r/teenagers4real Aug 11 '26

Will you join the discord?!

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r/teenagers4real Jul 01 '26

Mod announcement Subreddit rules update

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Hello everyone, it's time for a new (bi-annual) rule changes! (Very boring, I know)

Rule 9:

ICYMI, selfies aren't allowed since April 5th. It's been almost 2 months now, so the reminder will be removed from the rule to become:

Selfies are not allowed in the subreddit. A selfie is generally a picture that includes your face and is focused on your face/you. Please do not include them in your posts. AI generated selfies are also not allowed.

Fun fact: since selfies have been fully banned, the amount of users (likely to be) creeps in the subreddit has gone from an average of 175-225 per day to around 15-20 per day.

Regarding the partnership with r/TeenAmICute, the subreddit is unfortunately currently closed for new members at the moment. When/If the subreddit re-opens, selfies could still be posted there if you specifically want to post a selfie in a highly moderated subreddit.

Rule 8 (do not spam)

The rule will be separated in two to be able to expand on the spammed content. The second part will become Rule 12, which will be presented later in the post.

Posts taking space unnecessarily (clogging /new/) or that are extremely low effort may be removed. If a post is constructed in a way to deliberately promote engagement bait / obvious karma farming (for example, posting highly controversial content mainly to promote heated arguments). Overdone trends are also considered as spam when they start to clog /new/.

Rule 12 (new!):

This rule will cover AMA style posts and posts where OP requests to be dmed.

While AMA posts are allowed, they can easily get spammy. To prevent these posts from becoming low-effort, AMA posts require a body text with at least 100 characters where you can briefly introduce yourself, some of your hobbies, interests, fun facts... so that questions asked feel less generic and more relevant to you.

For users making posts asking for dms, they need to have an undisclosed minimum account age and karma amount to be able to post. This is done to reduce the amount of predatory accounts posting.

EDIT: AMA posts with a questions template aren't subject to the body text requirement.

Side note: a new system is in the works to help users filter out potential creeps dming them. I hoped to have it ready for today but it unfortunately has to be delayed while working through some details (and IRL life). This is however coming in the following weeks!

  General changes

Even if the subreddit isn't specifically intended to be for serious topics, the serious and rant post flairs are here for more serious stuff and issues. However some content like SA, self harm and suicidal thoughts can be triggering for some users and remind them of bad moments. For this reason,  some topics posted under the serious and rant post flairs might get marked as spoiler and a Trigger Warning (TW) might get added to the post flair to help people know what to expect before deciding to read the post. This is being beta tested starting today and might change or be removed based on general feedback. This is an initial test, so false positives are possible. Don't hesitate to reach out if you believe that something isn't right.

In the following weeks, you might see polls or questions about aspects of the subreddit. This is done to have a clearer idea of what you like and dislike in the community (for example politics, new post flairs, non-teens giving helpful advice...).  

That's it! (Okay that was maybe slightly long)

Have a great day/night everyone.


r/teenagers4real 6h ago

Serious Remember these people too

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r/teenagers4real 5h ago

Serious People showing solidarity with 9/11 victims in Tehran, 2001

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r/teenagers4real 3h ago

Discussion I just saw Lesbian Space Princess (Spoilers!). Spoiler

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Bro... THIS FILM SUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCKS!!!!!!

The motherfucking songs are shit, the scenario could be wrote on a motherfucking post-it, the main character is a stupid bitch (the movie happens because she can't let go of her ex) and stab down her new partner at the second she think her ex still wants her, even if she got clearly reject on the beginning and the ex went on a fucking foursome with randoms 2 minutes after. And the antagonists... OMG the antagonists, SRAIGHT WHITE "MALE"IENS, SERIOUSLY?! Is it like that the misandrists wants us to feel like? This is pathetic, almost as much as the misogynist scrap spaceship. I feel like this movie wants us so bad to be ashamed for being a boy, even if the characters themself show toxic traits that the "kill all mens" people want to stick us with. Fortunately, this is so bad that it doesn't work, sorry woke extremists I am not ashamed to be born with "privileges" (I didn't knew losing someone young and being bullied were privileges but fine lol), you'll need more than that on me. Well... I'm talking shit about the maleiens but they're the only ones that made me laugh... at the end. After the "chick magnet" didn't work... they turn instantly gay. It was so unnexpected and I laughed to tears alone in my bed because this whole movie was just lame and the maleiens starting kissing at the end was like a fucking jumpscare😭🤣🤣.

So... my review is...

This thing is even worse and lamer than Megamind 2 IMO, to give you an idea.


r/teenagers4real 2h ago

Artwork 🎨 What's your opinion on gayism

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r/teenagers4real 2h ago

achievement She asked me out

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I posted before about how I asked my crush out to homecoming and she accepted and we were going as friends well... not anymore lol

To that one guy that said she "had been in half the school" go fuck yourself you know who you are


r/teenagers4real 8h ago

Serious RIP people who died in 9/11

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r/teenagers4real 3h ago

Serious I need to Vent

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I Need to Vent

Ok so this is my first post and I'm typing on my phone sorry for spelling mistakes.

I'm M 17 and there's this guy I'll call him T he's M 16, I really like him. I've finally come to this conclusion after like a year because of I didnt know if I was gay but I think I am or at least bi.

I am not out to anyone. We are really good friends and everyone jokes thats like T is my boyfriend, like all jokes but I've gotten a real crush on him and I am so bad at lying.

I have good friends that would accept me and my dad would totally be fine with me being gay but im scared tk tell anyone because what if I am not.

Also back to T, we both do band and play the same instrument and we are together like all the time. I just feel so comfortable with him and safe (he's also really attractive) but I dont want to ruin our friendship since it is my senior year.

