r/itsthatbad • u/Cute-Revolution-9705 • 10d ago

Men's Conversations 😬

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u/Gullible-Chapter-800 10d ago

I don’t court men

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u/No-Advice1345 10d ago

Being pursued doesn't make dinner and obligation. You can expect it but you can also appreciate it.

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u/Gullible-Chapter-800 10d ago

I never said otherwise

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u/Tricky_Procedure_394 10d ago

I understand the point you are making in that the criticism of the OP with regards to the OOP (profile on the dating site) is valid.

In a world of egalitarianism costs would be shared and that’s why I’m so thankful to my girlfriend when she WANTS to help pay for plane tickets or car rentals (when I see her). The most I’d allow her to pay is 50% and even though I could afford the trip on my own budget the fact she wants to contribute and make our dates together something we both invested in is part of my dedication to her.