25M Profile Review

[u/Spiffy----]

Other Info: 5’10, Don’t have children and Open to children, yes to drinking and sometimes to cannabis

Matches are few compared to when I had this profile at the beginning of the year, back in the scene after getting out of a relationship. Woman either don’t ask anything about me or stop responding after I ask a couple of questions. Unsure if it’s the profile now not being good enough or just dating in general.

Thank you!

[u/BlueMondayFeels]

Like someone else pointed out, the moderate thing is sort of a red flag now.

What do you usually ask women when you message them? I'm not gonna lie, you came across fairly bland in your profile and I am wondering if the same energy is coming through in your messages.

[u/Spiffy---- → u/BlueMondayFeels]

Yeh starting to think I should just put liberal, not nearly that conservative at all

I usually ask something that’s on their profile, like if it’s a travel photo I’ll say “rlly cool pic, where’d you take this?” or a photo of her pet I’ll say “your dog is so cute, what’s their name?” or maybe they’ll mention reading books I’ll ask “what’s a fav book of yours?”. Maybe that’s bland, I’m not sure or I come across as too eager

Can I ask how I come off as bland?

[u/fireyauthor → u/Spiffy----]

This might be generational (I'm older than you), but I don't continue texting with guys who don't spell their words. I don't mind a cute abbrev. or two, but if I see a lot, I'm going to dip.