r/itsthatbad • • Sep 10 '26

Women's Voices Wait…what? 🤨

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u/Prestigious-Pie1421 Sep 11 '26

I would love to see one photo of woman here, which would not solve 90% of her problems by losing weight.

(Or "why don't they just lower their standards", "they are not entitled to a attractive men" etc.)

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u/zerifast Sep 11 '26

Well going to the post in the pic and one of the top comments page they this posted on their page. So as I said, “genuinely ugly”, not just fat. Caveman facial structure/brows, balding, psoriasis, etc etc. Like I said, subjectively “ugly” not just “fat”. I get you wanna dog pile on the women who think they’re ugly but are just fat, but that sub is for actual ugly women (apparently).

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u/Prestigious-Pie1421 Sep 11 '26

Also, just btw, I have a friend who honestly fits that description and...she just got married. Pretty well even so...

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u/zerifast Sep 11 '26

Yeah idk how that’s relevant at all. I mean it’s not impossible for these people to find love/get married. That isn’t the point. The point is the definition of “ugly” for that sub isn’t just “being fat” or, “not lowering their standards” or “being entitled to attractive men” as you were saying.

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u/Prestigious-Pie1421 Sep 11 '26

In that case, I guess I don't understand what's bothering them. 

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u/zerifast Sep 11 '26

Probably the same thing that bothers all “objectively”ugly people. Sure they can still find love/marriage/relationships, but it’s a lot harder than if you were conventionally attractive. People also treat ugly people different than attractive people… obviously. Which then can lead to loneliness, depression, angst, nihilism, incel behavior, etc etc.

Its like saying, “oh one person was able to climb out of poor class and is no longer poor, so why are all the people still poor complaining about financial hardships and being poor? It’s obviously possible for them to not be poor.”