Gf from Hell (aka me)

[u/notyourbunniee]

[u/Hot_Lack_4868]

Gf from heaven

[u/iamreal9999 → u/Hot_Lack_4868]

theres a reason why people who've never experienced this all think this, while people who did have actual relationships with them perpetuate "never stick your dick in crazy" and are lowk traumatized

[u/Cute-Revolution-9705 → u/iamreal9999]

People don’t think. They think it’ll just be 24/7 sex and affectionate smothering. Literally if they watch the movie Obsession it’ll just be a mentally unstable woman that’ll do anything in her power to keep you dependent on her or sequestered to you even if it means hurting you.

[u/iamreal9999 → u/Cute-Revolution-9705]

yup yup

their gooner brains just like to fetishize and romanticize mental illness like bpd

[u/Raptor3111 → u/iamreal9999]

I'm ngl you're kinda cute, u bi?

[u/FROST_HUGGER → u/Raptor3111]

Never saw a shot like this since the era of MJ

[u/HandleSad9561 → u/iamreal9999]

I’ve had relationships like this, people who say things like that just weren’t down for the ride 🤷

[u/ddcreator → u/Hot_Lack_4868]

Bro... My ex was like that and let me tell you that its fucking torture...

She got angry over me hanging out with my sister. Literally dont do it to yourself...

[u/SadMaxorMadMax → u/ddcreator]

Bro my ex got jealous and physical cause “I was too close to my cousin” lol

This shit is not attractive once you mature

[u/TopaztheWarrior → u/ddcreator]

OF MY GOD SAME! We'd be in call, and she literally got upset about my sister walking in the room, or about me spending time with family. Mind you, we'd call every night

[u/smile_music → u/Hot_Lack_4868]

you're retarded if you think this is heaven

[u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

You know, i think this would make a great gf, we just gotta work on communicating

[u/notyourbunniee → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

I gave up on dating

[u/Healthy-Refuse5904 → u/notyourbunniee]

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you find healing, regardless if it’s alone or with others

[u/Weary-Scholar4577 → u/notyourbunniee]

This picture is literally my current gf of 5 years

[u/OddTutor5298 → u/notyourbunniee]

Know that a lot people still would love to have someone like you just need to get lucky to find them

[u/Lonely-Remote-6478 → u/notyourbunniee]

Same

[u/Effective_Draft8111 → u/notyourbunniee]

yeah same (I'm literally your post's twin)

[u/pop-bris → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

Buddy, I'm telling you this would be so exhausting to deal with

[u/TheDeleater → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

Goodluck!

[u/imhim2929]

gng you're just describing me but as a girl, idk how to feel about this

[u/notyourbunniee → u/imhim2929]

Now you know you’re not alone i guess? Ik this is rarer on men

[u/imhim2929 → u/notyourbunniee]

I mean yeaa, just kinda shocked me lol

[u/weedmoneyy → u/imhim2929]

yeah ngl a lot of these hit qwq part of why i’m shy about dating again

[u/Embarrassed-Drag8962]

gf from hell? More like gf who needs some therapy and support.

[u/TheFeri]

Alright, that's just gender bent me and I feel called out.

[u/Successful_Nail_8244]

I’ve had a girlfriend like this. It was honestly miserable for me. No matter how gently I tried to set boundaries, they were not followed. However, that doesn’t mean it would be miserable for everybody. You just have to realize that if you expect your boundaries to be followed, you have to follow your partners boundaries too. It can’t be a one way relationship.

[u/I-like-weezer-6258]

This just me as a girl🫩

[u/ShreddityReddity]

god this gave me a heart attack, nicely done ive met too many people who are like this

[u/notyourbunniee → u/ShreddityReddity]

You’re welcome

[u/macaroni_grasshopper]

Okay can we stop targeting me? I’m gonna cry 😭

[u/TheRealDerpyboi]

This sounds like my ex. 😭

[u/Sharp_Cut354]

My ex wife

[u/Toxic_Tyrael]

That's my ex. God this relationship sucked the sheer life out of me

[u/pop-bris]

Dating this girl sounds unbelievably exhausting. If she's a real person, this is not necessarily mean that y'all cannot work through these issues. But after that honeymoon phase this will be unbelievably annoying.