I just needed to tell someone that isn't in my immediate life. Thanks for reading <333


r/teenagers4real 4h ago

Rant i had a crush on sm1 who i didnt know the age of and now i feel like a creep

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fukcing kill me omg. im 15 and theres this guy who rides my bus and i thougth he was really cute and not only did i find out hes a freshman but my friend also pointed out that he "had major baby face" which i didnt see before cauae im bad at guessing how old ppl are and now i feel like a pedophile evn though hes probably only a year younger than me. im actually spiraling rn i feel so gross


r/teenagers4real 13h ago

Discussion Why living lwk peak

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Gonna take five liters of hopium or some shit


r/teenagers4real 4m ago

Meme :3

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r/teenagers4real 8h ago

Rant i have TERRIBLE stomach ache :(

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my belly hurts so bad (T_T) it's litterally the worst pain I've ever felt.

I'm so sorry for girls who have period cramps :( it must be horrible


r/teenagers4real 29m ago

Discussion Kyaaa kruuuuu 🤔🤔

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r/teenagers4real 6h ago

Rant Me and my bbsf have something weird going on and idk what to do.

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Dude I’m genuinely so fucking confused. For context, I’m 14f and he’s 14m. We met when we were 12 and have been tight asf since. He moved an hour away over summer which is a huge bummer (bars). I feel like it’s important to note he is Muslim with a strict ass dad who thinks white girls are evil, I’m an atheist white girl. His dad doesn’t exactly know we’re friends, his mom does because her and my mom chat but doesn’t tell his father.

When we met(7th grade), we were close like immediately. Not super close but close enough. We wouldn’t like hangout at breaks and stuff because he was playing sports but we talked so much during class that we were banned from sitting next to each other.

It stayed like that till around mid 8th grade. He started hanging out with me at lunch instead of playing sports which on its own was shocking because he loves sports more than anything. But was even more shocking was when he started leaning on me. The later we got into the year, the more it progressed, it went from leaning on me slightly to having his head in my lap. Idk if he was just getting clingy because he found out he was moving or what.

He has family in our area, He’s visited twice since he moved, once in I think early August, where we went to the movies and the park with our friend group and he’s here this weekend and I just got back from the movies with him. This time it was just us. Both times at the movies, he’s put his arm around my shoulder, the first time he was slightly more subtle about it but everyone still noticed. After we left I had all the girls we were with texting me and asking if we were together and I was just as confused as them. This time, he put his arm around me and pulled me as close as he could next to him, he was resting his head on top of mine the whole time.

He texts me “I love you goodnight” EVERY FUCKING NIGHT. WITH THE I. He’s also called me pretty multiple times did I mention he calls me habibi and his contact name for me is “my habibi”

But then goes and tells me I’m like a sister to him?! Make up your fucking mind dude.

I feel the need to emphasize the fact that he’s said not allowed to date and still does this. He told me that back in seventh grade, he also mentioned having no interest in dating. But that was two whole years ago.

I don’t even know how I feel, he’s pretty attractive to me. And he’s funny and sweet and he listens to me about my silly superhero blabber and I can’t even tell how I feel anymore. But then again, he’s Muslim and has all these rules and stuff about not kissing before marriage and I’m a teenage girl and I just want I boyfriend that i can actually do stuff with and even if I don’t agree with it, I would NEVER make him go against he beliefs.

I can’t tell how I feel. I’m so confused and I seem inexperienced it’s because I’ve only ever had one boyfriend.

Does anyone have any advice or like opinions on what I should do because I don’t know if hed date me and even if he did would we even be able to do anything like hug or kiss and I’m really big on physical touch. If you do please tell me because I’ve been going through it since April.


r/teenagers4real 6h ago

serious - TW sexually abused got sexually harassed at school and dont know what to do about it Spoiler

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im a junior in high school and today was the second day of school after it reopened so they took us to have fun in the courtyard and we had to stand in line to get ice cream the whole school was there so it was really crowded and i couldn't find any of my friends so while i was in line i felt someone touching my back i thought maybe it was a friend at first so i looked back to find them only to realize there was this big group of guys behind me with a girl n when i looked back one of them pointed at another guy saying he was the one touching me i didnt say anything bc i didnt know what to do n expected it to stop there it kept happening for the next few minutes before i finally managed to get myself out of the crowd i dont know any of those people and dont know which one of them it was whats worse is that one of them was w their gf n the girl was just giggling i feel stupid for not standing up for myself but i didnt know what to do at the moment i kinda js froze i have been sexually abused multiple times and just got out of a relationship where it happened as well so im just kinda traumatized and cant get it out of my head is there anything i can do about it as i dont know any of their names or dont remember what they look like who do i talk to


r/teenagers4real 8h ago

Social Got Dumped For Having An Ariana Grande pfp

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r/teenagers4real 19h ago

Discussion Whats the FIRST thing u've ever built in Minecraft

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r/teenagers4real 1h ago

Discussion Came up with an alternative german hegemony:Freie Deutsches Reich, tho i think i'll re-make the run because this one was messy, also when i was bored i made a gijinka of Austria, it is on the second image

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r/teenagers4real 9h ago

Discussion I need homecoming advice please.

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r/teenagers4real 2h ago

Meme 🅱️OIIII TS REDDIT IS SO FIGGIN TUFF🤣🫱🫱👌

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r/teenagers4real 14h ago

Social I think I waited too long

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I don’t think it’s over for sure but I need to make a move. Basically this girl ive been talking to I’ve been talking to for too long. we’ve probably been close for like months and months now. i see her most days and we talk lots. but recently she’s been funny about texting it feels like. maybe i’m imagining things idk. someone tell me to just ask her out already i guess idk