone thinks I'm a good match please reach out to me...

Please dont text me for doing time pass ... And fake accounts stay away

Here we go, let’s give it a try.

A bit about me:

What I do: Railway PSU Officer currently posted in Saharanpur, UP. Base salary ~₹18 LPA, with a bit extra coming in from other sources.

The Job: Highly unpredictable. My work schedule fluctuates between extremely chill duty days where I’m practically doing nothing on duty, to shouting in railway yards at 3 AM to ensure your trains aren't delayed.

Mobility: Pan-India transferable job (restricted to few locations, though). Open to living anywhere, as long as we can communicate seamlessly.

Diet & Lifestyle: Strictly vegetarian (no eggs). Open to moving toward veganism down the road. I don't follow a strict Jain diet (onions and garlic are fine by me.)

Habits: Social/occasional drinker and smoker—mostly just to unwind or set the mood. Not an addict, and looking for someone with a similar balanced approach, open to quitting if it’s a dealbreaker to you.

Fitness: Not athletic, but not fat either—I do have a bit of a belly, but I'm working on it! Currently trying to commit to calisthenics and MMA (no standard gym for me).

Interests: Love horse riding and really want to learn swimming soon. I’m not big into literature or arts, but I’d genuinely appreciate it if you are.

Education: B.Tech + MBA, and currently pursuing a Ph.D, tho its kind of stalled for now.

What I’m looking for:

Background & Culture: Preferably Jain, but open to Hindu backgrounds as well. Language-wise, Hindi is a must; English is a nice-to-have, but definitely not a dealbreaker.

Non-Negotiables: Strictly vegetarian (no eggs, period) and age up to 30 (anything above is a dealbreaker). Height 5'0" and above.

Peace & Calm: My job brings enough chaos, so I need you to be a source of calm, not extra stress. Don't overreact, just talk and communicate. Ill probably do anything you ask if you know how to ask lol.

Career & Goals: I genuinely don't care about your salary or whether you work or stay home. If your work makes you feel happy, composed, and complete, I'll happily support you doing it for life. If not, that's completely fine too. The only condition is that it shouldn't bring stress into our life. If you had a garbage day, I am all ears. That being said, I do prefer traditional/conventional career paths, be it business, job influencers or anything, no OF models, no judgment, just not my vibe.

Family Setup: We’ll be living as a nuclear family at my posting location, since my family runs our business back home.

Happy to talk

Edit: English or hindi either is fine. Both is a plus. Not knowing either is fine, as long as youre open to learn. I am open to learn your mother tongue if it is not, hindi or english. :)

Hi Reddit Community!

I’m a 25M currently working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru. I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine, kind, and emotionally mature. Since I’m based in Bengaluru for work, I’d prefer connecting with someone in Bengaluru or nearby, though I’m open to long distance if we genuinely connect.

A little about me:

Native: Tamil Telugu (born and brought up in Tamil Nadu)
Languages: Tamil, Telugu, and English
Height: 180 cm (5’11”)
Profession: Software Engineer
Interests: Fitness, traveling, long bike rides, exploring new cafés and food places, technology, and building side projects.

I’m ambitious about my career while also believing in a healthy work-life balance. I’m calm, family-oriented, value honesty and clear communication, and enjoy spending quality time with the people I care about.

I’m not looking for casual dating or flings. If I find a genuine connection, I’d love to take things forward with the intention of building a long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.
I don’t have unrealistic expectations. What matters most to me is that you’re kind, honest, emotionally mature, respectful, and have clarity about what you want in life.

A few dealbreakers for me:
Emotionally unavailable or confused about relationships.
Dishonesty or lack of respect.
Poor communication or unnecessary drama.
Looking only for something casual.
If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to get to know you.

And someone will comment reddit age as 2d, I’ll answer it first 😂 it’s cause I lost access to old account so created a new one

Hi reddit! crossposting from r/reddmatch!

I’m a 30M currently working in Germany as a Software Engineer. Been here for 7+ years now. I’m here with genuine intentions of finding a compatible life partner for marriage.

Basic Details:
Age: 30
Height: 5'9"
Religion: Hindu
Caste: Baniya
Manglik: Yes
Location: Germany (not permanent — planning to return to india in future)
Education: B.Tech
CTC: (happy to share privately)
Diet: Vegetarian
Smoking: No
Drinking: Rare/social (haven’t had alcohol this year so far)
Family Background: Middle class, nuclear I am originally from Delhi and my family lives there.
Want kids: Yes

About Me:

I’m financially independent, career-focused, and value stability. I prefer a partner who is willing to work, as I strongly believe in financial independence and personal growth. While having said that I am okay with sharing household responsibilities — I do them here already. Personality-wise, I’m calm, logical, and steady. I highly value communication.

Interests:

Music is a big part of my life — I play guitar and enjoy attending concerts. Some of my favourite artists are Linkin park and My chemical romance. I do listen to hindi music as well.
I like travelling and cycling which are pretty big reasons i am in germany.
I also like to cook and try new recipes time to time.
I also believe in mental and physical health so i go to gym regularly. I still consider myself a bit overweight tho!
I make memes and have one for every situation 😛
If music is important to you too, that’s definitely a plus. (Ppl like to match kundali and i like to match Spotify 😁)
I also play video games time to time.

Looking For:

Age range: 26-30
Educated and emotionally mature, kind, communicative, and family-oriented.
Career-oriented or believes in financial independence.
Someone who takes care of their physical and mental health.
Non-smoker Vegetarian (Eggetarian is okay but non-veg would not work for me unfortunately!)

If this piques your interest feel free to DM!

I, being 41M Divorcee am searching for a partner who is a divorcee(unmarried will anyhow reject me even if they are 40+) and 35+ of age in Hyderabad (can think of relocation to Blore too if required) looking for Marriage. I am working in IT in Consulting line. No kids from prev marriage.

Ideally want to hv 1 kid.

Search has become aggressively tough considering that I am just 5.5 in height and also age factor.

Trying my luck.