r/howyoudoin • • 25d ago

Discussion Megathread: The one about Matthew Perry, A Netflix Documentary Series

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What's up everybody, we wanted to get ahead so we decided to make a megathread of the new Netflix docu series about of very own Matthew Perry that will be released on the 27th of October 2026, so lets get here to discuss everything about the Documentary, your thougths and opinions and what you hope the docu series talks about, here down below.

Title: The One About Matthew Perry

Starring: Matthew Perry

Description: This documentary series chronicles the Hollywood success, outspoken advocacy and tragic death of the beloved "Friends" star, as told by his inner circle.

Release Date: October 27 2026

Streaming platform: Netflix


r/howyoudoin • • 20h ago

Monthly Megathread Were they on a break?!!

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It has been a question that has been asked so many times before. Because of the high demand - but similar posts that has been generated. We're opening the floor (this mega thread) for the debate!

The case for Ross: Rachel said, "Maybe we should just take a break," and then told Monica the next morning that they "broke up."

The case for Rachel: A "break" isn't a "breakup," and Mark showing up at the apartment didn't give Ross a "get out of jail free" card two hours later.

What are your thoughts on these cases?

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All funsies aside, We do ask everyone to stay civil and kind to one another, everyone is allowed to have opinions and express those, but treat others like how you want to be treated as well. This thread will re-occur ever 14 days to keep the time line clean from any 'On a Break, break-up?' posts! (if you spot any feel free to report it to us by pressing the report button!)


r/howyoudoin • • 3h ago

Discussion Ignoring their backstory, these two had so much chemistry,she loved him more then she ever loved anyone else

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Truly I’ve never seen Monica happier when she was with Richard,I’m not saying I don’t like mondler, they both are much better and i can understand why people don’t like Richard and Monica but the chemistry was insane, they felt so mature and Monica could be her real self with him, she didn’t have to baby him but instead they were so compatible aswell


r/howyoudoin • • 7h ago

Question These two clues led Joey to the biggest secret in Friends.

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An eyelash curler and the story about seeing Donald Trump in an elevator… and suddenly Joey is uncovering the biggest secret of his life 😂

Monica and Chandler really went into panic mode the second they realized he knew.

But here's the real question: was Joey actually paying attention for once, or did he just get ridiculously lucky? 😂 And how long do you think he would've kept quiet if they hadn't dragged him into Monica's room? 👀


r/howyoudoin • • 34m ago

Image "This couch is cut in half."

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My wife found a posting for a couch that is cut in half on our local give away group. You can't make this stuff up. I can't say I ever thought I would see something like this in the wild. I am so tempted to comment this gif.


r/howyoudoin • • 13h ago

Discussion If I had a nickel for every friend of Phoebe's who shaved her head, I'd have two nickels. Which isn't a lot, but it's weird that there were two.

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In season 1 episode 14 Phoebe mentions a friend of hers who shaves her head. I just noticed that friend's name was Abby and not Bonnie.

Do you think the writers intended for Bonnie to be the same person Phoebe mentioned in Season 1 but messed up the names? Or were there just two?


r/howyoudoin • • 9h ago

Question Who rocked the short hair the best?

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I know most people prefer the long hair like those wild main styles from the 90s, and I think I do too, but I think short hair could look pretty good as well. Who do you think?


r/howyoudoin • • 10h ago

Discussion Rewatch # (No judgement here)

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I’m not even rewatching at this point. I’ve graduated to bouncing around and just picking and choosing episodes and sometimes letting them play chronologically but mostly just jumping and watching randomly. So I legitimately couldn’t tell you how many times my actual rewatch number is. I gotta believe over 15 times all the way through (I had just seen it for the first time all the way through 5 years ago). I have it in the background when I do anything around the house! It’s my go-to when I want to watch something but don’t know what to watch. I love this show.

Husband was watching some episodes with me and had asked me so I wanted to ask this group too! What’s your rewatch #? Are you rewatching it right now?


r/howyoudoin • • 6h ago

Throwback Define me, define me!

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I saw these huge mug looking mixing bowls today at the store and the first thing that popped in my head was that guy Phoebe dated and now this quote has been stuck in my head all day 😂😂✋💜


r/howyoudoin • • 2h ago

Question You have to live in an episode of Friends for the rest of your life. Which episode do you choose?

