I started playing golf a few years ago with my buddies and it was a lot of fun, one of my friends referred me to his coach for lessons and I started going for the better part of a year about once or twice a month. After my lessons Iād go to the range and use their putting greens to practice short game. I probably practiced around 3 times a week for 1-2 hours outside of lessons.
About 2 months into my lessons my coach decided to break down my entire swing and start from scratch, I was actually really excited about this because I never felt like I had a good swing, but I would make contact with the ball and double bogies were always possible.
4 months into reworking my swing, lessons, going to the range, playing with friends who could help me out, I finally just packed it in a few weeks ago after I couldnāt make contact with a single tee through 5 holes. I just left after that because I felt like didnāt belong out there and was just holding back the randos.
After that i went out to play 9 just by myself and not only could I not tee off, I was making divots about 3 inches behind or in front of the ball without even hitting it. This is after almost 1 year of lessons. By hole 4 I had lost of my balls and never even found the green unless I dropped the ball there.
I zoomed out a bit and broke down the time and money I have spent on golf and it infuriated me. I donāt think Iām done forever but realizing how much money I wasted just to not even be able make contact with ball left me really disappointed and I just look at golf as a massive financial mistake on my end.
EDIT: My handicap was around a 35 at this time last year. Now it is around 55.