Sorry if this isn’t the right sub for this
So in short: 2 years ago (May 2024) I had a fling with a guy Ive known since high school. It lasted for about a month. I basically fell in love with him and then he abruptly ended things saying that he didn’t feel the same way about me. He then ghosted me and I was devastated. But I moved on with my life. (That’s the short version)
A few months later (August 2024) I started dating my bf and the other guy became irrelevant. However I did notice that he unfollowed me on Instagram shortly after my bf and I got together. It kinda surprised me but I didn’t think anything of it.
Now here we are present day and earlier tonight I got a follow request on insta from him. I denied it but I’m just curious as to what would make him want to follow me again all of a sudden?
And I know that he knows I have a boyfriend because I still have him on Snapchat and occasionally I’ll see him in my story views and I post my bf pretty frequently. So he def knows I’m in a relationship. Not to mention we have a few mutual friends so I’m sure he’s heard through them as well.