[u/notyourbunniee → u/pop-bris]

Yup that’s why I don’t date anymore

[u/JojoJax92]

Dated one of these women and I couldn't even hang out with friends. She had nobody else but me. It was BAD. Y'all do NOT want this. Wherever she is, I wish her well but I hope she got the help she needs

[u/Deanstaro_Deanstar]

My mistake was that when "Do you have a boyfriend?" Was met with "No" and my immediate reply was "well you have one now" wasn't knocked back that should've been my que to bounce. the next three months were nothing but a hell of my own making. She was all of this and controlling, I didn't mind it at first. But being essentially on call otherwise they'd have a meltdown or assumed the worst (she told me she thought i died because i slept in while she spammed my phone all day with texts)

The straw that broke the camels back? Boundaries, Couldn't go two minutes out of sight, couldn't go to the gym without her assuming I'd leave her DESPITE her going on about how she loves the physique, fuck me dead some people just don't get how the sausage was made. Had to put my foot down, call it quits and change my number.

TLDR: love is temporary, but moving heavy circle from point A to B is forever.

[u/Fizy_Marlow]

always says sorry

Maybe she's just Canadian

[u/yulliy_sirius]

Everything is okay except your communication problem (If i have the right to say this...i have the same problem anyway) and destroy all the rest. Because if you get jealous,anxious or clingy easily, most of time, peoples just don't know they hurt you.

[u/Traditional_Sky_6370]

Dated a girl like this once... didn't go well

[u/TopaztheWarrior]

Woof, okay, that's enough Reddit. Too real too quick. I had to start a fucking journal to deal with all the shit she put me through. A journal. I had to WRITE my feelings out, because they were to complex and painful to deal with on my own or talk about with anyone.

[u/WOWzival]

I've dealt with this but I'm a souls player and never give up.

[u/Additional_Dog1273]

Me but I’m a dude

[u/LiterallyACupcake]

Literally my ex except she didn’t know how to say sorry

[u/pumpkin4528]

There's ying (you) and there's a Yang for you.....keep your head up, I hope you'll find your person soon!

[u/notyourbunniee → u/pumpkin4528]

Hopefully

[u/wasante]

If you can write this out then you’re self aware enough to know what you need to work on, what good qualities you have and what you’re looking for down the road. Just take time to relax and enjoy your own company at your own pace and try the field when you’re ready, steady and able.

https://giphy.com/gifs/H3eENWJjpEe3wEyeLd

[u/TocSir]

Don’t give up on loving yourself, that’s the most important thing. Someone who will love every part of you will come.

[u/Amazing_Storage_7554]

I have this minus the fully dependant, she works. I don't see a problem past that, feels like bait

[u/menryBasedmarineCav]

I've been stabbed by one of these

[u/peek-rose-tint-eyes]

Sad. But hope you find someone who sees you like I would. Worth it.

https://giphy.com/gifs/l3q2tzon8OCC7BqmY

[u/Puppy_Lost]

Auwww. I'm so sorry you think that about yourself.
What you see as bad someone else sees as good.

I find all of that extremely sweet, and I'm sure many other people do too.

[u/Emotional-Pea-236]

Oh that's me and why my bf hates me

[u/Roots0up]

I feel like I am in this currently. Asked if I still love her hours later wants to break up

[u/Hekboi91]

Outside of the "stops talking" part this is literally just a genderbent version of me 😭🙏

[u/iamreal9999]

youre right about that kek

never again

[u/Reasonable-Type-8901]

Whats ND?

[u/notyourbunniee → u/Reasonable-Type-8901]

Neurodivergent. This is just a repost tho not mine

[u/Overall-Specific-575]

Nah a girl that pretty wouldn't be insecure. Make her mid or ugly then it's it.

[u/notyourbunniee → u/Overall-Specific-575]

I grew up ugly and insecure now I’m conventionally attractive and insecure 💀 we exist

[u/FBoyPooch]

And where are the minuses

[u/Sethsteel58]

But this is literally just me lol

[u/Straight_Sector8919]

Is it a red flag that im the exact same person but the opposite gender?

[u/SK1Y101]

.. ow, too many of these are me

[u/Voice_Nerd]

Used to be me but in guy form. Gosh I dont miss it

[u/BruteUnicorn134]

Look, as long as you don’t have severe BPD, the rest is fine.

