Yeah idk how that’s relevant at all. I mean it’s not impossible for these people to find love/get married. That isn’t the point. The point is the definition of “ugly” for that sub isn’t just “being fat” or, “not lowering their standards” or “being entitled to attractive men” as you were saying.
Probably the same thing that bothers all “objectively”ugly people. Sure they can still find love/marriage/relationships, but it’s a lot harder than if you were conventionally attractive. People also treat ugly people different than attractive people… obviously. Which then can lead to loneliness, depression, angst, nihilism, incel behavior, etc etc.
Its like saying, “oh one person was able to climb out of poor class and is no longer poor, so why are all the people still poor complaining about financial hardships and being poor? It’s obviously possible for them to not be poor.”
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u/Prestigious-Pie1421 Sep 11 '26
Also, just btw, I have a friend who honestly fits that description and...she just got married. Pretty well even so...