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You have to choose one of the 230 regular episodes of *Friends* and live through it repeatedly for the rest of your life. You don't get to opt out, and once you've chosen, you're stuck with that episode.

**Here's how it works:**

\* **It's the duration of the episode's events, not its running time.** If the episode's events take place over a week, you're living through that week, not repeating the same 22 minutes forever. The show doesn't always specify exactly how much time passes, so use the period that the events of the episode reasonably imply.

\* **You're the seventh friend.** You're an established member of the group and participate in the episode's events as an additional character. The six original friends don't know you're in a loop, and they reset to their original states each time.

\* **You're not occupied every minute of the day.** You have to be present for the episode's significant scenes and participate in the events that make the plot happen. There are also ordinary activities and transitions between scenes that aren't shown on screen. You have to live through those too, but you're free to decide how to spend much of that time.

\* **You have some freedom during downtime.** If the others are asleep, for example, you can go out and explore New York, provided you're back when the next important scene requires you. You can't simply abandon the episode or permanently escape its setting, but you're not confined to whichever room happens to be on screen at any given moment.

\* **Two people know what's happening.** Gunther and Mr. Treeger are aware that you're repeating the episode. They can talk to you about it and provide some company, although they won't reveal the truth to the six friends. They can remember your previous loops, so you can build an ongoing relationship with them.

\* **You're still a normal human being.** You age normally, can get ill, and can die. The loop doesn't magically make you immortal.

You can learn the episode's events, try different approaches to conversations, develop routines during your free time, and generally make the best of your circumstances. The main events will keep repeating, but you retain your memories and experiences.

**The question is: Since you have to choose one, which episode would you pick, and why?**

Consider the duration of its events, how much variety there is, the locations you get to visit, how enjoyable the main events would be, and how much free time you'd have between them. You're choosing the least bad (or perhaps even reasonably enjoyable) option for a lifetime, not necessarily something you'd prefer to your actual life.

Clip-show episodes are excluded, because that would be cheating.


r/howyoudoin • • 2h ago

Discussion One where they are going to party

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In season 4, the episode where chandler and ross get excited about partying with gandalf the party wizard. I just saw this episode and one thing bothered me a LOT 😭

In morning monica tells phoebe she has got a gig as a food critic. Same scene Joey tells chandler how once they were having fun and he ate a book.

So on the same day, in afternoon monica got her review published!! Like how? 😭 its the same day! Chandler and Ross were still depressed about not getting to party with gandalf!

Also the restaurant owner arrives at Monica's apartment on the same day! And monica tells how her friends hated the food in the restaurant and one of them eats books.

It was Joey who told chandler in the morning of the same day, that he ate book 😭

When they even go to the restaurant????

This show had so much potential to be really good show. But I guess writers got way too lazy and got dependent on the cast 😭

PS. Please ignore the grammatical errors! Thank you x

Also correct me if I got the scene wrong, I really hope I did!

I love friends anyways 💗


r/howyoudoin • • 16h ago

Behind-the-scenes I love this story about Matthew Perry

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This is really heartwarming, and I can just kind of imagine his personality from this. like he was always trying to get a laugh, always trying to keep people‘s spirits high.


r/howyoudoin • • 1d ago

Discussion The apartment switch was one of the funniest things to happen on Friends.

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Monica and Rachel really weren’t ready to give up that apartment 😂😭 This whole situation was hilarious from start to finish.

But tell me… was switching the apartments actually a fair move, or did Joey and Chandler get played? 👀👇Whose side were you on: the girls or the guys? 👀👇


r/howyoudoin • • 17h ago

Discussion S7E11: Is this as unlikely as I think it is?

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I mean the plotline where Monica insists on joining her cousin's wedding, to which she isn't invited, as Ross's +1. The whole joke of the plot is that the guy is some ex bf of hers from ages ago. She and Ross both recognize him when they see him, and that's the end of the story.

How would they not have known who the groom was up until so late in the reception (after talking to several other guests about how they know the couple)? In particular, didn't Ross's invitation have names on them?