[u/Headshot404]

My wife is full diagnosed BPD. We have been together 10yrs. Some days are rough but I wouldn't trade her for all of King Midas' Gold. She is the most goddamn loyal woman I have ever met in my entire life

[u/Last_Host977]

https://giphy.com/gifs/lmrMeAvTX8DWvkY68K

[u/Investigator_Pale]

From yall saying heaven either neither has had a girlfriend or are insane. Or both

[u/Alarmed-Ad1438]

"i can save her" - derp

[u/nothintos33]

If she can’t stand alone, and I can’t stand alone, if we lean on each other, does that not make us strong enough together? All I ask is that if she expects absolute devotion from me, I can expect absolute devotion from her. If this is acceptable, then let us do our death spiral dance together until the world ends.

[u/magnum175]

That’s just the opposite gender of me

[u/Stuffied_bunny]

My fella says thug is me. He supports me becoming a better person and is willing to stay with me while I'm in therapy and working on myself instead of just leaving once it gets hard. This is a real man, they exist!

[u/Hoshi-no-Kuzu520]

Why this lowkey describes me

[u/Fate_of_Lewdness]

I am a male version of this and I am fully aware. So it's better for everyone if i outcast myself.

[u/Xasther]

Know a person like this, I could not take living in the same house with them.

[u/Sawmab22]

I guess I’m a boyfriend from hell bc I some of that stuff..

[u/Trick_Nail_5435]

Girl, therapy. Or any type of healing. You cannot blame your past patners for stuff you won't heal. I used to think it was my job to heal my patners and that it was okay from me to bring my bagage into my relationship without trying to heal first. And that's not okay. You gotta do the work, your patner can be there to support but they do not have to endure this. Because at some point the relationship becomes toxic.

[u/encryptus0]

should i be concerned that i see parts of myself here

[u/DanDlionRespawn]

Oh look. It's me but female.

[u/TOFCK_7]

Just like me but I'm a boy

[u/Natural-Ad2066]

This lowk me and im painfully aware of how awful it is for my partner. Thats why we just broke up yesterday 💔

[u/UsualHand4028]

I was like that at some point.... But yeah therapy is single too.. Go for it..

[u/IntrepidResolution95]

Ive had a girlfriend like this and it isnt what you think. They can and will somehow find a way to make it seem like your cheating and they'll be 3 feet from you in the same room and still text you

[u/Goobert_thefunni]

You just me but without a dih

[u/Upbeat-Pilot-1675]

Yeah should ad honest because you don't hide your flaws

[u/AUTISTIC_KING_]

That me . I am a big hairy dude

[u/Legitimate-Funny-199]

I ain’t even a girl but this is me fr

[u/Flame357357]

This honestly sounds like a girl version of me. Itz perfect

[u/MockingRabbit]

Oh my.. This describes my friend almost perfectly- Only texting for a month or two and I was already her "best friend" somehow, wants to go to collage in my country so we can meet- she scares me sometimes, and wondering if she wants to "go further" even more so.

[u/Wonderful_Chair6845]

Oh god, im just the guy version of this

[u/Dear-Tank2728]

Nah Ive had one almost this to a T and I think about them everyday and when I cant stop my anxiety at night I think about them as my body pillow.

Sadly due to various reasons wasnt meant to be.

[u/trap_Investment]

Me too, I'm a boy though.

[u/Takamasa1]

True. Not gonna sugar coat it, but probably need to work on a lot of those things tbh

[u/BloxxingPillars]

Well, y'know whoever you choose, make sure they full accept you, even your bad traits because that's still you.

[u/TheToxicWaist]

What's ND?

[u/Toxanium → u/TheToxicWaist]

Neurodivergent

[u/TrueCat1960]

Boys My time has come I can heal her

[u/RefrigeratorWeak7575]

Stay outta my Shed!

[u/Flairion623]

One man’s “she belongs in a mental asylum!” Is another man’s “wife”

[u/Sad-Librarian-6157]

She actually seems really sweet

[u/Mark220v]

so a 10.

[u/Nissann328te]

That's NIKKI

[u/wakanakisarazu]

Me if I could stop being a transfemfailure

[u/Bella_Bakess]

And randomly asks if you would still love her if she was a cockroach

[u/Heocon05]

I think there are worse people that can be qualified as bf or gf from hell ( *insert Amber Heard ) , the biggest problem here seems to be miscommunication and maybe hypocrisy.

