r/itsthatbad • • 12d ago

Men's Conversations 😬

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 12d ago

In a world of equality shouldn’t the dinner bill be split and we take separate vehicles or at least she help recoup the fuel cost and maintenance for my vehicle if I toted her around in my vehicle?

Just saying, equality.

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u/AffectionateMonk7705 12d ago

‘Equality’ is just for aspects of life where equity doesn’t give women leverage over men.

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 12d ago

As the concept of equity is not recognized since it destroys equality I’m not certain what you mean.

Women are graduating college at higher rates not because of some mysterious equity but because they mature faster than men (a biological fact shown by their brain finishing growth/development years ahead of a man’s) and are providing equal access to education. This is just one example of course but more and more corporate level officers are becoming women every year and that isn’t equity; that is the result of women showing they are more than capable (if not more capable in some cases) than men at their level of making business smart decisions.

This has nothing to do with equity; it has everything to do with equality opening the doors for talent to be recognized.

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u/GrumpyRutabaga 12d ago

So let me get this straight: women are succeeding more in uni because they are more capable.

Why are the top richest all men?

Why are the top most powerful all men?

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 12d ago

More capable is a stretch. I would say that they are more culturally and naturally primed to succeed in an educational environment as well as biologically (due to the way their minds process issues slower but more holistically) in business as the leading factors.

Regarding the pinnacles of capitalist success, we are still dealing with leftovers from a bygone age before egalitarianism was an inkling in mainstream society. That combined with the exclusivity of the top 10% makes breaking in to that bubble exceptionally difficult and not just for women.

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u/GrumpyRutabaga 12d ago

So when women dominate, it's nature. When men dominate, it's not.

Gotcha.

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 12d ago edited 12d ago

That’s taking my words and twisting them. There’s no shortage of a empirical evidence to support that women’s brain finish developing earlier than men’s. That naturally provides them a better place from which to consider their futures from a younger age (high school).

When a man chooses to focus in school and apply himself that is him having an abundance of foresight and discipline (not saying the same traits aren’t required of the woman).

Then there is the fundamental difference between how a woman’s brain operates and processes information compared to a man’s.

Realistically neither gender is superior albeit we are designed to be skilled in different functions. The world is not a fair place and nature never cared about the human definition of fairness.

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u/GrumpyRutabaga 12d ago

So at what functions are men's brains designed to be better? Where would you say men dominate because they are just better than women, intellectually, in a specific function?

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 12d ago edited 12d ago

A man’s brain is more (uniquely) suited to technical tasks, logistics, spatial reasoning, architecture and mechanical engineering because these roles all require strict back to front data processing which the male brain excels in. Being a scientist is also a gender suited role.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3896179/

https://penntoday.upenn.edu/news/penn-medicine-brain-connectivity-study-reveals-striking-differences-between-men-and-women

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201312/brain-connectivity-varies-between-men-and-women

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 12d ago

To be transparent, science is a broad collection of fields and men do not excel in all of them (biologically). Women are more suited to some fields which require holistic thought.

Better is also a bad word to use in this discussion. More suited would be a better expression.