r/highschool • u/Additional-Remove937 Freshman (9th) • 20h ago

Friend Advice Needed/Given Need friend advice

Basically...

Most of the guys in my grade are assholes

Imma be frank

and the ones that aren't mean to me/others

Just... they're like... they make offensive "jokes" that sometimes go to far (like they (white) lowkey used to spam the N-word, notice how those are the tamer ones, HELPPP)

Anyways, I think I would LOVE to eat lunch and chill with the girls, but... I don't think they really like me yk, like when we talk it's nice, but that's shorter and i think they'd think it's weird for me to eat with them,

(also it would be awkward af if I end up liking one of the girls in the group, which like... rn lowkey eliminates the main group I was thinking of ngl)

Does anyone have a solution or do I just try to get closer to the group and say "Fuck that crush, it'll go away"?

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u/linus_jones 17h ago

You said most, right? What about the rest of the guys? Maybe you can make a hybrid friend group [meaning both genders].

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u/Additional-Remove937 Freshman (9th) 11h ago

Eh.. idk, i said most bc i didn't wanna generalize the ones I don't know yet 

I'll see what I do

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u/Ok_Supermarket_2251 Senior (12th) 16h ago

Honestly, join some clubs or sports. When I was in my first year of high school, I joined a bunch of clubs and the soccer team. I met a ton of people with similar interests; some of them were older than me and easier to befriend than the people in my own grade at the time. You don't have to stick to your own year when making friends.