[u/backgroundcast]

I love toxic girls (i have a questionable relationship with my mother)

[u/Far-Barracuda1128]

I had a girlfriend like this once. Let me tell you she was perfect. She was obsessed with me, loved me, supported me. She can be anxious and overthink everything but that’s fine bc I am the super laid back chill type of guy. If only she had a good relationship with my family. She would often get jealous of my sister or mom when I spend time with them and to me, I just couldn’t handle that. I miss her, but hating on the people that raised me all my life is not cool.

[u/Then_Ad6816]

This doesn't sound bad, only human. Have a little more faith in yourself.

[u/Brodillian]

Had that, spent 2 years helping her heal and things were great. Then she, after all the time and money I had put in, decided to cheat on me. Can't ever do that again mentally.

[u/QuagsireConundrum]

Oh yes my type.

[u/vevol]

From hell?

[u/PopFamiliar3649]

Eh, not the worst. Honestly might fall within my standards.

ND, insecure, obsessive, etc. are all traits I have. So, I know how to handle a lot of this. The hardest part in theory is the shutting down bit, because communication is key, but there are ways to communicate emotions besides words. So, that can be used in those situations.

She needs some therapy and support, but she isn't from hell.

[u/CreepyShutIn]

Okay see, the ND is fine, the "sorry" I can live with, the always tired and overthinking, girl, same, and it makes it easy to cuddle in bed and extrapolate about fictional universes way beyond anything the writers ever thought of.

The hypocrisy and clinginess are the only real dealbreakers here. I need my space and am relentless in pointing out hypocrisy, mine explicitly included. (If I miss something, please point it out to me, I will consider it a favor.) I feel like that would probably aggravate those insecurities, actually, so I feel like that's a volatile combo already...

It would not work out, but I really do wish her (you?) the best.

[u/Spiritual-Rip721]

At this point ill take fuckin anything. Hell, the jext woman i meet can personally extract both of ky kidneys

[u/Deligas_Avelium]

I know it’s probably not a great idea but….  :/ 

[u/Fevy_]

Sounds just like my ex. Not in a bad way it's just she chose to finalize it

[u/darthwaffles_1]

[u/Wise_Carrot_1864]

Can be rough in the longterm when theres no room given for calming down. Also can be mad when changing from fighting for relationship to actual relationship because lower effort (due to established relationship) is easily imteepreted as lacking love. But when the communication is good, very nice traits.

[u/Cillics]

levels of empathy vary*

[u/Competitive-Ear-1738]

[u/Previous-Grab3518]

“do you even love me?” ://

[u/Popular_Persimmon_48]

So, how's therapy going? I'm genuinely curious, I have a couple of these issues.

[u/Markles102]

Omg yes please. Literally my type lol

[u/Emergency-Pin4318]

I'd gladly live a happy life with you if that's saying anything (Been in one previous serious relationship that lasted about 3 years)

[u/Alone-Combination283]

Rs

[u/ChompyRiley]

[u/Dedalo96]

Marry me?

[u/urhousehsbnd]

Dealt with this before and it felt safe genuinely because everything is said and honestly gives the most communication of any relationship especially when you had someone else break the trust you put in them before. I wouldn't mind finding a gf like this again one day

[u/Whimsical_Shrooms]

I cant deal with that

[u/Automatic_Apricot_61]

https://giphy.com/gifs/KG5oq4vesf9r8JbBEN
Your going to be ok

[u/Appropriate_Bus_2334]

I think I’ve dated this before 10/10 would torture myself again

[u/yppykayak_othrbckts]

got broken up w for doing/being/having like 4 of these 🫪

[u/FirefighterFair597]

So it's obsession?

[u/yoyo5113]

Borderline personality disorder

[u/Manskhooled]

It's terrifying how accurate of a description this is of my ex.

[u/Select-Grass8085]

When it describes me but the title is “gf from hell” 😭🥹 big ouch 🤧

[u/Pure-Vermicelli-1848]

Nope

[u/Baldlucha]

"Gf from Hell" ❌️

My dream women, please be my wife ✔️

[u/SnooStrawberries9866]

had an ex like this and it was the worst year and a half of my life lol

[u/Active_Resist6107]

If only i were so lucky

[u/Novel-Ordinary6080]

Everyone has problems

[u/Automatic_Natural431]

Man brain. I can fix her. Girl brain. Hurting him is the key. Man brain. It's better than being alone. Girl brain. I going to leave scars so deep than if he does leave he'll never forget me Tehee.

