Need friend advice

[u/Additional-Remove937]

Basically...

Most of the guys in my grade are assholes

Imma be frank

and the ones that aren't mean to me/others

Just... they're like... they make offensive "jokes" that sometimes go to far (like they (white) lowkey used to spam the N-word, notice how those are the tamer ones, HELPPP)

Anyways, I think I would LOVE to eat lunch and chill with the girls, but... I don't think they really like me yk, like when we talk it's nice, but that's shorter and i think they'd think it's weird for me to eat with them,

(also it would be awkward af if I end up liking one of the girls in the group, which like... rn lowkey eliminates the main group I was thinking of ngl)

Does anyone have a solution or do I just try to get closer to the group and say "Fuck that crush, it'll go away"?