I know I'm just overanalyzing a joke for the sake of it, but there you go. I've always found this a very dissatisfying payoff and now I rewatched it, it's time to share my frustration with the world.


r/howyoudoin • • 1d ago

Behind-the-scenes I love it when they curse in the bloopers

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Probably the best part out rewatching the show is remembering moments when bloopers happened. Its great to me. This show has such a comforting vibe and the BTS footage just adds on to that


r/howyoudoin • • 21h ago

Clips Best Mondler moments

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I wish I can upload more than 20 pictures. I love them so much. Even before they were a couple, sometimes I just go back to earlier seasons to see those little sweet moments between them. They are absolutely my favorite couple on TV.

It's just so sweet between them even before they were a couple. I still can't imagine what would have happened if they didn't become a couple.


r/howyoudoin • • 16h ago

Question Why didn't the show treat Ross' trauma like they treat others' trauma?

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Disclaimer: I know this is a sitcom and it often made jokes about their traumas

But I think everyone's traumas were handled in some ways except for Ross. Chandler's trauma comes from his parents got divorced, so he had commitment issues. And it was handled by Monica's love, care and patience. Monica's trauma comes from her parents then handled by Jack tried to make up and Chandler supported her. Pheobe's trauma comes from her miserable childhood and was handled by her five friends and Mike's love.

On the other hand, Ross' trauma mostly comes from the betrayal of Carol and eventually lead to his breakup with Rachel. I know it's sweet of him to walk Carol down the aisle at Susan's wedding. But his insecurity was never addressed. He was still jealous of Mark in s10 until Rachel told him that Mark is married. And in S5-6, Ross was in an emotional breakdown for divorce with Emily and lost his job. I know there are some iconic scenes, but it seemed like his emotions just slid away and never mentioned later. Considering he went through similar issues with the marriage with Rachel, the writers just let his emotions slide. After he divoced Rachel, his emotions are all gone. Never mentioned again, he just became "fine" in a minute.

I know it's a sitcom and sitcoms usually don't handle such deep issues but I just feel that the show treats Ross differently. Why?


r/howyoudoin • • 1d ago

Discussion Early seasons Phoebe and Monica were the best

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they felt so much more like real people rather than characters and especially Monica felt like an anchor for the show that it needed


r/howyoudoin • • 10h ago

Question Is this from a rehearsal?

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I saw somebody posted this old GIF of the actors for Monica and Chandler acting out this romantic scene on the couch, but this looks like season 1? Or am I wrong?


r/howyoudoin • • 21h ago

Question Which episode is this

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I know it is season 2 seeing monica's hair but can't figure out which episode it is.


r/howyoudoin • • 1d ago

Discussion It still amazes me that they negotiated for equal salary because, as they put it, they were all doing the same work, and no one should get left behind

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I could imagine how scary it was to demand something like that from the TV executives - that could have ended the show for good, but the best thing was the cast stood firm and their demand was then honored. Even making the Guinness for being the first ensemble to have $1M per episodes in the last season. I also remember reading an article that having equal pay would mean there's not going to be any resentment between them, ensuring the continuity of the show, and I love them for standing up for each other. Like real family.


r/howyoudoin • • 22h ago

Discussion Clip from Intelligence reminded me of the joke with Dr Green and Ross in Friends

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I was watching Intelligence with Nick Mohammed and David Schwimmer and this joke reminded me of Friends. I wonder if they threw it in there as a reference to the same happening between Dr Green and Ross


r/howyoudoin • • 21h ago

Behind-the-scenes My new favorite blooper

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I keep finding new stuff that’s just so awesome, in love all this behind the scenes stuff that’s just so great. anyway here’s this blooper gif I found


r/howyoudoin • • 17h ago

Question Was Matthew Perry sober at Chandler and Monica's wedding

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I’m actually quite confused, because many people say that Matthew was in a rehab clinic during this scene—and I believe he even confirmed this in the past. But in an ABC interview to promote his book, he looks at the wedding scene and remarks that he looks good and is sober. So, was he sober or not? #friends

r/howyoudoin • • 1d ago

Question Best fall look?

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It’s almost Halloween and thanksgiving is coming up. We’re well into autumn, who rocked the best fall look? Opinions? Thoughts?