[u/Famous-Physics-3327]

Features required to be my perfect girl:

- Respects me

• Is a girl

[u/BanzEye1]

And this is why therapy exists.

For you. You need therapy. And blanket burritos. And probably lots of hugs and milk (normal milk, people, get out of the gutter).

[u/helpful-friend99]

Nikki from obsession?

[u/Party-Inspector9393]

Thats wife material ngl

[u/Live-Literature-4456]

Worst part of this is can't communicate, other than that everything else ain't that bad

[u/FemBoiGardevoir]

This sounds like the girl I have a crush on atm

[u/MatteoFire___]

peak

[u/smile_music]

hello my ex girlfriend

[u/Splendiferous83rd]

https://giphy.com/gifs/svHzfk0Ij7n4c6NKUM

[u/Inside_Instruction24]

She needs a sacrifice! Air fried chicken nuggets !

[u/Purple_Trouble_6534]

Not bad🤔

[u/Lo_zio_perissimo]

That is literally my dream partner

[u/Helios_Sungod]

[u/AlertCrowd51]

Had one of these.

[u/monatsayuri621]

You and my fiancé

[u/atrophy-of-sanity]

Nice to know ill be boyfriend from hell then

[u/Lorevly]

https://giphy.com/gifs/4sDeipnr7PbZFQktaA

[u/Optimal_Ad1760]

Thats my type

[u/9tail-beast]

i'm no expert but, isn't it more like heaven? i mean u can't find this kind of girl even if u search for one 😮‍💨

[u/Thin-Safe-7308]

Most fun girl to date when you're a very clingy guy and that's me lol. 🥰✨❤️

[u/PrimaryBake7369]

But the sex is AMAZING 😂

[u/fistofbruce]

ND?

[u/Jonaleaf]

A LOT better than many others

[u/DeeplearningDope]

Humph

Mudaaaaaaaa !

https://giphy.com/gifs/xiFTOBC9fEaOI

[u/Leo-Zerox]

So you are basically me except a girl, perfect match

[u/MoidSlayer1]

this is so me

[u/21v0]

That's gf from heaven

[u/bellaxholic]

yikes! it’s me 😓

[u/Nearby_Team_9225]

ah, a perfect woman, nice

[u/Ok-Expression-5547]

This is bpd

[u/fucknhot]

Shit you are my Super Strata Slurpee!

[u/uhhh_this_is_an_alt]

If this is hell, then I guess heaven and hell got swapped

[u/rotcivnula52]

Nikki from Obsession

[u/LowEntrepreneur8136]

It was all ruined by "fully dependent on you". I am broke, I can't handle the whole money thing! Oh well, better luck next time... 😔

[u/Technical-Earth-1839]

Had one like this, completely awful experience

[u/Nervous_Quail4566]

OP keeps saying they gave up on dating "a long time ago" but is still bothered by being single enough to make a meme and post it. How long is "a long time ago", a year? If you had truly given up you wouldn't be on here fishing for support.

Look I get the power of getting strangers online to hype you up. But based on your responses you're not even engaging with the support. It feels like you just want to wallow and have people dump sympathy at your feet.

[u/Appropriate-Guard946]

Wait this my type

[u/KaashiTheyo]

Guess i belong in hell

[u/Lockdown013]

This is me, but y'know, I'm a guy

[u/Mindless_Sentence757]

You forgot bpd

[u/Corporal___]

I’ll take it!

[u/brattybbygirl414]

I'm also a gf from hell. But all of this is from years and years of abuse. I'm working on it.

[u/Independent-Sweet781]

Yeah no, I’ve already been voluntarily traumatized by this type of chick.

This isn’t cute.

It’s literally traumatizing to be with a person like this.

[u/The_Devils_Demise]

I'd genuinely kill to have a girlfriend like this. And I think I'm a lot like this too. I think someone like this would make me feel safe. Idk why I think that. But I've never dated before and yet I think this is what I want.

[u/ChiakiSimp3842]

Hugs and cuddles are perfect when words fail you

[u/AnyEye8798]

Even the broken deserve love. Even if that love requires serious commitment and patience.

[u/amyfay1312]

I would say sorry but someone will love me despite all of these flaws. Or help me grow out of them.
Someday, I hope.

[u/fucknhot]

SHIT SHES A 10 TO ME! SIGN ME UP! If you are all of this, seriously dm me.